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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Again! :(</title>
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				<title>Anonymous on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1117433</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Dec 2013 18:52:22 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So sorry for your loss, big Hug.
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				<title>Louise on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1117140</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Dec 2013 09:41:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Louise</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh no such sad news (((hugs))) x
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				<title>AJ on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1116543</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Dec 2013 19:17:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>AJ</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Dearest Bella, I'm so sorry. &#038;nbsp;Thank you so much for feeling comfortable with us to share this news. &#038;nbsp;I'll be keeping you and your hubby in my prayers. &#038;nbsp;&#038;lt;Hugs&#038;gt;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1113745</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 14 Dec 2013 04:42:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ah, this is hard. I am still a little hopeful, since you are still waiting or bloodwork. I am so sorry you are going through this. .
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				<title>Neel on "Again! :("</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 20:55:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Neel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh Bella I am so so sorry.  Loads of hugs to you.  I don't have any good advice but I will keep you in my prayers.  x
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				<title>Lyn D. on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1113369</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 20:50:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lyn D.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am sorry Bella, but glad that you know how much you are cared for on YLF.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1113055</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 16:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so very sorry to hear of your pain and loss, and know there's nothing I can say or do that would alter the outcome. I will, however, keep you in my prayers and send lots of hugs your way. Just know that I care, and hope this helps in some small way.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Again! :("</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 15:14:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bella, I had no idea! I'm so sorry for your terrible loss. I was thinking about posting an OT thread about how stressed out I am and how my shingles pain is back, but that is&#038;nbsp;&#060;i&#062;nothing&#060;/i&#062; compared to what you're going through, and on your birthday no less. I'm crying right now just thinking about you and wishing I could give you a hug. I can't imagine the pain you're in, and it's not just emotional I'm sure. The D&#038;amp;C can't exactly be a picnic. I will pray that you can find some comfort in the days ahead. Please hang in there and know that there are people all around the world who care about you! &#038;lt;&#038;lt;&#038;lt;HUGS&#038;gt;&#038;gt;&#038;gt;
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				<title>goldenpig on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112785</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 07:03:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>goldenpig</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so sorry Bella! Big hugs to you!
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				<title>anne on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112750</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 06:17:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>anne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bella, so very sorry to hear this.
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				<title>Jenava on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112698</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 04:29:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenava</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Dear Bella, I am so, so sorry. &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Ariadne on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112683</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 04:08:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ariadne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, Bella, I'm so infinitely sorry for your loss. &#038;nbsp;Sending you huge, gentle&#038;nbsp;Internet hugs.
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				<title>DonnaF on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112517</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 02:16:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>DonnaF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so sorry for your loss; this is so hard.&#038;nbsp; I'm not Buddhist, but I am reminded of Jizo-San, the patron saint/bodhisattva of children, both born and unborn.&#038;nbsp; I saw many Jizo-San decades ago when I was in Japan and was touched by the community of (most likely) women who put them there.&#038;nbsp; 
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				<title>Sveta on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112506</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 02:04:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sveta</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh Bella, I am so sorry! &#038;lt;&#038;lt;&#038;lt;Hugs!!!&#038;gt;&#038;gt;&#038;gt;
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				<title>MsMary on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112377</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 23:32:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MsMary</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, no!&#038;nbsp; I was afraid this was be the news when I saw your thread title!&#038;nbsp; I'm so sorry, dearest Bella!&#038;nbsp; Big hugs to you!!!
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				<title>pastrygirl on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112352</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 23:01:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>pastrygirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't usually notice the off topic section, but for some reason I did today… and I'm so sorry for your loss.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-sad icon-emoticon-sad "></span>  It's devastating enough to happen once. It's so hard. I hope you are able to find some support IRL.
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				<title>tarzy on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112344</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 22:49:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>tarzy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sending big hugs to you, my friend.
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				<title>Ornella on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112334</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 22:41:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ornella</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh Bella, I just found out about this. There is really nothing smart I can think of saying now, my best friend went through the same thing and all I can do is&#038;nbsp;send&#038;nbsp;you hugs and hope you'll find the strength to carry on soon.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Caro in Oz on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112265</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 21:45:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Caro in Oz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bella, I am so sorry. Thinking of you both. Take care of each other xxoo.
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				<title>Ginkgo on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112204</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 20:29:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ginkgo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so sorry, Bella, this is just so tough.
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				<title>Deborah on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112177</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 20:03:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bella I am so sorry.  My heart sank as I read your post.  Please don't loose hope and as Angie says there are options available to you.  One day at a time.  Sending you a hug and please know that I will be praying for you.
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				<title>Diana on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112106</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 19:08:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;((((hugs))))&#038;nbsp; I'm so sorry, Bella.
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				<title>Greyscale on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112084</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 18:53:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Greyscale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so sorry for your loss. Many gentle hugs for you. I'm sorry that you have to deal with this but you absolutely don't need to apologize for discussing it -&#038;nbsp;I'm glad you are able to talk about it, whether it's online here&#038;nbsp;or with your loved ones. It's such a common hidden tragedy and I know my good friends have felt so isolated when they went through a miscarriage.
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				<title>rae on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1112001</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 17:05:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so sorry, Bella. Big hugs to you. XOXO
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				<title>Inge on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again/page/2#post-1111972</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 16:39:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Inge</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh Bella-(((( I am so, so sorry. I wish you and hubby lots of strength. And NO need to apologize at all, sweet lady. On the contrary: we are here for you whenever you want to talk.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Warm hugs.&#060;br /&#062;xxx
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				<title>minimalist on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again#post-1111967</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 16:36:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>minimalist</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bella, I'm so sorry for your loss. Very glad that YLF is full of moral support.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Again! :("</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 16:35:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bella, I am so sorry. This is the sorority that nobody wants to belong to, and even though we don't &#034;know&#034; each other, I am thinking of you and wishing you peace. It just sucks, plain and simple. Be good to yourself in the days ahead. ((hugs))
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				<title>Mochi on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again#post-1111938</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 15:53:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mochi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm really sorry, Bella. I also had no idea when I posted in the birthday thread. That is so hard. Hugs.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Thistle on "Again! :("</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/again#post-1111925</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 15:30:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Thistle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so very, very sorry. I've had four miscarriages, so I understand your pain, frustration, and maybe even anger. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;It is very frustrating. And the hormones don't help, nor does the switch from hope, joy and excitement to having to deal with the D and C&#038;nbsp;and the loss.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You are in my thoughts and prayers. &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Angie on "Again! :("</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 15:16:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bella, I'm so sorry. I've had five miscarriages and it's awful. The D&#038;amp;C's are even more awful. You're already sad,&#038;nbsp;full of hormones that make you feel worse, and the surgeries are invasive. Plus you have to deal with the ongoing problem of recurring miscarriage after the ops. It's tough.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Feel free to&#038;nbsp;PM me if you want to talk about this further. You have options, and there are&#038;nbsp;ways to deal with these thoughts and emotions. Much love and hang in there. xo
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