https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 24 Apr 2026 01:43:55 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1568855 Thu, 08 Oct 2015 03:10:22 +0000 Jeanie 1568855@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, I am so sorry. &nbsp;I have been through this with friends and family and it is hard. &nbsp;Surround yourself with support and positive energy and be gentle with yourself. &nbsp;I am very late seeing this post so I don't know if you will see this but I recommend the book 'After the Affair' (though it is more for those who choose to stay together). &nbsp;Hugs to you. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1562872 Fri, 25 Sep 2015 16:06:38 +0000 Aziraphale 1562872@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deb, I'm so sorry to hear this. You don't deserve it. Best of luck for the coming difficult conversations.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1562129 Thu, 24 Sep 2015 02:42:17 +0000 Echo 1562129@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, I am so sorry. This is devastating news, and I admire your resolve. It may be quite a good idea to exchange one "dog" for another - as you said, one is certainly much more loyal than the other. Be gentle with yourself, and above all, remember that his actions are a commentary on HIM, and not on you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1562027 Wed, 23 Sep 2015 22:57:27 +0000 Isabel 1562027@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't know what to say....how devastating. &nbsp;Your attitude however will carry you through. &nbsp;That and your new loyal puppy. &nbsp;Hugs.&nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1561861 Wed, 23 Sep 2015 15:53:43 +0000 Anonymous 1561861@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry at this disruption of your life. Hugs </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1561786 Wed, 23 Sep 2015 13:18:46 +0000 nancylee 1561786@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am so sorry, Deb. &nbsp;:-( </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1561659 Wed, 23 Sep 2015 03:47:53 +0000 TraceyLiz65 1561659@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry to hear this Deb. You deserve better. An attorney and new pup sound like the right moves. Hope you take Mary on her offer for a visit when you can! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1561602 Wed, 23 Sep 2015 01:48:10 +0000 Cerinda 1561602@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Stunned into silence. &nbsp;What utter idiocy on that man's part.</p> <p>Sending warmth and energy. &nbsp;Tell us more about the fluffy corgis?</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1561305 Tue, 22 Sep 2015 14:01:45 +0000 Windchime 1561305@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deb, I so wanted to post when I first read this, but wasn't able to because of some tech issues. I'm so sorry and sad to read this. As others have said, he was really stupid and shortsighted and, when he wakes up and comes to his senses, will regret this for the rest of his life. I'm glad a new pup is in your near future; that's a very lucky dog.</p> <p>Take good care of yourself. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1561194 Tue, 22 Sep 2015 07:23:28 +0000 lyn67 1561194@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You have&nbsp;&nbsp;nothing to loose, but&nbsp;&nbsp;he'll regret his little affair all his life, hugs! &nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1561140 Tue, 22 Sep 2015 03:24:39 +0000 unfrumped 1561140@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh wow. How hurtful. You will come through it. Best to you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1561045 Tue, 22 Sep 2015 00:53:44 +0000 Aida 1561045@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Good grief. More hugs from me Deb. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1560372 Sun, 20 Sep 2015 18:06:46 +0000 Anonymous 1560372@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Words cannot express what I am feeling right now. &nbsp;You are in my heart and thoughts. &nbsp;If there is <u>anything</u> I can do, please send me a personal message. &nbsp;I am a great listener and I've been there in the past. &nbsp;A puppy will help. &nbsp;Friends will help. &nbsp;Talking about it helped me (although it took me many months to "want" to talk about it). &nbsp;Be gentle with yourself above all else. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1560297 Sun, 20 Sep 2015 12:14:52 +0000 Sveta 1560297@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deb, I am so sorry you have to go through this. Heart-wrenching is an understatement I would think. Hugs to you and wishing you strength to come through this as untouched as possible.<br />You are a strong and amazing person and deserve all the real love in this world, not this!<br />Puppy sounds like the best thing right now! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1560278 Sun, 20 Sep 2015 08:23:59 +0000 Kari 1560278@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deb, I'm so sorry you are having to go through such a hurtful experience. Big hugs and glad you are taking steps to care for and protect yourself. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1560239 Sun, 20 Sep 2015 03:38:07 +0000 Suz 1560239@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't know how I missed this post until now. I can only echo what everyone else has said. What a horrible discovery for you. I am so very sorry. But I'm very glad you will have a pup (and a lawyer) to confide in.&nbsp;</p> <p>Gosh, life is difficult sometimes. Now there's an understatement.&nbsp;</p> <p>We are here if you need to vent.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1559847 Sat, 19 Sep 2015 01:22:04 +0000 SarahTheWhite 1559847@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh Deb, I am so very sorry... Sending love and hugs. I hope you find some solace in your puppy! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1559803 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 23:59:53 +0000 cheryle (Dianthus) 1559803@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>He simply doesn't deserve you. &nbsp;Men can be such stupid asses!!</p> <p>Take care of yourself Deb. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/3#post-1559800 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 23:44:28 +0000 Caro in Oz 1559800@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry Deb, he's a fool imo. Hang in there &amp; yes a good lawyer is the way to go.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/2#post-1559778 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 22:57:47 +0000 Vicki 1559778@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, no, Deb, this is gut-wrenching news and I am so glad you had the courage to reach out here and share your pain. &nbsp;I'd like to PM you and understand that you are focused on the reality of things, which I want to add shows how very strong, confident and amazing YOU are. &nbsp;Please don't feel any need to respond, at the moment.</p> <p>Your dog's arrival and presence is wonderful. &nbsp;As one friend said, recently, "Most animals are far preferable to humans," and I quite agree!</p> <p>Sending you love and hugs, Deb, my precious Seattle roommate, and I will be in touch, and please reach out to me whenever and wherever.</p> <p>Vicki xo </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/2#post-1559776 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 22:51:16 +0000 Style Fan 1559776@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh Deb I am so sorry.&nbsp; We are here for you.&nbsp; Vent away.&nbsp; Dogs are wonderful therapy.&nbsp; I don't know how I would have survived without my doggies. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/2#post-1559468 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 15:20:37 +0000 Mochi 1559468@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh shit. I'm really sorry.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/2#post-1559370 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 13:06:20 +0000 BethT 1559370@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry. &nbsp;{{{{{Hugs}}}}} &nbsp;</p> <p>This has happened to my sister, SIL, friends, and I know it's hard to see past the pain of today, but they have all made it through with the love and support of family and friends. &nbsp;So ask for that help and support when you need it. &nbsp;And they've all come out stronger and more beautiful than ever!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/2#post-1559346 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 12:35:24 +0000 Anonymous 1559346@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deb - I am really sorry to hear this has happened. &nbsp;Marriage is tough enough with having to deal with this kind of thing. &nbsp;I hope you can find someone to talk to about this -professionally - . &nbsp;It does help and is totally worth doing. &nbsp;Thinking of you.<br />Lisa</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/2#post-1559258 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 06:10:05 +0000 Adelfa 1559258@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I feel so bad for you. I hope your lawyer is a good one. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/2#post-1559244 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 04:33:37 +0000 Gigi 1559244@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deb, I am so sorry to hear this! How betrayed you must feel.&nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/2#post-1559243 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 04:31:38 +0000 Ginkgo 1559243@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Stay strong, we're on your side all the way.&nbsp; Looking forward to a photo of the new pup. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/2#post-1559235 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 03:50:01 +0000 gradfashionista 1559235@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deb, I'm so sorry to hear. Seeking out a lawyer is probably the best move. There is no one-size-fits-all in these situations, and I wish you much strength and clarity in charting a path that works for you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/2#post-1559198 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 01:50:23 +0000 catgirl 1559198@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deb, so sorry you're having to deal with this situation. Honestly, having seen others go through similar, know that it truly will come back to bite him (or maybe your new puppy will). Sending lots of wine, hugs and support. Vent all you want here - but know that a good lawyer is the best revenge! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/64-year-old-husband/page/2#post-1559128 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 00:01:08 +0000 Debora 1559128@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, Deb, my heart aches for you. I wish we all could be there in person to circle the wagons. Since that's not possible, know that love and support is coming your way from around the globe. Wishing you and your new pup all the best. </p>