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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: 20 months on the road to my Essential Gray</title>
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				<title>Mainelady on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2019 10:47:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mainelady</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you Robin F, Niki Lea, Vix and Smittie!&#060;br /&#062;
Robin F I think our parents hair gives us a good glimpse of how our own might look. Both of my parents had salt and pepper hair while I was growing up. My dad ended up with a shiny head of silver hair and my mom is now pure white.  It is looking like I have a mix of both.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Niki Lea, it is interesting how our looks can cause others to reflect upon their own aging process. One of my friends jokes that she likes sitting beside me, because she looks even younger. LOL&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Vix, the current support and popularity of gray on people of all ages has certainly made my process easier. Even without the support, I was ready for the change.  I do have a mix of shades, especially underneath and in the back. Behind my ears and toward the nape of my neck I still have quite a bit of brown, with silvery white threading through it.
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				<title>Anonymous on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2019 00:30:35 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your DD is gorgeous.&#060;br /&#062;
You have lovely grey hair mainlady!
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				<title>Vix on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2019 19:56:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Vix</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi Mainelady --&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Almost to the finish line and looking fantastic -- you look 100% to me so I'll say welcome to the club!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Such a great mix of shades in your mix, too.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'm with you on wishing I'd never started dyeing but also started greying young (in my teens). I'm so glad there's more support -- at least online -- for people who are &#034;precocious!&#034; and want to go natural in their 20s and 30s. Or, er...a few decades older like us. ;)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Enjoy!&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Niki Lea on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2019 15:34:53 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So beautiful! I've also stopped dying my hair (about a year ago) and am really enjoying the freedom from so much time and money spent in the chair.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;It is making some of my friends uncomfortable though! One told me that seeing white hair in my hairline makes HER feel old. Interesting, isn't it? How other people's aging can remind us of our own.
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				<title>RobinF on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2019 13:55:55 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, beautiful silver hair! I have been dying mine for ages, probably at least 20 years, and am getting to the point of letting it grow out. I'm not quite ready yet but in a few more years maybe. My grandma had snow white hair as long as I knew her so I hope when I decide to grow mine out it will be like hers (I can tell from the roots that I am a lot white right now) and not a mousy half-white half-brown color.
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				<title>Mainelady on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2019 10:33:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mainelady</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you Runcarla and suntiger!  We are getting so close to all of the dyed hair being gone. It will take a bit longer for what ever is left of the highlighting to get chopped, but the majority of what we see is mine. I am really happy with my white and silvery shades.  I absolutely love the shine!
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				<title>Anonymous on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a great color! And dd is beautiful too  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Carla on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2019 00:36:19 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So lovely, Mainelady.  Perfect swingy length and style.  Sublime colour.
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				<title>Mainelady on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 23:58:52 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you Shevia, Column, Sterling, Kathie, Suz, Deb and Cardiff Girl  You are all so kind.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Lyn67, thank you.  We were celebrating at DD’s best friend’s wedding. Happiness everywhere.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062; Thank you Windchime.  I am really happy with the decision.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Angie, I do like my hair,  but your comment is the icing on my happiness cake.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Barbara Dianne, the toner brightens the hair (I have learned that toner comes in different colors). The toner helps cut the brassiness (is that a word?) that can occur due to environment, heat, product use, etc.&#060;br /&#062;
 Sara L, I bet yours will look even better when your hair decides to lose pigment.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thank you Jenni, yes! Seeing these beautiful young women (and young men, too) go out and take on the world is a great feeling.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thank you Lisa P.  I like this better than the blonder shades, too. Some of the blond was from my own lightened hair, some from the highlights and some from the previous toner used. As more and more of my own silver white gain in length we are going with cooler shades of the toner, when needed.  I am also using violet shampoo to keep the tones on the brighter, but cooler side.  Still a work in progress!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thanks Gretchen!  Smiles are the best accessories and they are free!
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				<title>Gretchen on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 22:14:55 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Lovely! And what great smiles in these pictures!
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				<title>Anonymous on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 19:21:25 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love it! And in fact I like it better this colour than when it was blonder. This really suits your skin tone. &#038;nbsp;You're lucky to have such a wonderful head of hair to work with  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Jenni NZ on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Gorgeous! And lovely daughter- I know, it's so great to see them taking their place in the adult world! My girls are recently 28 and 25  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Sara L. on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 18:57:18 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, your grey is beautiful!&#038;nbsp; I hope my hair looks this good when it goes grey.
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				<title>Barbara Diane on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 17:43:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Barbara Diane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your hair is stunning.&#060;br /&#062;
Please tell me more about the toner. What does it do?
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				<title>Cardiff girl on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 16:19:57 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your hair is beautiful,as is your stunning daughter and she s inherited your smile.
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				<title>deb on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 16:04:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>deb</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You have beautiful hair!
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				<title>Suz on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 15:53:03 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Mainelady, you look beautiful! Love the soft shiny silver of your hair. Congratulations on staying the course!&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And it's true, we know where your daughter gets her looks!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Angie on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 15:16:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;KILLER to the Power of KILLER
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				<title>Windchime on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 15:16:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Windchime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Beautiful!  You definitely made a wise choice 20 months ago.  Fab pic of you and your daughter, too.
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				<title>lyn67 on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 13:26:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn67</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, sooooo soooo beautiful!! Besides a great color you have a great texture and volume+ and a good cut and style, too! 3rd pictie is gorgeous you look both so happy and fab!:-)
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				<title>Kathie on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 11:51:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kathie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Gorgeous, healthy hair, and a beautiful daughter! Thanks so much for sharing your transition to gray.
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				<title>Anonymous on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 11:40:24 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Magnificent. &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Column on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 11:39:07 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Mother and daughter are stunning!
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				<title>Mainelady on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 10:26:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mainelady</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you Joy, Aliceinwonderland and Katerina!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Rachylou, thank you.  I’m not sure if 30 years is impressive, but I wasn’t ready to begin graying in my mid 20s, sooooo off the the salon I would go.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Karen 13, I think you are wise. I think the process of going gray naturally would be so much easier than the route I have taken. Call me a late bloomer!
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				<title>Jaime on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 10:20:34 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Gorgeous mother and gorgeous daughter. Your hair is an enviable color!
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				<title>Katerina on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 10:09:21 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You have the most gorgeous grey hair, Mainelady! And such a pretty daughter!
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				<title>karen13 on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 05:01:22 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love the grey - it looks sooooo good! And the DD photo! I think I will probably grey naturally, and it is so encouraging to see how great it can look!
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				<title>Alicewonderland on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Beautiful!,
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				<title>rachylou on "20 months on the road to my Essential Gray"</title>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fabulous! I’m impressed you kept up the routine for 30 years also.
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your hair is stunning, as is your beautiful DD. You are a fantastic role model for her.
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