https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 17 Apr 2026 20:47:12 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2070569 Mon, 21 Oct 2019 13:43:28 +0000 Angie 2070569@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Joyce B,</b> sounds good </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2070526 Mon, 21 Oct 2019 10:12:38 +0000 Joyce B 2070526@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you to all for taking the time to reply and for your suggestions.<br /> Rachy, your point about open toed shoes in a house of worship is spot on.<br /> I will look for a rose gold clutch like Sal, Jaileen and Notsaf suggested.<br /> Angie, so far I have not been enticed by the animal print pumps that I have seen as the heels seem high and I am aiming for comfortable shoes these days. I may just keep the outfit with what I have.<br /> Great point about nude stockings for open toes, Nemo, Becky, Sarah, Sal, Sisi, we have consensus with that .<br /> Thank you for the kind comments, Kkards and Robin.<br /> It is a good thing that I don’t need to shop for a dress.<br /> Sorry that it took me a while to reply as I have had some very crazy days lately. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2068654 Mon, 14 Oct 2019 12:17:05 +0000 RobinF 2068654@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like your outfit but personally would prefer black shoes with black tights. I like the gold shoes but would rather see them with nude hose - I'm weird about leg color/shoe color combinations so feel free to ignore :)&nbsp; I also wouldn't do open toe in December and think leopard is too casual for a black tie event, although I love those shoes. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2068653 Mon, 14 Oct 2019 12:13:43 +0000 Sisi 2068653@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like your outfit very much the way it is, shoes included. I would also do nude hose and, maybe,&nbsp; lighter&nbsp;bag or clutch. You look effortlessly chic!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2068632 Mon, 14 Oct 2019 06:58:48 +0000 Sal 2068632@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am with notsaf and JAileen.&nbsp; Nude hose, and ideally a lighter bag to match the shoes.&nbsp; Clutches can be picked up very cheaply - or see if you can borrow one.&nbsp; Most people are happy to lend evening clutches and there are no fit issues.</p> <p>I think the dress and jacket look fab on you and think rewearing is a great idea!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2068593 Mon, 14 Oct 2019 00:32:17 +0000 JAileen 2068593@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the dress and jacket. If you go with the shoes in #4, which I really really like, I think nude hose, and a smoky silvery bag would be perfect. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2068530 Sun, 13 Oct 2019 16:08:29 +0000 notsaf 2068530@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think a stacked heel is not dressy, so would exclude the peeptoes for this event for that reason. Is there a way you can match shoes and bag, which again to me reads more dressy? Either black shoes or a rose gold clutch? In either case my preference would be for sheer tights: call me old fashioned! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2068515 Sun, 13 Oct 2019 15:29:22 +0000 kkards 2068515@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>i like the outfit as you've shown it.... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2068507 Sun, 13 Oct 2019 15:01:55 +0000 Angie 2068507@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm with <b>Nemosmom.</b> That's a&nbsp;lovely&nbsp;outfit! And I&nbsp;vote&nbsp;closed toe shoes. Maybe you need animal print pumps?<b></b> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2068496 Sun, 13 Oct 2019 13:07:26 +0000 nemosmom 2068496@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the outfit as-is in your photo, with the closed-toe shoes. I must admit I <i>personally</i> avoid open toe shoes in the winter, so YMMV.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2068416 Sat, 12 Oct 2019 23:20:17 +0000 rachylou 2068416@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it’s the open back that would make the sandals odd... but it just registered with me that you’ll be wearing the outfit in a house of god... open toe shoes may or may not be welcome there... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2068409 Sat, 12 Oct 2019 22:53:59 +0000 SarahD8 2068409@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the idea of the gold open-toed booties -- to me they inject a dose of "current" into the outfit but read as dressier than the leopard version to me. Agree with the recommendation for nude hose with open toes.</p> <p>I must admit that I have never been to a "black tie optional" event so I will leave it to others to comment on the overall dressiness of the outfit.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2068362 Sat, 12 Oct 2019 16:41:44 +0000 Becky 2068362@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think nude hose if going open toes. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/advice-on-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2068361 Sat, 12 Oct 2019 16:30:21 +0000 Joyce B 2068361@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Dear fabbers,<br /> I will appreciate your advice. We will attend a black tie optional eve wedding of hub’s family. I am thinking of wearing what I am showing in the picture, purple cocktail dress, velvet jacket, black microfishnets, gold shoes and bling. I have other shoe options as below but would need hose and the microfishnets may not work with open toe shoes. The wedding will be in DC area at the end of December at a religious institution thus the jacket. It will probably be seasonally confused to wear the leopard sandals but could the open toed booties do and if so with what stockings as I will not go without those I can wear exactly as below too if that does not look out of style.<br /> I am trying to wear what I have and not spend on a new dress unless you think it is totally off. You can see where my<br /> money is going and it is not on the dress :)<br /> Please let me know what you think.<br /> TIA </p>