https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 08 May 2026 20:10:38 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-103609 Thu, 29 Oct 2009 10:29:03 +0000 KarinSwe 103609@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi yublocka, thanks for your post! I am feeling lots and lots better now, thank you! I got a really big push through by reading all the amazing, supportive and encouraging posts here, which I am so grateful for! I've put the replies in the back of my head and return now and then in my thoughts </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-102767 Fri, 23 Oct 2009 15:25:39 +0000 yublocka 102767@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>R+J I am catching up (waaaay behind) on 1 week old posts and wanted to say in this wonderful thread your reply was one of the most heartfelt I have ever read on ylf - and that is saying something. KarinSwe how are you feeling about things now? Hopefully better?? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101801 Sun, 18 Oct 2009 20:23:20 +0000 KarinSwe 101801@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Angie! I DID feel really great wearing it! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101800 Sun, 18 Oct 2009 20:16:15 +0000 Angie 101800@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>KILLER outfit, Karin. I hope you felt as fabulous as you looked :0) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101797 Sun, 18 Oct 2009 20:06:29 +0000 KarinSwe 101797@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Maya - I definitely agree with everything you say! From trying not to dwell on how one looked a few years ago, to not wanting to wait 10 years to actually appreciate what you look like, to accepting that you do change. For me it's also ironic to look at pics of myself in my late teens, remembering how I would annoy myself over my pouty tummy... which I can tell now, 20 pounds later, was hardly existing! So yes, my body has changed, but I still have the same "issue" about it. But I'm really trying to work around it, to focus on what I love about my body instead, sometimes loving every part of it, trying to hold on to that feeling! And YLF has helped me SO much in realising how to dress in a more flattering way, which is just amazing for me!</p> <p>Thanks Tanya and laura65 for the recognition! It IS good to know that you're not alone - though in a way it's a bit sad too, isn't it? Wouldn't it be great if everyone could just feel GREAT about their bodies? In an ideal world...</p> <p>And thanks Angie! I did feel great during the night - and here's how I finally looked, if you want to see! (sorry it's a bit blurry!) <a href="http://i646.photobucket.com/albums/uu190/KarinSwe/New%20dress/2DSCF0143.jpg" rel="nofollow">http://i646.photobucket.com/al.....CF0143.jpg</a></p> <p>Again, I can't enough stress how helpful this has been for me... Both this specific post and all the amazing replies, and the whole YLF in general. Only in these past months when I've been a member I've changed so much - in the way I see and think about myself, my clothes and my style - and that wouldn't have been possible without you Angie, and each and everyone else here! So, THANK YOU! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101672 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 23:57:24 +0000 Christie 101672@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Maya is right, there is a learning (and accepting) curve to adjusting to womanly curves. But the upside is, curves are beautiful! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101670 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 23:52:54 +0000 Angie 101670@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I’m so glad you’re feeling better today, Karin! Bouncing back so quickly is truly stylish. It shows maturity and chutzpa. I can see you holding your head up higher already. Well done! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101656 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 21:07:31 +0000 marianna 101656@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Laura, that speech is by Baz Luhrmann (I love it). Such wise words. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101653 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 20:45:33 +0000 Laura 101653@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I so love and appreciate these conversations. Hanging out here at YLF is better than therapy and much cheaper.</p> <p>I know we all have felt like you describe, and isn't it nice to know we all feel that way sometimes, and how misguided it is to be so negative about our lovely selves.</p> <p>Who is it that said in that famous graduation speech titled "always wear sunscreen" that "you're skinnier than you think." Being one of the older members here, I can assure you that this is true. You are skinnier than you think, and 20 years from now you'll look back and think you looked pretty darned good! I certainly think you do! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101651 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 19:33:48 +0000 Tanya 101651@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh Karin, I hope you do feel better. You have such a great style and you are a lovely young women and I think we all constantly have to battle with our insecurities.</p> <p>There are times when i hate pretty much everything about the way I look: my fine hair, skin that breaks out, small chest, curvy thighs ... and then there are times that i sort of think tings are not that bad. at last for me it has more to do with my general happiness level and mood than my body . You are so not alone! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101650 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 19:12:19 +0000 Maya 101650@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm glad you're feeling better Karin. I noticed looking at your profile that you are about my age, and I have noticed that EVERY female I know in our age group feels like this at least sometimes. Some of my friends feel like this ALL the time, which is really sad.</p> <p>Just yesterday, I clicked the link to Angie's blog post on healthy handbag use that she posted with her latest MOTG formula. Well, I also read my reply to the handbag post. In it, I mentioned that I was 106 pounds! This was in 2007. When I read that I felt just awful. And the irony is that when I weighed 106 pounds, I felt awful because 2 years prior, I weighed 96 pounds. I noticed that a lot of us were probably thinner or less curvy when we were teens (even if we didn't realize it then) and got used to being able to wear whatever we wanted (not just because of body type, but because of age). Then once we get older and start filling out, dressing became awkward because we're not used to having to balance out hips and cover up a pouchy tummy. It really is a difficult transition. Every girl I know has a similar story to this, even those who were on the curvier side as teens. My best friend was a curvy size 0 in high school. Now she has the same proportions but she is a curvy size 6. Hardly enormous, but when you're used to being a 0, even a 4 can seem big. </p> <p>My body has changed shape AND size, so I had to really start over from scratch. I used to be a beanpole rectangle with no curves in sight, which is a total 180 from what I am now. It was SO easy to dress back then. I could pick up just about anything off the rack and look adorable and feel totally comfortable, but that's just not how it is now and I'll probably never be like that again, so I just try to move on and not dwell on it too much.</p> <p>I have learned to bounce back from these feelings, in large part thanks to YLF. First of all, I know when I'm 40 and I look back at myself in my 20's, I'm going to realize just how good I had it and I don't want to waste my precious youth nitpicking over every little thing. Second, if there is one thing I have observed about the over 30's here, it is that they seem to grow happier, or at least more accepting of their bodies and their style with age. Well I don't want to wait until I'm 35 to make peace with myself! I want to start now. Yes, there are still things I would like to change. I would love to lose 10 pounds and be a nice dainty C cup (yes, a C is dainty to me). But I don't agonize over it or shed tears anymore like i used to. If ever you need a shot of self esteem, YLF is definitely the place to be. There is a lot of wisdom floating around here and I've been soaking it up like a sponge. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101631 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 15:39:29 +0000 KarinSwe 101631@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Louise, agrace and Michelle! I do feel better today - much thanks to all the great support and encouragement I got from here! And thanks Michelle for sharing! And even if you regret not dealing with things sooner than you did, I hope you can feel proud of the fact that you DID actually change! I think many people never even try to change, just seeing the hopelessness of it all... which is really easy to do, but like you say, it's so important to try all you can to actually do something about what you're feeling! You can't control everything that happens to you, but, you can change the way you think about what happens... So, well done you for taking charge of your life and starting to turn things around! </p> <p>I actually found a dress today, that I just fell in love with..! That's a separate thread coming up though </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101610 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 14:25:22 +0000 Michelle 101610@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Carin, I just wanted to echo some of what has been said here...That your emotions are perfectly natural and will certainly pass. But I also wanted to commend you for dealing with the negativity in such a healthy way. Acknowledging that you feel lousy, talking about it and taking action are fabulous strategies to combat the blues -- something I haven't always been able to do. Without getting into it too much, I allowed a weight gain to practically cripple me a couple of years ago to the point where I left the house as little as possible and didn't want to be seen in public (a huge change for a habitually social creature). I felt self-conscious when I walked down the street, I was convinced that people were snearing at me for taking up too much space on the subway, that kind of nonsense. If I'd done what you did sooner and actually discussed my feelings with supportive and understanding people (who were far more plentiful than I imagined), I likely would have started turning around faster. I haven't erradicated such feelings completely, but I'm working on it. Similarly, your blues may not be 100 per cent gone by tonight, but they'll be lessened and that's important. Better yet, they will have subsided because of your own courage and proactive steps. How empowering is that? :)</p> <p>Good luck shopping today. I'm sure you'll look great! And most importantly, don't let any of this prevent you from having a blast with your friends tonight! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101605 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 13:36:53 +0000 agrace 101605@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love your style! I understand what you are saying but honestly you look great. I know we all feel this way sometimes. If you do shop today, good luck! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101603 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 13:28:22 +0000 Louise 101603@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hugs hope you feel better soon x </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101601 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 13:22:29 +0000 KarinSwe 101601@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>WOW. I just have to start by saying the biggest THANK YOU ever, to all of you wonderful women! I never expected these many to actually read the never-ending post, and actually take the time to give these amazing feedbacks as well! I am ever so grateful. Really. You brought me into tears - tears of joy, for all the kindness, encouragement and support you give, every single one of you! And I feel really honoured that Angie took the time too..! And you have all REALLY helped me change my mood set for the day! I feel so much more confident, fab and secure now! Still a small voice trying to get through with more negativity, but I'm doing my best to quieten it. And I couldn't have done it as successfully without all these comments! </p> <p>Feeling more positive today, I will try and hit the shops, and I'm thinking quite a lot about the UO skirt... I regret I didn't take any pics yesterday! But possibly I'll be back in a few hours with a suggestion for tonight's outfit; I hope some of you will still be around for some quick feedback! The place I'm going to is just a indie/pop/rock club, so there's no specific dress code. So I just want to look generally fab! </p> <p>I was thinking about just getting an outfit I know I feel comfortable in, but my favourite at the moment is my black skinnies+black loose top+gold heart necklace. Firstly, I'd prefer a dress or skirt to jeans today, and secondly, that's exactly the outfit I wore last weekend, when seeing the same people as tonight... So it would feel a bit repetitive! And with my current warderobe being quite small, I don't really have that many other favourites that could work tonight... But, it's a really good idea!</p> <p>Thanks everyone also for the mental hugs, cosy blankets, teas, baths and assurances that it will pass! I agree with everyone of you about the importance of just relaxing and giving yourself some me-time, on occasions like this. Sinead, I really like the way you put it, about how the brain isn't giving you the truth, being too occupied with dealing with hormones..! That's a really good way of seeing it!</p> <p>Shiny - thank's for the idea about the length! I have a really hard time seeing these things for myself - what works, what could work better, etc - so it's so helpful for me to get these advice! I'll def look out for such styles. And as for my shape - I'd love to be an hourglass, so thank you for that! Although, I'd say I'm def an apple, which might be clearer from the side! </p> <p>Marianna - I def agree with you too, that it's all about what's in your head, and that everyone has insecurities. I can understand your frustration, with life, motivation, and the body simply changing quite radically... And that comparing doesn't always have to be with OTHER people - comparing with how you yourself used to look a few years ago can be just as down-putting, if not more, I think! I try to just accept that life happens, that you do change over the years, and that what is now is now... Also, I honestly think you look gorgeous, and from the pics I've seen, you seem to have this great aura about you. A confidence in your posture, that's just something that "is there". Thank you also for being so open and honest, that's really brave! And YES, you do dress really really well! </p> <p>RoseandJoan - A big thank you for sharing... that must have been awful. I can't even begin to imagine. I'm so happy for you, that you've turned it around, that you've changed in the way you have. That is extremely brave, coming from that, and now being here, sharing - both pics and feelings! </p> <p>And Angie - super thank you for your extremely kind and supportive words! That means so much to me, hearing that from you! It really helps me see myself in a different way. Not doubting or putting down myself, as I occasionally can do. I really appreciate it, so much.</p> <p>Ok, I thought I'd try not to write as long again! Just want to end with another huge THANK YOU, to each and every one of you. I hope you realise how much your comments mean to me! And I hope you kind souls will have a great evening tonight! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101584 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 06:20:15 +0000 RoseandJoan 101584@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Karin, please know that I also have days where the hormones overwhelm, my strategy is to let hubby know that it's hormones, have a long soak in the tub, cry my heart out, eat chocolate and have an early night. I honestly wake up in the morning feeling totally different.</p> <p>With regards to your body image, I went through a spell a few years back, when trying to have a baby and suffering subsequent miscarriages, where I could not look myself in the mirror. I could not bear to have a photograph taken because all that I saw was my bodies failings. However, look at me now, I'm posting photo's of myself on the internet and on the whole feeling fab!</p> <p>This time will pass, your feelings will change, you look amazingly feisty and stylish. Give your self some TLC then come back and the forum will help you fill the gaps in your wardrobe.</p> <p>*Hugs*</p> <p>Julie</p> <p>p.s. I have never seen a hint of tummy bulge from any of your photographs. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101582 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 05:58:41 +0000 Angie 101582@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>We are all human and insecurities are part of our emotional make-up. I am 100% empathetic to your feelings because I deal with women who feel like this daily. I know that these feelings are real and that they get you down. But I am NOT going to let you feel like this for long! So CHINS UP right now! Style is not a dress size. You are all walking works of art that were meant to be adorned beautifully each day. </p> <p>My dear Karin, I ADORE the way you dress. It’s graphic, fun and daring. Your outfits show style courage, individualism and strength. Lots of attitude which is just how it should be at your age! And your hair style is fabulous. What is not to love? That’s what I see :0) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101562 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 03:31:13 +0000 marianna 101562@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I've probably gained 40-50 pounds in the past two years simply due to laziness. I haven't weighed myself because I am in constant denial, but when I look at pictures of myself two years ago I want to cry. Or when I try on clothes that used to fit me so well and now they're way too small... you can't imagine how horrible that feels. Or having to shop in the plus size department for the first time in my life... it's so painful. I spent so much time and energy to get in good shape, and then something happened (I have no idea what) and I lost all motivation. I can't explain it, but when I think back to 2 years ago and how good I looked and what I've done to myself now, it's really painful. I have days when I feel SOOOO fat and unattractive and nothing helps it. I can be wearing the most flattering outfit, but when I mentally feel fat and insecure, it takes over me 100%. And then there are days when I suck it up and live with it and pretend to be confident.</p> <p>Anyway, women of all sizes have insecurities... ALL women have insecurities. It's totally natural. I'd honestly kill to have your body. I completely understand where you're coming from though. I more often than not have "nothing to wear" and I feel frumpy in everything I put on. But... it's all in my head because I know I dress well. Nonetheless, sometimes that doesn't matter. If I see a very well dressed woman on the street, my "fab" outfit automatically becomes super frumpy in my mind. I'm not really sure what I'm getting at... but I'm sure you'll feel better soon and I know you'll look super gorgeous in whatever outfit you decide to wear tomorrow night. Post pictures! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101552 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 02:58:30 +0000 sinead 101552@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>KarenSwe, hugs and cozy blankets and hot tea, from me. Remember, it will get better. There are some days where it just doesn't do you any good to think too much. Days where it's better to shift out of "what I think of myself- or life" because your brain is not giving you the truth- it's too busy trying to figure out how to deal with all the hormones. Whatever distraction works, movies, drawing, painting, TV, I'm all for it.</p> <p>And I agree with the others- shopping like this has never worked for me. If you feel better in the morning, give it a try, if not, shelve it for another day and wear one of the old faithfuls but maybe with a new twist. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101551 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 02:53:33 +0000 anne 101551@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Karin, you are definitely not alone, as you've seen already. And I am another who is awaiting that time of the month and know that that is making me rather grumpy and pessimistic. But the good thing about hormonal blues is that they will go away in a few days. So hang in there!!</p> <p>I don't think I can help you with an outfit suggestion but I agree with Shiny on the skirt length. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101549 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 02:39:20 +0000 elpgal 101549@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have no constructive advice to give you but I felt exactly the same earlier today. I am blaming it on the cold and rainy weather we are having. What sort of place are you going to tomorrow? And honestly, when I am feeling like this, I'd rather wear an old outfit than shop for one because shopping is more depressing. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101539 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 01:42:37 +0000 shiny 101539@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow, I could've written your post myself! I know exactly how you feel and I want to give you a big hug, a cup of tea, and a magical slimming mirror. :-)</p> <p>Now don't laugh about the mirror: I just spent a week in a hotel room with mirrors everywhere that were not as forgiving as my own at home - during a week when it was TTOM for me. And being 44 and perimenopausal, often TTOM for me means my tummy swells up to 5 months' pregnant. This is not ALL in my mind. Some of it is in my mind, yes. But, I really did look differently on the 4th and 5th day - and my measurements were different too. (stay tuned for my bespoke tailoring story!)</p> <p>It is what it is... a few days every month.... and so I do not think there is anything wrong with deliberately surrounding yourself with magical slimming mirrors, if it helps you feel better about yourself during temporary physical fluctuations. Confidence is the best accessory. </p> <p>As for the UO skirt, I think the cut is a good one for you. You have great hips and by your photo I'd call you more of an hourglass than an apple!!! BUT, I think you need a longer skirt - to the knee. Same shape, but extra length, will balance out the look. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101519 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 01:14:31 +0000 medusa 101519@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Karin, I could have written your post! I am in the same spot this week, I'm doubting all my decisions, feeling down, and completely convinced that I am extremely fat. Not a good state of mind....</p> <p>My suggestion would be to go with an outfit that you already know works well, maybe something you've posted here and gotten good feedback on. That way worrying about your clothes won't be another source of angst. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101507 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 00:44:56 +0000 taylor 101507@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, BOO, so sorry you are feeling blue today. I think hormones have affected us all at some point in our lives...hang in there...this too shall pass and you will feel better soon.</p> <p>Rest assured that you look much better than you feel...it is always easy for us to see the bad..I was complimenting a co-worker yesterday on how super cute she looked and she said "Thanks if it wasn't for this zit on my face" I hadn't noticed that...she looked so cute...but she felt insecure about it...my point being , most of what we see...no one else does:)</p> <p>You are a beautiful and creative young woman...go play in your closet and come up with something fab for tommorrow ...if you have to buy a piece to make a skirt work...go shopping in the morning...you can get over this funk....some retail therapy might be just the cure(not that I am contributing to any debt)...all within reason of course...you will feel better in the morning...*Funk be gone* </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-bit-blue-sorry-its-really-long#post-101479 Fri, 16 Oct 2009 22:45:52 +0000 KarinSwe 101479@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, sigh. It's that time of the month, and I've recently had to realise that I DO get affected by it - I cannot anymore try to deny that hormones do affect me, whether I want it or not. So sure, I'm a bit extra moody and bloated, but, I cannot blame all of the feelings on that. Feeling chubby, dumpy, boxy... And while knowing deep down inside that it doesn't really matter one bit - that it's all about who you are, the way you feel about yourself, your aura, what you give out - and most of the time being able to handle these feelings; right now it just feels like I've completely forgotten how to. </p> <p>Also, what it's mostly is about, is the fact that my body has changed the past years. And sometimes it's difficult to see that in the mirror. I don't always really recognise myself, it doesn't always really feel like me. And again, most of the times I can handle it, I can turn the thoughts around, I can focus on the good parts, on just feeling happy and proud about who I am. But occasionally the negative body aspects just take over completely. And I'm so sick and tired of it. Also, even though I mostly feel confident, proud and secure, I don't always see that reflecting in the mirror. Of course, I don't know if that's just my eyes being to hard on myself, and that others see me in another way (which I guess mostly is the case), or if there's actually something to that...</p> <p>To be a bit more specific - I'm going out tomorrow night, and I have "nothing to wear". Sure, I do, but, nothing that the people I'm going out with haven't seen recently. So it would be great fun to find something new to add to my warderobe (plus, since I've recently moved from Sweden, I've been doing massive clean outs going through my clothes, throwing/giving away lots of stuff. So I do "need" to fill some gaps as well!), but I just don't know what to look for, what is flattering! I know I'll want a dress or skirt at the moment - I don't want tight jeans hugging my bloated tummy. But, more than that, I just feel at a complete loss as to what actually works for me... I try to think about the (amazing) advice I've been picking up from here, both for apples in general, and comments about my specific outfits and questions... but I'm just feeling terribly whiny at the moment, and just want someone to hand me a dress and say "Here! This will look stunning on you!". Oh my, such problems... I'm sorry about all this, but I know I'll feel better if I just get to put my thoughts on prints, and share it with all the smart, wise and wonderful people out here!</p> <p>Now, I did try on a skirt today that I did quite like... I'm a bit wary that I'll find something that I feel could work for tomorrow night, but then not think any longer, ending up with something that will just sit on the hanger after tomorrow night... Has happened before, but is something I don't wish to repeat! I'm quite confident that this is a skirt I would be wearing more though; what I'm not sure about is whether it's at all flattering, or not. Unfortunately I didn't get any pics of it on me, but, this is the skirt: <a href="http://www.urbanoutfitters.co.uk/Kimchi+Blue-Printed-Egg-Skirt/invt/5120425038885&#038;bklist=" rel="nofollow">http://www.urbanoutfitters.co......38;bklist=</a>. </p> <p>In a way, it's slightly similar to these skirts of mine: <a href="http://i646.photobucket.com/albums/uu190/KarinSwe/Current%20warderobe/Outfits%20pt%201/DSCF0170.jpg" rel="nofollow">http://i646.photobucket.com/al.....CF0170.jpg</a>, and <a href="http://i646.photobucket.com/albums/uu190/KarinSwe/Skirts/n681686252_2526334_6081.jpg" rel="nofollow">http://i646.photobucket.com/al.....4_6081.jpg</a> - but it's longer, I promise! But it's quite similar by the waist and hemline - and the way it sort of accentuates my tummy "bump", that I have got comments about before, regarding these skirts. Though I guess it might be less obvious on this patterned one, than on the blue one. And also, in way I'm thinking like "Well, that IS how I look; isn't there a way I can embrace that, instead of just trying to hide it?". But ok, maybe there is, just that this isn't the best way... </p> <p>So, where am I going with all this? I'm not sure, actually. I mainly just needed to share these thoughts, and I feel quite secure doing it here, knowing how supportive, friendly and positive the atmosphere is here. But, I'm sorry about the length of it all..! I don't even know if anyone has the energy to read all of this! Now, I usually manage to change the train of thoughts myself, sometimes just by getting a good night's sleep, but... it surely would be great to get any comments with support, cheers and/or recognition, to help me see it through..! So, if you have any thoughts, please do share..!</p> <p>Loads and loads and even some more thanks! </p>