https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 22 Apr 2026 04:45:10 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair/page/2#post-2029311 Wed, 22 May 2019 04:43:13 +0000 kellygirl 2029311@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>wow! Your day 2 looks WAY better than mine. I don't think it looks matted or frizzy at all. I usually use a flat iron to fix the waves on day 2--then use damp hands to fluff it a bit. I think your hair looks great on both day, TBH! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair/page/2#post-2029309 Wed, 22 May 2019 04:22:02 +0000 Gigi 2029309@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think your curls look amazing! Not frizzy or matted. Definitely keep wearing them.</p> <p>Some people are just biased against curls. There's nothing wrong with your hair texture. It looks beautiful. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2029251 Tue, 21 May 2019 20:55:55 +0000 Carla 2029251@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I, too, love your curls! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2029229 Tue, 21 May 2019 18:42:52 +0000 Suz 2029229@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow, I <b>LOVE </b>your curls!!!!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2029222 Tue, 21 May 2019 18:14:29 +0000 Liesbeth 2029222@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I would say day 1 looks a bit better, but not by much. Hardly any frizz and not matted, just a bit less fluffy (like only a fresh wash gives you). Often, I think we’re scrutinizing or own hair way more than others do. They probably don’t notice any difference from a normal distance. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2029215 Tue, 21 May 2019 17:25:42 +0000 texstyle 2029215@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>pil - I think it looks great day 2! Do you have one of those big wide tooth combs? That's what I use often to touch up curls without creating a frizzy look. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2029082 Tue, 21 May 2019 11:33:17 +0000 Liesbeth 2029082@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your hair looks gorgeous curled. Indeed, I pay good money and spend three excruciating hours at the salon to get it only half as good :).<br />I have hang-ups about my (natural) hair being too flat. But I count myself lucky no one was ever really pushy about it to me, so my choice to have it permed at the moment (a style I personally find much easier on an everyday basis) still feels very much like that: MY choice, at this specific time in life when I feel the style is also very current.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2029075 Tue, 21 May 2019 10:58:36 +0000 Inge 2029075@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh pil, your curly hair is beyond fantastic!! WOW!! I love it so much (and like other people have said: I wish my wavy hair would behave like that!-) I hope you felt fab sporting your curls? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2029030 Tue, 21 May 2019 02:19:42 +0000 Echo 2029030@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I tuned in too late to see what your mum said, but please don't take it to heart. Going through dementia with a loved one is so incredibly hurtful already, and a comment like that can take far to long to unpack and let go.&nbsp;</p> <p>What I DO know is that I love your hair. It is beautifully curly! Oh, how we wish for the things we do not have. My hair is straight and I have wanted curly hair my entire life... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2029027 Tue, 21 May 2019 01:40:16 +0000 Jaime 2029027@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Curls are fabulous and truly more current looking to my (biased) eye! Sorry about the mother issues, but they don't always know best.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2029006 Tue, 21 May 2019 00:03:20 +0000 pil 2029006@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Left for work right after posting so am now seeing comments - thanks for the encouragement! The curls are not something I ever tried prior to last year. Forum members were kind enough to offer product suggestions when I first tried this out.<br /> To answer Lesley’s question, I flat iron once and can just touch up spots as needed. Some days I can comb and go.<br /> I feel like a big baby still carrying my mom’s comment around, especially since she has dementia, but, she has always had a ‘thing’ about overweight people. So when friends say it ‘wasn’t her talking’ - I feel it was it was but she no longer has the filter to hold back.<br /> Therapy session over </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028999 Mon, 20 May 2019 23:46:28 +0000 lynn 2028999@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love the curls! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028995 Mon, 20 May 2019 23:29:13 +0000 Anonymous 2028995@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm sorry she was so mean to you You're Not fat, Not sloppy, and have beautiful curls! Both ways look nice, but I like the curls more! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028992 Mon, 20 May 2019 23:24:47 +0000 anne 2028992@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love your curls! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028973 Mon, 20 May 2019 20:31:09 +0000 MsMaven 2028973@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your curls are gorgeous. I like it straight too--you have a good cut and body.</p> <p>My mom spent so much time trying to get my absolutely straight fine hair to curl. Perms only made it frizzy. When I was in 8th grade and attended an end of year ceremony my mom was mad and said I looked like a witch because my hair went straight. When I went up to get an award from the principal, she told everyone that I was beautiful!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028965 Mon, 20 May 2019 20:12:32 +0000 bella 2028965@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your curls look fantastic. I am sorry, the people who are closest to us, know how to hurt us the most, with or without knowng. Lots of love!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028964 Mon, 20 May 2019 20:01:58 +0000 Laurie 2028964@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>If my hair would curl like that instead of just frizzing I would have that exact cut right now! Beautiful.&nbsp; You are lucky you can do both looks.&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028955 Mon, 20 May 2019 19:20:04 +0000 Bennett 2028955@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your hair is fantastic and healthy and polished either way you wear it. You are fortunate that it does both curly and straight so well.&nbsp;</p> <p>I wish I had some Mom advise for you because from experience I know these cruelties stick with you...&nbsp; and I always want people to feel better.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028936 Mon, 20 May 2019 18:37:21 +0000 smittie 2028936@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>WOW! The curls are so lovely! I think it's worth it to invest time in them! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028935 Mon, 20 May 2019 18:34:56 +0000 Angie 2028935@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>KILLER CURLS. I'm wowed. </p> <p>Sorry to hear about Mum’s remarks. It’s hurtful and that’s not so fab. Much love to you. Xo </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028887 Mon, 20 May 2019 16:22:15 +0000 RobinF 2028887@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the curls! I agree that they look more current. I have wavy hair and would love curls like yours. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028885 Mon, 20 May 2019 16:15:53 +0000 Lucy 2028885@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your curly hair is beautiful! It looks very nice straight as well, but if my hair looked as good as yours, I'd wear it curly every day! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028884 Mon, 20 May 2019 16:07:58 +0000 nemosmom 2028884@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>LOVE your curls! Very current and beautiful. Ignore your mom - don't let whatever she is going through bring you down. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028883 Mon, 20 May 2019 16:05:56 +0000 NancyW 2028883@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your wavy/curly hair is gorgeous. It is an ideal cut and beautifully showcases the color. Your mother is wrong. I can imagine how terribly those remarks stung. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028875 Mon, 20 May 2019 15:46:24 +0000 Anonymous 2028875@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Cardiff Girl</b> is right.&nbsp; A comment like that has more to do with what is going on in her own head than with you.&nbsp; I am sorry you had to hear it though.&nbsp; It is the type of thing that can weigh on you.&nbsp; Best wishes.&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028873 Mon, 20 May 2019 15:44:20 +0000 taylor 2028873@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your curls are fabulous.<br /> Hold your head high and know your curls are the envy of most women .<br /> Celebrate them ! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028871 Mon, 20 May 2019 15:41:58 +0000 Cardiff girl 2028871@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your curly hair is beautiful.Many people would pay a lot of money in the salon to try and get hair like that.Re Mothers comments.Stuff like this is usually nothing to do with you more to do with what’s going on in mother’s head but it still hurts none the less,try and rise above it.l would love to have hair like yours curly or straight. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028869 Mon, 20 May 2019 15:37:34 +0000 texstyle 2028869@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The curls are fantastic pil - don't be swayed by mom, she doesn't always know best ;-). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028868 Mon, 20 May 2019 15:19:44 +0000 JAileen 2028868@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The curly is sooo cute. Your mom is wrong. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again-with-the-hair#post-2028867 Mon, 20 May 2019 15:13:19 +0000 Lesley 2028867@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I can't believe straight is easier... doesn't it take a lot of time and work to straighten? I am biased, since I think I'm looking at my own texture in these photos, but I like curly too. When moms talk like that, it's time to ignore moms. </p>