https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Mon, 20 Apr 2026 04:28:52 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2096433 Sat, 01 Feb 2020 05:26:29 +0000 Barbara Diane 2096433@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your welcome Joy.<br /> Rachylou, yes! My husband definitely has opinions and a major say. I can’t tell you how much time was spent discussing which set of good china to register for. Luckily our style is fairly similar. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2093509 Sat, 18 Jan 2020 10:25:03 +0000 rachylou 2093509@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh dear, Barbara Diane... I think you’ve set me off on one of my armchair philosophising pontifications to myself... but I have to mention that I watch a lot of HGTV where they’re always ‘marrying the styles’ of couples... and you know... it’s intriguing... because also, how many dads have I known who have a room over the garage where they get to have their stuff while the rest of the place is giant pink cabbage roses... there IS another way! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2093487 Sat, 18 Jan 2020 02:49:06 +0000 Anonymous 2093487@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Barbara Diane, that is a positive way to think of it. Thank you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2091744 Sat, 11 Jan 2020 07:31:36 +0000 Barbara Diane 2091744@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Kari, that’s definitely true for me too. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2091704 Sat, 11 Jan 2020 02:16:48 +0000 Kari 2091704@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oooh. I like that, too. It resonates more with me RE: the way we have grown, and grown up, together over the years. I know I’m definitely different than I’d be if I hadn’t met my husband 12 years ago. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2091679 Sat, 11 Jan 2020 00:19:47 +0000 Barbara Diane 2091679@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Lisa P., Marilyn, The Cat, Style Fan, torontogirl, and Glory.<br /> The more challenging part will be to remember this </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2091277 Thu, 09 Jan 2020 22:44:02 +0000 Glory 2091277@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This resonates with me also. Compromise does seem to suggest that something must be forfeited. Blending makes me feel happier bout giving up all of my lovely shoes </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2091173 Thu, 09 Jan 2020 18:43:26 +0000 Helena 2091173@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love this. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2091161 Thu, 09 Jan 2020 18:12:47 +0000 Style Fan 2091161@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It is a great way of looking at relationships. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2091147 Thu, 09 Jan 2020 17:42:55 +0000 The Cat 2091147@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>As I wrote in a comment to Angie's post, I love her term ‘blending fashionable fabness and practical necessity.’ And I agree with you, Barbara Diane, that it is an interesting thought that also in other areas of our lives we do have the possibility to BLEND different opinions, ideas, perspectives, etc. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2091128 Thu, 09 Jan 2020 17:06:24 +0000 Marilyn 2091128@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Indeed.&nbsp; I suppose "compromise" has a somewhat negative connotation in that we are making concessions. "Blended" is more a coming together of various thoughts or ideas.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2091125 Thu, 09 Jan 2020 16:41:34 +0000 Anonymous 2091125@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmm. That's very interesting and insightful. &nbsp;I like that. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/aha-moment#post-2091121 Thu, 09 Jan 2020 16:35:14 +0000 Barbara Diane 2091121@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>In today’s post Angie spoke of using the word blended instead of the word compromise. I really think this is a new, really transforming and empowering way to think of choices and decisions in my marriage. Sometimes it’s just the little things but it is already changing my perspective for the better. </p>