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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance</title>
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				<title>Staysfit on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 09 Feb 2018 11:32:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Staysfit</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your wardrobe is amazing!  What a wonderful honor for your friend to select you to be a part of her and her sons life in this way!  I’m sure this was a very special event in their life that they will always treasure.
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				<title>Windchime on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 09 Feb 2018 10:36:01 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great story, and your jacket and boots are fab!  I would be hard pressed to put together an outfit for a formal dance from my typical travel capsules--very impressed how well you pulled this off.
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				<title>Mainelady on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 09 Feb 2018 10:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look great!  A velvet jacket never fails!
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				<title>Helena on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 09 Feb 2018 01:16:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Helena</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a terrific sport. You look gorgeous in that jacket.
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				<title>Lynn on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 09 Feb 2018 01:10:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lynn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a good friend you are. The photo is just wonderful. That jacket is killer and you looked fabulous.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Sal on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 23:27:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sal</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look terrific - and it sounds fun.&#038;nbsp; Sometimes the unexpected is the most fun.&#038;nbsp; I love that jacket and your partner is very smart too.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And I agree with your summation of the benefits of such a night&#038;nbsp; My 13 year old attended a formal dance to mark the end of his middle school.&#038;nbsp; the class learnt a number of formal dances and the rule was that if someone asked you to dance you had to say yes.&#038;nbsp; Boys could dance together as could girls but girls had to wear a dress or skirt, and boys a tie and collar and not sneakers.&#038;nbsp; I did think the dress rules were a little rigid (I agree with the formality part though but think an option of girls wearing pants or culottes which they have for school would be more suitable).&#038;nbsp; Anyway it was a highly successful and fun night and my son learnt a lot.
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				<title>UmmLila (Lisa) on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 20:29:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>UmmLila (Lisa)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I did feel like I was out of my cultural element at this cotillion, which took place in a beautiful, women's social club building. However, I do see the value of the event, not necessarily because kids need to learn how to dance, but because they obviously enjoyed it – and the structured nature of it, with partners assigned so that no one was left out, and suggestions for how to have brief social interactions with partners in between dances is something that I don't think most kids experience at ordinary middle school dances. Respectful, formal social interaction between the sexes, starting early on, is not a bad thing in this world.
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				<title>Jane on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 20:18:01 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, what a nice thing to be part of. How fortunate to have that beautiful jacket with you. Such a great photo. I'm with Lisap, as the southern customs are fascinating to me.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Sara L. on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 17:05:10 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look great!&#038;nbsp; I love to dance so that sounds fun to me.&#038;nbsp; I kind of wish they did something similar in other parts of the country because my oldest is in middle school and man, is he socially awkward.&#038;nbsp; I've been having him practice introducing himself and it is painful to watch (and there's more to it than I initially thought) - stand up straight, don't look down, don't grip too hard or too soft, etc.
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				<title>Diana on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 16:21:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, you look great! I am super impressed that you managed to pull off a cotillion outfit out of a travel capsule. &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Anonymous on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 16:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a stunningly beautiful jacket . Looks fantastic on you. &#038;nbsp;These Southern customs are so intriguing to me.
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				<title>Angie on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 15:23:50 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;KILLER jacket, and an unexpected fun time.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Mary Beth (formerly LBD) on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 14:52:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mary Beth (formerly LBD)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your outfit is fabulous!&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;I love that jacket - I think you look sharp!&#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'm chuckling at the whole cotillion idea.&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;There is part of me that wants to roll my eyes, and there is part of me that is absolutely charmed** by it.&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;I love that there is this opportunity for people to come together and just dance.&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;I can't tell you how many times I've gone to a club, or a social event, and I see people just itching to dance, but they are held back either by a lack of knowledge, or a lack of confidence.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;i&#062;(**but not charmed enough to go ride shotgun on a herd of other people's kids.&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;You're a trooper.&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;Your friend totally owes you.)&#060;/i&#062;&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>JAileen on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 14:41:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JAileen</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow!  You look pretty good for unprepared.
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				<title>RobinF on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 14:20:34 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sounds like fun! That jacket is gorgeous!
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				<title>viva on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 13:56:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>viva</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fantastic outfit - that jacket is AMAZING. Love it!
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				<title>Sisi on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 13:47:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sisi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well, for being &#034;unprepared&#034; you ended up with a fab outfit! A velvet jacket is always&#038;nbsp;a precious ally.&#038;nbsp;What a nice tradition and how fun it must have been!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>karen13 on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 13:46:57 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;How sweet of you and how fun. I love that jacket, especially with the boots.
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				<title>lyn67 on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 13:18:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn67</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, the velvet jacket was spot on! And the boots!:-)
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				<title>Janet on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 13:11:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That’s an awesome story.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  isn’t it great to be able to pull together something quickly from your wardrobe? Those BOOTS, OMG! Want!
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				<title>Anonymous on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 05:12:01 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look very cute. Velvet jacket comes to the rescue!
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				<title>rachylou on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 05:03:37 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ha! Fun!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I used to be able to curtsy and touch my forehead to the floor. I think I’d pull something if I tried that now. Lol!
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				<title>Gigi on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 04:57:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Gigi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great outfit! The booties look amazing.
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				<title>Firecracker (Sharan) on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 03:59:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Firecracker (Sharan)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Way to go with what you had. You are a good sport, and a very chic one, too. Good thing that you travel with a gorgeous velvet jacket and smashing blue metallic booties. You never know what may come up!
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				<title>Jaime on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 03:50:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh my, you are a good sport! Love the jacket on you, you look fab!
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				<title>columbine(erin) on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 03:05:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>columbine(erin)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look amazing!
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				<title>The Cat on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 03:03:36 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Cute story. And I, too, love your velvet jacket--and your sporty attitude. I guess you were a very popular guest.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Kathie on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 01:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I’m not sure if I love the outfit, or the story behind it more. Wonderful, all the way around!
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				<title>SarahD8 on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 01:26:38 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This is the most adorable ever. And, you look great!
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				<title>jussie on "A very silly WIW situation - unprepared for a cotillion dance"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 01:25:29 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Gorgeous outfit-the jacket and the boots are fun and festive  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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