https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 09 Apr 2026 18:33:03 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441926 Fri, 13 Feb 2015 13:23:27 +0000 Daria 1441926@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sveta - will try JCrew, thanks for the suggestion.<br />I agree that white pants would work with a belt, something to consider. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441821 Fri, 13 Feb 2015 02:32:18 +0000 Sveta 1441821@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>First on BR sweater. I don't think this style makes you "big on top" - you look great. But I hear you on BR knitwear quality, I was not happy with it either. Try JCrew - I prefer their knitwear quality by far to BR for a similar price point.</p> <p>I like the fit on white Kuts. You can have them taken in the waist or wear a belt if they are not too big. Especially in white color you don't wnat your skinnies too tight &nbsp;- at least I don't.<br />Online shopping can be frustrating but I think it is more frustrating when your store options are so limited you are not even tempted to try on anything.&nbsp;<br />Online returns are just a part of the experience, you have to make piece with them.</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441818 Fri, 13 Feb 2015 02:28:01 +0000 Daria 1441818@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>AM - it means keep/return. Although my particular topic is more of a rant since I already decided to return.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441817 Fri, 13 Feb 2015 02:27:17 +0000 gradfashionista 1441817@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I hate returning items via mail, and just spent seventy dollars having four pairs of&nbsp;shoes shipped to me without any of them working out.<br />That said, I have larger feet, and stores often run out of 9-11. In order to get to the stores, I need to spend more than 1h&nbsp;each way, plus the time in the stores, plus the transportation cost.<br />I consider returns to the post office the better alternative, and remind myself that despite the recent non-refundable shipping&nbsp;expenses, it's still better than driving and parking. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441816 Fri, 13 Feb 2015 02:26:00 +0000 Daria 1441816@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks again for the comments and suggestions. I actually buy almost everything online, including clothes for kids and husband, yet somehow with my own wardrobe I'm not very successful (pants are especially tricky).&nbsp;<br />Annabelle - I'm not going to give up on cropped sweater look because as you pointed out it's a great option for casual office wear.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441814 Fri, 13 Feb 2015 02:20:24 +0000 AM 1441814@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Feeling lost. What is K/R? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441809 Fri, 13 Feb 2015 02:10:01 +0000 annabelle 1441809@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm a huge fan of online shopping, with free shipping both ways. (Shopbop, Asos, Yoox (if you take store credit), Revolve, Nordstrom, Zappos). I shop for my whole family this way. I simply expect on Saturday morning, I will be packing up some returns and bringing them to the local "mail it" place. It's a 30 minute process, including the drive. The fact that I have made the returns part of my weekly routine has made it less onerous, and I remind myself that buying online helps me avoid driving downtown, finding and paying for parking, experiencing pressure to buy (which I feel, even with the most unobtrusive sales staff; it's not "them," it's "me") </p> <p>I like your outfits, a lot; they are very cute. Have you thought about a cropped sweater instead of sweatshirt? They are more likely to be unbanded at the bottom, for a different silhouette that might absolve the issues you're trying to overcome with this BR sweatshirt. Cropped sweaters will have a little more dressed up go to work vibe, but not overdressed for casual work environment, by any means. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441704 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 23:26:16 +0000 K.M. 1441704@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm a big fan of the convenience of online shopping (I totally agree with Peri's point about the cost of driving, parking, etc). However, I find that once in a while (maybe twice a year?...) I need to go to a store to try things on. This is because, with changing trends in cuts (even subtle changes), what used to fit me no longer does, or I don't have an idea of how new cuts will fit. And as my body changes this is also helpful. So it's like an update on my sense of fits and trends and my body, and then I can go back to online shopping.</p> <p>PS. I used to relish the process of picking and trying on things at a store for sport (often not buying anything) until I became a mom and my time became ever more precious and scarce. It used to be a fun way to pass time, but now, I don't have time to pass, and if I do, it probably isn't at the mall. And now when I do it, it feels a bit like a guilty pleasure. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441703 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 23:25:41 +0000 Dimity 1441703@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You can make so many more decisions quickly&nbsp;when you're in a store trying on and touching and feeling the fabrics. It might be easier to do as you suggest and get someone to take care of the kids for a few hours so you can spend the time efficiently trying things and rejecting immediately the things that don't work.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441676 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 22:50:49 +0000 Daria 1441676@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Peri, I do agree with you. Moreover, while shopping online you can filter by color, size etc, thus eliminating visual "noise".&nbsp;<br />The only point - in B&amp;M stores you can actually touch the garment, thus eliminating those that are obviously poor quality. E.g. I wouldn't even bother trying on the BR sweater had I seen it in a real store. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441649 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 22:29:57 +0000 Laura (rhubarbgirl) 1441649@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Peri, great point. When I'm trying on pants/jeans in person, I'm delighted if one pair in ten fits me. So an average 50% return rate isn't that bad, and you get to try everything on in the privacy of your own home.</p> <p>Once you know how certain brands work for your body, you get a lot better at judging this stuff and knowing what to bother with ordering. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441527 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 18:51:35 +0000 rachylou 1441527@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The jeans don't look at all too tight in the size 0. The sweater... don't give up on slouchy yet: this isn't slouchy. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441522 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 18:48:39 +0000 Peri 1441522@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I do this too, but frankly find it less frustrating than B&amp;M shopping.&nbsp;</p> <p>Consider this: If I take 5 items into a dressing room I feel very lucky if I like one of them enough to buy. So the "success" rate is not higher at the mall, you just don't go through the buying and returning.&nbsp;</p> <p>Then consider gas and time for shopping. A lot of the time I feel shipping fees are not any worse than that.&nbsp;</p> <p>This is for someone who doesn't like shopping. Others who like it would feel differently. I think it takes a mix of both types of shopping, and just putting up with the pros and cons of each. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441514 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 18:35:18 +0000 Gaylene 1441514@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Have you considered getting the waist nipped in on the white jeans? It's a common alteration and one that my sister does regularly when jeans fit nicely in the hip but are too loose in the waist. That way, she can wear her jeans without a belt and not have to constantly be tugging them up. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441511 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 18:25:16 +0000 Daria 1441511@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks ladies, glad to hear that I'm not the only one so frustrated with online shopping. My current rate of return is definitely above 50%..<br />I agree that the sweater might be too long (Laura - I'm 5.6 so not petite but definitely not as tall as BR models!). It *could* actually look better with a longer shirt underneath, but due to quality issues I didn't want to bother.<br />Overall my conclusion is that online shopping requires lots of patience and determination. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441486 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 17:32:05 +0000 gardenchick 1441486@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yup, hear you!<br />&nbsp;I'm not that into spending the time in stores (nor do &nbsp;I really have the time). Recently ordered a sweater from AT in one size, then the next--the color was great but the fit did not work, both went back. <br />Similarly ordered leggings from Nordstrom that went back, and two sizes of cords--I ended up keeping one size. <br />So 1 out of 5 items ordered online was a keeper. Definitely better to use the stores that have free shipping, although even sending stuff back can take a trip to the post office. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441477 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 17:07:58 +0000 Susie 1441477@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Last month I ordered 7 clothing items and 2 pairs of shoes and ended up returning every single item so I understand your frustration.&nbsp;<br />Is the cropped sweater maybe a bit too long for you? And what do you mean by peeling?</p> <p>The KUT skinnies tend to run a bit big. I can't really see a big difference between the 2 sizes but maybe it's just not the best cut for you.&nbsp;</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441467 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 16:42:35 +0000 Liz 1441467@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Are you in a metro area where you can hit a store on your lunch hour or swing by for a quick half hour try-on session after work? You could gather an armload to quickly try on and photograph, then order the right color and size later, if you decided to buy.&nbsp;</p> <p>Otherwise, like Laura, I just plan on ordering multiple sizes and returning.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441462 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 16:34:14 +0000 Laura (rhubarbgirl) 1441462@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It does get tedious and frustrating, doesn't it? For me it helps to just accept it as part of the process, that it's highly unlikely that you won't have to return anything. In fact, I regularly order multiple sizes (esp. from places that have free shipping or free shipping when you order over a certain amount) and return what doesn't work. I'll have a little extra money tied up in my cc because of it, but it means I don't have to go through multiple order/return cycles. </p> <p>We've discussed it here before, but I don't remember what everyone's typical rate of return was on average. Mine is probably somewhere between a third and a half - which is a lot! </p> <p>From the pics, I wonder if the issue with the sweatshirt is that it's not actually cropped on you? From what I understand, the cropped sweatshirts are supposed to hit above the natural waist and yours is about on it. Is it a petite? You've obviously got a small frame so that might be the way you have to go. I like the colors of everything on you, though! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-kr-and-frustrations-of-online-shopping#post-1441348 Thu, 12 Feb 2015 13:49:06 +0000 Daria 1441348@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hello dear fabbers (and sorry for such&nbsp;a long post!),<br />I'm currently in the process of rebuilding my wardrobe after neglecting it since I started having kids several years ago. I work in an extremely casual office (and I'm a "back-end" computer scientist so don't have to deal with clients all that often), so I mostly need casual/smart casual pieces, with possibly some business casual thrown in the mix.<br />It started off well with me writing down my major "wardrobe holes" and then ordering a few pieces online. One of the (not so great) results of this experiments is pictured below.<br />White pair of Kuts skinnies is what I'm wearing in photo 1 (one of my wardrobe wishes is a pair of white jeans). I got size 2 and they are *slightly* too big, mostly in the waist and tummy area. They might look fine visually but I feel like I need to pull them up all the time.<br />I was almost sure 0 would be too small but decided to try regardless. I'm wearing size 0 charcoal pair of the same Kuts in photos 2,3 (size 0 was not available in white or in any light color). They do fit but I wonder if they look too tight (and of course charcoal jeans was not what I was after..)<br />&nbsp;Now on to the biggest frustration - BR cropped sweater that I'm wearing in all three photos. First of all, the quality is disappointing and I would be returning it even if the fit was perfect. It feels extremely cheap and is about to start peeling. Second - I was curious to try cropped slouchy sweater look but wonder whether it's my cup of tea.. I think it makes me look large at the top (I'm not) and it's especially obvious with the dark bottoms. What do you ladies think?<br />So overall a failure. I should probably leave my precious children for a couple of hours on a weekend and do some "real" shopping. Sigh.. </p>