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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Accessory help</title>
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				<title>Briar on "Accessory help"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/accessory-help#post-364295</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jun 2011 03:07:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Briar</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks, ladies!  This is exactly the feedback I was hoping for!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My challenge has been dressing with more visual interest, but finding the right balance for my size, shape and style.  I have been purchasing more tops/blouses with texture/detail instead of my typical simple, solid knit t-shirts and plain cardigans. I am also replacing simple and delicate accessories with more interesting and substantial items, but this outfit was a perfect example of where simple jewelry would have worked better.  I'm still trying to develop an eye to know when I have on too much (overdone) vs. too little (plain) so really appreciate that YLF members are here to help!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;What I gleaned from your feedback that I believe will work for me is &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;1) the ruffles and the statement necklace together was too much for me and I didn't even think about earrings.  I agree that statement earrings or a simpler necklace would have been best with the ruffles.  I just couldn't wait to wear my new necklace!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;2) @jssloane-needed the reinforcement to mix metals, thank you!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;3) @aida-I did feel that either color or metallic shine would liven up the blue/white outfit.  The snakeskin belt is a great suggestion for both metallic and nude shoes, so this is going on the shopping list!  What my left/matchy-matchy brain cannot reconcile is wearing a colored belt with the metallic shoes.  I'll have to try it with my red belt and a colored scarf per @jssloane and resubmit for feedback.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;@suz-These shoes are similar to the Clarks Artisan Splendor Plume sandal.  The color is called grey metallic, but they are closer to bronze and the color works really well as a neutral against my pale skin.  I have fussy feet and these are WONDERFUL. I wear a 6C shoe and I fit in the Clarks 6.5 M US/5 D UK.
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				<title>Aida on "Accessory help"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/accessory-help#post-364157</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jun 2011 00:30:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aida</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Very nice outfit! I agree with Kari, Rute, and Angie :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think your key questions about color and over/under accessorizing are personal preference items  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  Did YOU feel like you needed more color, or more/less accessories?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;As far as other accessory options, I'd also second the suggestion of a colorful thin belt, if you like color and feel like you need some, or even a leopard print/snakeskin belt. No necklace+small glittery earrings would look cute. If you want to wear a necklace, a single strand of something (pearls, colorful stones, glass beads...) would be less competition with the pretty ruffles.
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				<title>Kappy on "Accessory help"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/accessory-help#post-363934</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 17:01:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kappy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great first WIW.  Love your shoes (and the whole outfit).
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				<title>modgrl on "Accessory help"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/accessory-help#post-363814</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 14:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>modgrl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hey there fellow shortie! I think you look lovely. Keep the earrings to a minimum, studs if anything at all and you are all set.
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				<title>Angie on "Accessory help"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/accessory-help#post-363794</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 13:59:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think this outfit works if you like a very accessorized style. Very nice!
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				<title>Freckles on "Accessory help"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/accessory-help#post-363781</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 13:45:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Freckles</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm also in accord with everyone else.  Beautiful combination which seems perfect for your work environment.  Totally respectful and the gorgeous blouse softens up a strong look.
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				<title>teri on "Accessory help"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/accessory-help#post-363767</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 13:18:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>teri</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I also agree with the others. That is a great white ruffle top
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				<title>Anonymous on "Accessory help"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 13:04:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with the others.  Remove the necklace.  The necklace is beautiful, so I can see why you would want to wear it.  You might try a plainer top tucked, the necklace, and a plain low contrast belt like black leather that won't compete with the necklace.&#060;br /&#062;
You have some lovely things to work with. Love the skirt on you and those gorgeous shoes!
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				<title>Suz on "Accessory help"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 12:56:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with the rest—the necklace can go (this time, but it's a lovely piece and will look great with another outfit!) &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love that belt with this outfit. It looks super with the shoes. BTW, are those shoes comfortable for you? I was eyeing them recently....
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				<title>Janet on "Accessory help"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 12:12:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yep, I'm in agreement with the suggestions that the necklace could be left off. Sometimes when I take off a necklace in a situation like this, I go with larger, danglier earrings. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;It's a great outfit! I'm a big fan of metallic shoes.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Jjsloane on "Accessory help"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/accessory-help#post-363732</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 10:06:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jjsloane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with all, the belt works, the blouse is beautiful, but the necklace is overkill for this outfit. I think the shoes act as a neutral so wouldn't worry about the metallic mixing (which is in anyway). For another mix you could try a colorful belt (or a long patterned scarf  as a belt?
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				<title>rute on "Accessory help"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 09:52:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rute</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great outfit! You look lovely with the tucked top! I would show the belt and take off the necklace.&#060;br /&#062;
belt+ruffles+boldnecklace.. is too much, instead you can wear a nice ring or earrings!
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				<title>Carolyn on "Accessory help"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 05:46:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the belt.  I think I would keep it over the necklace if you feel like it's too much.  And I adore the ruffles!
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				<title>Kari on "Accessory help"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 04:45:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think it's just a tad over-accessorized, but just barely.  If it were me, I would remove the necklace.  The chain belt adds great visual detail, but the blouse already has a lot going on with the ruffles, and the large statement necklace just isn't necessary.  You could always add a very delicate necklace in its place.  Love the metallic shoes.  I am a huge fan of color, but don't think that it's always necessary, either - a pretty, polished neutral outfit does the trick too, especially with the sheen of the metallic pieces and the textural interest in the top.
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				<title>Briar on "Accessory help"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 04:34:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Briar</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi, my first WIW : )&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I am short (5'2) and short waisted, so typically do not tuck, but I love this top, it's perfect for hot weather business casual office wear. The skirt has belt loops, so I felt I needed a belt otherwise the exposed loops would make me feel unfinished. However, I struggled with a belt and necklace combo based on the bronze shoe.&#060;br /&#062;
In a perfect world I could see a bright colored pump or sandal, but in the absence of such shoes, are the bright silver necklace and silver belt in conflict with the shoes? Am I over or under accessorized? Do I need more color in the outfit? Any suggestions  are appreciated!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;White sheer cotton tuxedo shirt layered on white camisole&#060;br /&#062;
Talbots Dark blue Denim pencil skirt&#060;br /&#062;
Clarks bronze sandals&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;thanks!
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