YouLookFab Forum » Topic: A sad loss

YouLookFab Forum » Topic: A sad loss https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Tue, 28 Apr 2026 23:53:28 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php Jjsloane on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/3#post-1005271 Tue, 13 Aug 2013 23:41:38 +0000 Jjsloane 1005271@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bella I am so sorry to read this. (I get to OT very infrequently) I admit since our talk in NY I have been hoping to see you in pregnancy WIWs. I know very well the sadness and pain you may be experiencing. All I can send are virtual hugs and if you need to "talk" please message. I have been where you are (at 12 weeks between my DC). There is always hope, but only time can help you heal from this loss.  elpgal on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/3#post-1004670 Tue, 13 Aug 2013 03:57:26 +0000 elpgal 1004670@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bella, Sorry to hear this. I hope you find support IRL through the emotional ups and downs. AJ on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/3#post-1004665 Tue, 13 Aug 2013 03:55:28 +0000 AJ 1004665@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bella, I just saw this and wanted to add my hugs and sympathy. I can't imagine how hard this must be. Please seek our company as often as you need. You are greatly missed. Katiepea on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/3#post-1001397 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 09:39:47 +0000 Katiepea 1001397@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bella, I'm sorry to hear this sad news.   Twelve years ago I lost my first baby at the end of the first trimester, so believe me, I honestly know how it hurts and how intense your grief can be.   Please PM me if you need support, even if it is a month or two on from now. (Personally for me, some of the toughest times were in the weeks after I lost the baby when it felt like everyone had forgotten my grief and that "I should be over it by now".) x AviaMariah on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-995723 Wed, 31 Jul 2013 23:16:28 +0000 AviaMariah 995723@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ So sorry for your loss.  I second what Suz said about the "invisible" loss and am so glad you posted for support.  Hopefully you have good support IRL also.   Anonymous on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-995604 Wed, 31 Jul 2013 20:46:58 +0000 Anonymous 995604@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I'm so sorry for your loss, Bella. While I haven't experienced anything like that, my mother gave birth to still-born twins. Had they lived, there would be 8 of us. As it is, there are 6. I'm the youngest. So yes, it's possible to go on to have children. It's not much consolation, I know, but my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Lots of hugs! Ruth biscuitsmom on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-995593 Wed, 31 Jul 2013 20:24:56 +0000 biscuitsmom 995593@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am SO sorry to hear this.... I have nothing more to say, except I hope the passing of time brings you more peace. Not to discount this sad experience, but this is not the final outcome for your lifetime, please remember that. Karie on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-995326 Wed, 31 Jul 2013 16:02:21 +0000 Karie 995326@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am so sorry to hear this - hugs and prayers for you. bella on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-995297 Wed, 31 Jul 2013 15:45:15 +0000 bella 995297@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Thank you very much once again - particularly to those who shared their own stories of MC. It is nice to hear stories about women having healthy babies after one or multiple MCs.  velvetychocolate on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-994950 Wed, 31 Jul 2013 04:48:43 +0000 velvetychocolate 994950@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am so sorry for your loss Bella. This is awful, and I've been through it myself. Sending over extra hugs and lots of sympathy. It's a very sad time, and extremely tough to process emotionally. I hope your DH is taking extra good care of you and that you're taking some down time to heal. Please take extra good care of yourself, and know that you're in our thoughts. Lena on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-994944 Wed, 31 Jul 2013 04:33:57 +0000 Lena 994944@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bella, I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Take care of yourself. Hil on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-993788 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 09:34:52 +0000 Hil 993788@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hi Bella - I am so sorry for your loss! Thank you for coming her to share with us. The loss of a baby, no matter at what stage is traumatic and my heart goes out to you. Hugs and YLF love and strength to you! x CocoLion on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-993767 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 06:31:56 +0000 CocoLion 993767@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh I am so sad for you Bella.  I have been in your same shoes, it is a sad feeling plus you are likely to have steep hormone fluctuations influencing your state of mind as well.  Please take care and perhaps allow yourself some time, maybe some pampering would help. Anonymous on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-993718 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 04:06:09 +0000 Anonymous 993718@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bella, I'm so, so sorry for your incredible loss. You are right to come around for some YLF love! I always wondered about that old-fashioned rule not to tell anyone you were pregnant for 3 months--was it so that know one would ever know if you happened to miscarry? If so, that's crazy. I always thought if I had a miscarriage, I'd need every bit of love and support I could get. We are here for you Bella. Please know our hearts go out to you. You may have rationalized the process, but as women, we have strong emotions too, and they cannot be ignored. This can't be easy, and it's okay to grieve. <<HUGS>> Janet on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-993571 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 01:44:26 +0000 Janet 993571@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bella, I am late to this news but just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you. I know this is a very painful experience, and not everyone understands how difficult it is. I'm sorry for your loss, and I'm sending you a big hug. Take care. Sheila on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-993447 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 22:50:43 +0000 Sheila 993447@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am so sorry for your loss and cannot imagine the roller coaster of emotions in your life...will be thinking positive thoughts for you as your body recovers and you look forward to a brighter future. Good luck and God bless. abc on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-993396 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 21:56:27 +0000 abc 993396@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bella, so sorry for your loss.  Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. cheryl on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-993389 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 21:40:27 +0000 cheryl 993389@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you big hugs and prayers. celia on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-993195 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 19:30:28 +0000 celia 993195@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Big hugs to you. Parsley on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-993162 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 19:08:27 +0000 Parsley 993162@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I'm so very sorry, Bella! It's a more difficult loss than a lot of people realize. Sending big hugs to you. Anonymous on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-993108 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 18:12:26 +0000 Anonymous 993108@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Heartbreaking- Big hug.  Anonymous on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-993106 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 18:09:00 +0000 Anonymous 993106@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am so sorry to hear about this Bella. I am sending you a million hugs. Glory on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-993041 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 17:13:11 +0000 Glory 993041@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bella I am so sorry for your loss. Big virtual hug.  ManidipaM on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-992979 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 16:20:08 +0000 ManidipaM 992979@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bella, I am so very sorry. I remember being there and it is not an easy place. These 'early losses' are the price we pay for better monitoring technology I fear, but I know this knowledge does not make it easier on the heart. Big hugs. rae on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-992925 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 15:05:39 +0000 rae 992925@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ So sorry for your loss, Bella. Big hugs and good thoughts going your way.  bella on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-992859 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 13:46:54 +0000 bella 992859@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Thank you so much for your kind, gentle, understanding words. They mean a lot to me.  Big hugs to you all!  Lyn D. on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-992775 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 10:25:52 +0000 Lyn D. 992775@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hoping our good wishes are helpful to you at this tough time. Ornella on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-992759 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 08:25:37 +0000 Ornella 992759@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ This is sadly a familiar story from a few close people and I am not wiser for any of it, I still cannot imagine how you must feel. I am so, so sorry. Be sad, be angry, allow yourself the time and space you need to mourn, take all the time you need and then try to move on. Take care bella. Big, big hug. Jaime on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-992758 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 08:24:51 +0000 Jaime 992758@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ So sorry and warmest thoughts and sympathy. Marley on "A sad loss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-sad-loss/page/2#post-992729 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 05:15:41 +0000 Marley 992729@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh Bella, I am so sorry to hear this!  These kinds of losses can sometimes be the most difficult due to their invisible nature to other people.  Please take the time necessary to mourn your loss and recover physically as well as emotionally!  I am sending you many prayers, as well as my love!