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YouLookFab Forum » Forum: Dressing - Recent Topics https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/forum/what-to-wear Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sun, 19 Apr 2026 14:27:32 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php Star (Lise) on "'The Skinny' on my skinnies" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-skinny-on-my-skinnies#post-2410668 Fri, 17 Apr 2026 11:14:35 +0000 Star (Lise) 2410668@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello Friends I have to 'fess up' to you guys. I may have a rep here for being a cheerleader for skinny jeans. This is not really accurate. I love straight jeans. I have never worn low-rise skinnies as they do not work on my body shape. I have a few skinnies with a higher rise but they have not fitted for five years. Well they fit now and I don't love them. There I said it. For all the same reasons some of you said; too restrictive, look dated, uncomfortable. High Five to all of you who feel this way, I'm now on your team. No barrels for me yet but Team Looser Jeans going forward. Indigoprint on "How well do mesh flats play with patterned bottoms?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/how-well-do-mesh-flats-play-eith-patterned-bottoms#post-2410719 Fri, 17 Apr 2026 21:53:34 +0000 Indigoprint 2410719@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ DS wedding is approaching. Thanks to Fabbers previous input I am sorted for the wedding. The reception is held on a later date. It is a picnic with a bounce house for the kids. I have chosen a pair of flowy lantern style pants in a print. I am still sorting out my topper. I was wondering about trying some mesh flats, but am not sure if that would be too much pattern on the bottom? Those who have had mesh flats for awhile what kind of bottom do you lean towards ? A pattern or do you stick with solids? Cookie on "April packing challenge" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/april-packing-challenge#post-2410305 Sun, 12 Apr 2026 17:54:13 +0000 Cookie 2410305@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ This week I’m going on a short family trip to the Dominican Republic! Long story but I was born there, my father and I just had simultaneous big birthdays, a university there wanted to give him an honorary degree. For some reason the clothing needs are throwing me into a tizzy. Factors: 1. It will be, from my perspective, unpleasantly hot and humid. 2. There is this degree ceremony, which my father says the university (a Catholic university? Not sure whether that is here or there) is taking with the utmost seriousness. Asked what is worn to this, he said “A summer dress.” 3. There may be “an afternoon reception” on a different day, hosted by a fairly elderly diplomat type. 4. City sightseeing, museums, birthday dinner at some nice restaurant. Perhaps perversely for a trip to the DR, we are unlikely to go to a beach at any point but I guess a bathing suit doesn’t take up much room in a suitcase. 5. Indeed, it’s such a short trip I probably don’t even need to worry about that. Soooo … 1-3 Thinking of wearing this skirt with different tops for both travel days. Comfy, has pockets, can wear leggings under if needed. 4-6 Sightseeing/dinner? I think my loved ones are not huge fans of this dress but whatever. 7 Thinking of this for ceremony?? Or could re-wear the following. 8-10 Thinking of this for reception?? The top in 8 is what I like best, mom thinks I should not be sleeveless for whatever reason, but I think it is dressier. 11-13 options for something extra to throw in as backup for daytime activities. Thank you if you read all that but I don’t blame you if you didn’t. Does this seem acceptable?? It’s been winter so long I don’t remember what I wear when it’s hot. anchie on "Need Guidance Choosing a Formal Gown for My Daughter’s Debutante Ball" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/need-guidance-choosing-a-formal-gown-for-my-daughter%e2%80%99s-debutante-ball#post-2410038 Wed, 08 Apr 2026 14:57:08 +0000 anchie 2410038@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello Fabbers , it has been a while since I last posted. I’m looking for practical advice on what to wear to my daughter’s debutante ball in the second half of May. Special occasion dressing is very rare for me, and I don’t have anything appropriate for an event at this formality level, so I’m starting completely from scratch. To give a sense of the dressiness and overall aesthetic, here are two photos of my daughter in the dresses she tried. She will also be wearing above‑the‑elbow white gloves and white shoes so the look is very classic and traditional. I would really appreciate guidance on what styles, silhouettes, colours, and fabrics are suitable for a mother at this type of event. What I know so far: • A long gown is required • It’s a very formal evening event at the Vienna Rathaus • I’m open to both buying and renting I would love advice on: • Flattering silhouettes for formal gowns • Appropriate colours that work well for me • Fabrics or details that look elegant without being overly flashy • Shoe styles that are comfortable enough for a long evening • Simple, polished hair ideas (I prefer low‑maintenance styles) • What level of accessories is typical for this kind of event • Supportive underwear or any other details I am forgetting Since I’m starting from zero, any guidance on what to look for, and what to avoid , would be very helpful. Thank you in advance! Star (Lise) on "Pics Open Again - White eyelet button down" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/white-eyelet-button-down#post-2409921 Tue, 07 Apr 2026 13:54:01 +0000 Star (Lise) 2409921@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello A mini outfit lab with my new white eyelet button down. 1. With blue denim 2. With white denim 3. Black button down with white denim. Which do you prefer? I only tried the white with white for Angie (she mentioned she wants to see me in a column of white on the blog recently). Firstly I like my outfits to have contrast, and secondly this pairing points out that my white jeans are not as white as the top. I do have another pair of Hugo Boss baby bootcuts in white but they are still a bit snug. Thanks for looking and if you decide to comment . LJP on "Sporty Luxe? wiw4.3.26" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sporty-luxe-wiw4326#post-2409624 Fri, 03 Apr 2026 20:28:06 +0000 LJP 2409624@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I felt a bit overdressed today out running errands. It was warmer than I anticipated and I could have done without the socks, or the jacket. Anyways - this is how I feel most comfortable on the weekends now : easy pants, a sweater and mules/clogs. I decided I'm done with this letter necklace look and am glad I didn't spend much on it. Cute, but not where I'm at these days. cotton sweater - new - Quince - love this stretchy fit t-shirt - older - H&M. - I rarely wear a sweater now without a t-shirt peeking out from under cotton quilted bomber - Zara - last year peach skin finish joggers - YaYa Woman - older suede mules - Vionic - love them. Didn't realize how dusty/linty they actually were until I looked at the photo , lol. Probably from a day of shopping . jewellery - Jenny Bird (chain) and Anthropologie (letter necklace) cotton twill bag - Le Bon Shoppe - last year - love it and the relaxed vibe it imparts. Good Friday and most stores were open and our outlet mall was a ZOO. I need to republish my rules for people and how to behave in a mall. thanks for looking and comments always welcome :). Oh -the ring is an early 65th bday present from DH . It’s an Ultrahuman Air ring . It’s SO cool ! It’s just accumulating data for another 10 days before it will start telling me what to do Ket on "Drop Shoulders question" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drop-shoulders-question#post-2409528 Thu, 02 Apr 2026 14:22:21 +0000 Ket 2409528@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Angie and tribe: I’m trying to hone my style knowledge. A lot of drop shoulder tops haven’t worked for me, especially with long sleeves. This shoulder is pretty common construction for sweater shirts, long sleeve tops/tees, and sweaters. I have some rock band sweatshirts that work with styling fine. And a handknit sweater with a diagonal shoulder line to create the drop sleeve. But otherwise, drop shoulder is not special or terrific on me. However… I recently purchased two summer sweaters. They’re essentially a longer drop sleeve shoulder with no long sleeve. Or could be a very modified dolman? (There is some corner under the arm, versus sharp angles.) The sweaters’ torsos possess no waist shaping. They’re literally boxes. But somehow, they’re magical and I adore them. A first for drop shoulder tops! I feel I’m missing something. What makes this drop shoulder work while a typical drop shoulder sweater with sleeves fails me? Is it the line that the short sleeve creates? Longer torso length? Fluid ease? (Photo examples are a good 12-15” positive ease.) Would love some insights. Thank you <3 L'Abeille on "Update: what I wore/Help me style my new jacket for Easter Sunday" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/help-me-style-my-new-jacket-for-easter-sunday#post-2409595 Fri, 03 Apr 2026 16:29:36 +0000 L'Abeille 2409595@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello all! I thrifted this navy silk Talbot's jacket last fall and getting ready for its first wear. (Needed some steaming first ) The extreme padded shoulders give me an 80s vibe. Should I belt it or no? And what to wear on the bottom? In navy, I have a knife pleated midi skirt, a gathered skirt on a basque, and a swishy polka dot skirt with inset gores. In black, I have everything: column and swishy skirts from knee to midaxi length, pleated maxi, and some black and white print knee length skirts. There's also my dressy kilt (navy green and white tartan) but that's had a lot of wear this winter already. And some white or navy&white cotton skirts, but it's too early in the season for those. Options to garnish the top include brooch, scarf, visible underlayer at neckline. Footwear: I'm hoping the predicted rain/snow mix will allow for some sturdy but pretty shoes rather than boots; but I do have knee-highs. Where I'm stumped though is what silhouette and proportions to go for. Thanks in advance! Carol on "Here for butter yellow, ETA: wiw" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/here-for-butter-yellow#post-2409653 Sat, 04 Apr 2026 03:02:17 +0000 Carol 2409653@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I do not have the resources to photograph myself in this shirt right now, but here is my one pale yellow item--a high-neck linen crop top. Boy is it ever useful, and ever cheery. I would definitely buy more butter yellow stuff--I am completely comfortable with its Easter vibes. The patterns are great, but I would probably go for more big swaths of solid yellow--some straight yellow jeans to wear with white shoes and an athletic sweatshirt. Or...a hefty faux leather purse with a rosette.   If I am organized, maybe I will put the shirt on tomorrow and snap a photo.  ETA: here is a quick outfit for book club. A bit thrown together, but certainly seasonal.  Lisa on "For Angie: Cowgirl Having Fun With Fashion" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/for-angie-cowgirl-having-fun-with-fashion#post-2409388 Tue, 31 Mar 2026 22:00:24 +0000 Lisa 2409388@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello. <a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-matching-my-area-rug">In this post</a>, Angie wanted to see my new Ariat Ivory Wanderer Half Zip pullover with my cowgirl boots. I have two pairs of boots, light and dark browns, so I styled with both of them because I have no favorites when it comes to western gear., I like it all.  Added some hats for extra cowgirl fun.  :) Thanks for looking! LJP on "Barrels & short pea coat. wiw3.28.26" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/barrels-short-pea-coat-wiw32826#post-2409118 Sat, 28 Mar 2026 23:35:17 +0000 LJP 2409118@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I'm on the downward curve of my interest in barrel pants. I don't usually jump head first into trends, but for some reason I did with barrel jeans/pants. I have quite a few pair between denim/wool/nylon/cotton and will not be adding any more. They are just too weird (for me) to consider a wardrobe mainstay and I am over it . I'm wearing what I have but don't see longevity at this point and that's what I want in my wardrobe additions. I bought these (Gap Barrel Hight Rise) at the end of last summer, probably wore them twice and just pulled them out again for spring. A couple of compliments at the nail salon today :). I would have preferred a more elevated and elegant footwear choice, but we still have lots of snow and ice on the ground making walking treacherous. I'll switch to a brown loafer as soon as the ice is gone. Wore them with a second hand corduroy pea coat/cropped trench from Lauren Jeans Company (a Ralph Lauren offshoot I'd never heard of). I LOVE this jacket but maybe wear it twice a season in spring and fall. It's super soft and warm without being heavy. Also worn with a new heavy cotton fisherman knit sweater from Quince , and Birkenstock Bostons. I chose a cream leather bag (no -name from a boutique) I normally use in the summer but wanted a pop of brightness to work with the sweater. *bonus fun little article I read about barrel pants- I totally agree with the writer. Lisa on "WIW - For Athletic Style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---for-athletic-style#post-2409243 Mon, 30 Mar 2026 01:39:28 +0000 Lisa 2409243@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello. In honor of Carol's great post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/athletics-and-style">athletics and style here</a> and kkards wonderful WIW outfits in <a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/19-utility-athleisure-and-sporty-luxe">19. UTILITY, ATHLEISURE AND SPORTY LUXE here,</a> I thought it would be fun to post what I wore to play pickleball today. Zella pants and tee, Under Armour Hoodie, Asics sneakers, Oakley sunglasses. Thanks for looking! Carol on "Athletics and style?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/athletics-and-style#post-2408855 Wed, 25 Mar 2026 13:40:50 +0000 Carol 2408855@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Who was/is an athlete, and how has it influenced your style? Or if not, does it influence you anyway? This can be actual fashion items, or any other way it might influence you. Can be sports, dance, hiking or other athletics. I always liked athleisure, and I particularly like the way actual athletic girls helped roll out certain styles by wearing them beyond the gym. Things like neon headbands holding up a messy bun, or the iconic Adidas slide shoe, originally intended for locker room hygiene.  When they wear these things to Starbucks, they have an "athlete off-duty" look, which makes them look so cool. I will always reach for anything dancewear related, like legwarmers or shrugs, and will wear them out in public, within reason. Another style I like is beach/volleyball, like an oversized ,breezy tank in a loud color, or 80s-looking sunglasses. Outside of actual athleisure items, I also appreciate how athletic builds wear certain cuts best. A high-neck tank for strong arms and shoulders, or a high-cut leg hole for swimmers. Angie on "Another Chop! And #OOTD" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-chop-and-ootd#post-2397346 Fri, 17 Oct 2025 20:38:24 +0000 Angie 2397346@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ 2 months since the first chop. Had 4 inches cut off, then. Had another 3 inches cut off today (no colour, just a cut). I need 11 foils twice a year to maintain this colour. So easy! I'm not a long hair person. I'll enjoy long hair on others Turns out, I don't like the feeling of hair on my neck. I'm going shorter in stages. Enjoying the different lengths. This is what I want at the moment!  A short layered bob that I can wear straight and wavy. This is straight. Will post it wavy next time.  Felt like wearing my old floral dress and ancient gilet today. Boots are three years old. Bag and strap are new this year.  I'm delighted! Feeling VERY refreshed. And it's soooooo much easier to manage.  Thanks for looking. xo Vicki on "A Splendid Review" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-splendid-review#post-2407755 Fri, 06 Mar 2026 19:27:19 +0000 Vicki 2407755@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I’m pretty fussy when it comes to clothing comfort for my casual and leisure wear. I mean, why wear it if it doesn’t feel good. I bought a Splendid tee many years ago, a scooped-neck short-sleeved one, and fell in love with it. I have since enjoyed Mott & Bow for their softness but they are slightly thinner. Last week I ordered two Splendid tees, one black and one white, both long-sleeved, as basics. Splendid tees are soft, comfortable and the ones I want to wear, 50% Supima Cotton & 50% Micro Modal. I plan to go through my tees and organize them and keep only the ones I like to wear. New kittens photo for the cat and animal lovers here. Lisa on "For Angie - Yellow, Brown, White, and Cowgirl Boots" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/for-angie---yellow-brown-white-and-cowgirl-boots#post-2408817 Tue, 24 Mar 2026 15:09:32 +0000 Lisa 2408817@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello. In <a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---my-yellow-for-spring">this post</a> Angie recommended pairing my new yellow sweater with the same brown suede jacket, with white jeans and my cowgirl boots. I think it's a lovely combination for spring. Thank you Angie for the suggestion! All, thanks for looking! Carol on "When is an item not right for going out?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-is-an-item-not-right-for-going-out#post-2408632 Sat, 21 Mar 2026 02:09:25 +0000 Carol 2408632@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I have a pair of lightweight linen pants that I wanted to wear to book club the other day. They are gauzy and light, so I need to wear the right underwear that will blend in. I did so, getting ready for book club, but something felt off. I felt exposed. I turned around to look at the back, and the material just felt so thin. I could not exactly see through it, but I almost felt a breeze back there.  They are not threadbare, because I have had them only a year. But they have become a little worn in. I made the (probably smart) decision not to risk it, and changed out the pants.  But in the past, I may have risked it. I feel like I could use some thinking in this area, and to see what people thought.  What is your standard for leaving the house? Do you have defined rules? Do you feel like you are a good judge of "pass/don't pass" when it comes to your wardrobe? (Different, by the way, from when an item is too old to even keep. An item that doesn't pass for leaving the house could be...ugly, wrong season, etc.)  (BTW, I kept the pants. I hung them with a long crochet vest on the same hanger, and now worn together they will look great.)  Carol on "Footwear I have and footwear I covet" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/footwear-i-have-and-footwear-i-covet#post-2407667 Thu, 05 Mar 2026 20:02:46 +0000 Carol 2407667@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Regarding Angie's most recent post--footwear trends 2026. I realized I do have a few, and there are a few more I might like, though I really don't need shoes. Western boots--love mine, from Boot Barn, a Western store. Black, leather, and with ample silver hardware. Mesh shoes--I suppose a bit better in theory than in person. My feet are wide, and do not look nearly as elegant as the modeled photos. But I am very interested in sportiness/modernism as a general aesthetic, and I find mesh shoes to fit into that. Loafers--really would love some wilder ones--maybe metallic, maybe more streamlined. The sleeker silhouette. But these chunky black ones serve me well. Mary Janes, block heels, metallics--this recent secondhand find has all of that. I wanted a classic block heel, but I appreciate this funky, Nineties heel. Very Deeelite. Leopard print--I am not sure it ever goes out of fashion! I love it in footwear, and here is another recent secondhand find--stilletto leopard boots. And what I covet: These "ballet core" Zara jazz shoes. Slouch boots--flat or heeled. Maybe one of each. I love the architecture.  Ket on "New Jeans: what do you think?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/new-jeans-what-do-you-think#post-2408598 Fri, 20 Mar 2026 19:45:12 +0000 Ket 2408598@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Trying a new size of Eloquii Leigh Jeans. I feel like it's time to size down. I'm just questioning myself a little because I haven't worn snugger fitting jeans for several months.   <div> Size 14, photos 1-2. I like how they feel overall. The lower leg-line is a lot better in this size. They actually look like a slim straight jean. The waist is a bit snug, but I have a feeling the waist will release some. The fabric comp is 62% cotton, 24% polyester, 12% rayon, 2% spandex--more give than cotton-lycra blends.  Size 16, photos 3-4. Lots of wrinkling and excess in the front thigh/hip area. They're comfortable, but they are getting really baggy. They're so large, I can easily take them on and off without unbuttoning them. :} They're wearing out, so not worth taking to a tailor.  The 14 is a bit snugger than I prefer. However, 16s are falling off. I think with it being a slim cut, snugger is better than falling off. FWIW, the 16s used to look and fit pretty close to the 14s. Just been a while since I wore true slim-fitting jeans. </div><div>Thoughts? <div> </div><div>P.S. Only slight con for me is the color. Eloquii calls this a dark wash. I don't ha! It's deeper but It's a brighter blue than I prefer. (I like a warm, true dark wash, like was super popular in the 2010s.) I love the fit, cut, and quality enough though, to not quibble about the color. </div><div> </div><div>P.P.S. definitely excellent quality. I purchased the 16s about 2-3 years ago. I've worn them at least 2-4x per week and the inner thighs are only now thinning. I'm impressed. </div> </div> Ket on "Slim Skirt on Curvy Body?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/slim-skirt-on-curvy-body#post-2408597 Fri, 20 Mar 2026 19:24:56 +0000 Ket 2408597@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <div>I adore every one of Angie’s slim skirt examples in her <a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/2026/03/20/outfit-formula-slim-skirt/">latest post</a>. This fringe trend feels like a flashback to 2012-2014 for me. I used to wear a slim, tapered pencil skirt with an oversized, slouchy top a TON. Loved it. I remember J.Crew and even Anthropologie did a lot of slim skirt/pencil skirts paired with slouchy and layered tops. </div><div> I wouldn’t mind trying it again. I’ve always felt I looked better in a slimmer skirt versus fuller skirt shapes tbh. Not sure why. I’m an hourglass/figure 8. The advice is generally fuller skirts with waist definition. Anyhoots. How do I (or you!) style a column/tube/slim skirt with a curvy body and flatter, wider derrière? I really like my chiffon skirt. It's really flattering on me. The cut is excellent. I'm not sure if it's actually bias cut, but it's got excellent shape though hips then gently tapers a bit toward ankle. My ruched knit tube skirt feels less flattering, even though I like it. It could very easily be due to fabrication and cut. The fabric is a thin rayon-spandex jersey knit. It has a thin knit lining but that's not enough to make up being thin fabric. It also is cut very straight. It doesn't have the curvier cut and shape of the chiffon skirt. Ruching just can't make up for that.  So... should I sew/buy a knit skirt that's curved through the hip and then gently tapered? Maybe with medium weight jersey knit? Is that the key to me finding a slim jersey skirt I love?  Knits/jersey just feels so much easier right now, especially with summer getting close. A woven fabric feels more structured but also less "pull-on and go" IYKWIM. </div> Jenni NZ on "An excited shoe person…" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/an-excited-shoe-person%e2%80%a6#post-2407776 Fri, 06 Mar 2026 22:37:31 +0000 Jenni NZ 2407776@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Of all Angie’s blog posts I might be the most excited about this one, ever! It seems shoe trends are mostly shifting my way, towards my preferred more refined styles. Although I have been able to get them through the chunky years, so hopefully you chunky shoe lovers will still find things. Of the 26 trends I have or want 12 of them! 1. Low profile sneakers. Already have my Skechers and some decade old white ones which are on their last legs, boo hoo, so pretty with tiny white embroidered flowers. I just machine washed them but they are coming adrift. I also have pale pink decade old ones with gum soles. I really want some sneakerinas and am considering paying full price, shock! Maybe not in white but in pale. This shoe designer Nicole Rebstock is actually the daughter-in-law of one of my old friends of 47 years since we were 18. If I buy it will be my first purchase from her. Pics 1-4, my 3 and the possible new pair. 2. Woven textures. Love these. Already had 2 on my Wishlist. Pics 5/6. 3. Jazz or Derby. The sneakerinas kind of fit this? I also have the old gold Oxfords in my holding zone (pic 7)- had not been wearing but was scared I would miss them, they’re from 2013 I think! 8. Mesh- I like these and like jellies, the Melissa ones have been on my Wishlist for about 2 years. Pic 8. 10. Pointy toes and square toes. I prefer the former but forget occasionally when buying so have both. Pics 9-11. 11. Embellished. My favourite thing! Sassy! Pics 12-16. The gold sandals are new this week- “birthday shoe shopping” with my best friend, a shoe store near her was closing down. 12. Tall boots, not so much my thing but still have the one black pair, no pic. 13. Loafers, only have the yellow ones left and they’re getting old, no pic. 14. Mary Janes- have come to really like these. Refer pic 9 bright pink. I also have some gold true vintage ones in the dress-ups for Art Deco. 19. Patent- have and love several. Pic 9 plus pics 17-19. 22. Fancy flats- most of them count! The two pairs of boots here have low heels so may not quite fit this category. Pics 20-23. 25. Strappy sandals- have always admired this category but can’t do stilettos. Maybe pic 24 sort of counts. And that’s my story! If you read all that you deserve a medal Dee on "Style Tweaking" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-tweaking#post-2408248 Sat, 14 Mar 2026 13:59:39 +0000 Dee 2408248@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Sadly, the winter weather here is still hanging on, so I decided to do some experimentation to tweak my winter style slightly. I wanted less structure and refinement, so I flirted with adding more of a relaxed, outdoorsy, whimsical vibe that still has my style essence. It’s pretty subtle but I think its almost there. Photo 1- Burgundy Gap cords, newly thrifted Gap coloured heart sweater and my black string heart necklace. Dug out my old black leather Fossil crossbody bag. Photo 2- Levis 501 jeans, striped Breton long sleeve tee under a pine green zipped cardigan that once belonged to my mom. Added the pendant heart necklace and Fossil crossbody once again. Some of the tweaks attempting to achieve this vibe were: <ul> <li>Cuffing my jeans and cords so they read more casual and expose the ankle boots more.</li> <li>Added a less structured leather crossbody bag with some brown leather details on the trim</li> <li>Wore a woodsy green coloured ribbed knit zipped cardigan</li> <li>No obvious tucking or belting.</li> <li>Charcoal Gap sweater has a subtle fuzzy knit texture and a multi-coloured heart graphic along with the metal heart pendant necklace for some additional playfulness.</li> </ul> How did I do with my tweaked up versions? Anyone else feel the need to tweak their style a little differently? Ket on "UPDATE: Returning them-- Swing Tank help" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/swing-tank-help#post-2408102 Thu, 12 Mar 2026 19:29:02 +0000 Ket 2408102@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Update time!  After trying them on for Hubs and styling them (see photos)... I'm just not happy with either size. The fact I'm not feeling any clear direction in my gut--except not feeling a "heck yes"--makes me think these aren't for me. They're not bad but they're not IT. Can't put my finger on why, either!! These swing tanks tick all the boxes for comfort and breezy, but I just don't feel great wearing them. Maybe they need to be shorter or longer in length. Maybe they're too far outside my usual boho comfort zone. Maybe they're really not good on me. LOL! I'm just going to go with my gut and feels in them.  I think a shark-bite style tee in a very drapey knit might be better...something with long folds? See photo 13. This photo was my original inspiration but the swing tanks aren't quite it.  Original Post: I’m moving in a new direction for summer. One thing I’m considering wearing is swing tanks in jersey fabric with slim leg jeans. I’m just not sure which size to choose… feeling a bit torn. Photo 1: size 12. Less volume but a little less vertical drape and swing Photo 2: size 14. More volume but more vertical drape and swing. My jeans are all in the wash :} So hopefully these photos do the tank justice. I’ve ordered the swing tank in 5 colors so I can a bit of a summer uniform. More on my summer plans soon in another post. xo Indigoprint on "Trending jeans take up more closet space?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/trending-jeans-take-up-more-closet-space#post-2408051 Thu, 12 Mar 2026 01:01:37 +0000 Indigoprint 2408051@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I have been having trouble keeping up with putting away my clean clothes, especially jeans. I had a pile of jeans waiting to put away and noticed that I needed more space than I have had in the past because there is much more volume of denim to store. Funny how trends can influence your storage.  Anyone else notice? Any solutions other than more space? Ket on "Funnel Neck Dress for Summer?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/funnel-neck-dress-for-summer#post-2408269 Sat, 14 Mar 2026 16:10:11 +0000 Ket 2408269@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Edit: well, it's more of a cowl neck, not funnel ;)  -- -- -- -- --  While I don't own any funnel neck jackets, I realize this dress has a funnel neck! So here are my dilemma for this dress: it's not warm in winter.  <ul> <li>The fabric is a very airy lightweight cotton-blend boucle</li> <li>Short sleeves</li> </ul> <div>I really want to wear it more I could easily wear a turtleneck under it, or even one of those 90's revival mesh shirts. And I might try that. Does layering a shirt under it take way from the dress? Have thought about trying it in the summer. But the fabric doesn't give me summer vibes. The texture feels more autumn/winter. Wearing a jacket/sweater over it hides the beauty of the more organic or sculpted sleeve shape. What are some ideas or thoughts on this dress? I do not at all regret buying it. It's got a gorgeous 70s/early 80s vibe that I adore.  </div> LJP on "What are we doing with .....part 2. Long cardigans." https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-are-we-doing-with-part-2-long-cardigans#post-2407962 Tue, 10 Mar 2026 22:29:29 +0000 LJP 2407962@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Long cardigans.   I consider myself a good, consistent and motivated editor of my wardrobe, but somehow , I have ignored the  probably 6-8 long mid-thigh (or even a little longer) length cardigans (some with no buttons) in my closet .  Most of them are black, with one red and one ivory. All are really nice quality and in great condition, but  I have not reached for a single one in almost 2 years now. I used to wear them to work once in awhile as they provided a polished alternative to my uniform jacket, but all of a sudden I realized how dated they seem - to me .   I have never once condsidered one  to complete an outfit , and have not seen any worn in a current way on my usual social media sources.  The long line an open cardigan provides is flattering, that's without question, but I think it's the proportion issue now with shorter toppers over wider/looser pants.  Anyways, it was a bit of an eyeopener - one of those moments where you realize you've been looking at something in your closet for so long you're no longer really "seeing" it.  I'm keeping the ivory, one black , and the red because it's such an amazing fabric and colour but the rest are going in the donate bag.  Anyone else still hanging on to theirs?  And how are you styling them to feel current? I'm open to ideas..... Ket on "S/S Wardrobe: Architect's Wife on Med Holiday" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ss-wardrobe-architects-wife-on-med-holiday#post-2408126 Thu, 12 Mar 2026 23:59:30 +0000 Ket 2408126@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ So, my summer inspiration this year is shifting. Last year I did more with retro and well... I didn't end up loving it overall as much as I had hoped, despite all my planning and shopping. A few items are staying with me, but others will be either put in a holding box, resold, or donated. This year, I didn't plan in with a theme in mind at all. I simply pinned what felt good. Will this be a dud like last summer? I'm not sure yet.  My mood goal is: κέφι (kéfi), a Greek word that is hard to literally translate but sort of means: "a feeling of overwhelming joy, high spirits, passion, and enthusiasm. It goes beyond temporary happiness, often describing a contagious, lively, and resilient spirit that persists even during difficult times. It signifies a zest for life, often expressed through dancing, music, and socializing." <div> </div><div>(To any Greek Fabbers, forgive me if I botched kéfi!) <div> </div><div>My visual theme is Architect's Wife on Mediterranean Holiday. It's got some Mediterranean feel, a bit of sculptured drama and drape, and some refined boho. It's not as retro, on the nose, as last year.  Returning items: <ul> <li>Navy boho dress </li> <li>Navy Tencil crinkled dress</li> <li>Cropped almond trench jacket </li> <li>Olive jersey maxi skirt</li> <li>Olive waist-tie shirt</li> <li>Leigh jeans (Eloquii)</li> <li>Floral ruffled cami </li> <li>Olive sweatshirt military jacket </li> <li>Black peplum moto jacket</li> <li>Multicolor slides (new)</li> <li>Miz Mooz heeled sandals (new)</li> <li>Cage wedge sandals </li> <li>Black bubble top</li> </ul> </div></div><div> </div><div>Adding: Swing tanks (photos 1-6) in a rayon jersey knit fabric in several colors. Something very new for me. The number of colors probably seems excessive but I like variety. My hope and plan is to make these into an easy summer uniform by pairing them with my Leigh straight leg jeans and sandals. Smaller Leigh jeans (same as pair in Finds below). My current pairs are getting quite baggy and don't fit or look the same. I ordered a size smaller. Have to see how they fit. Not sure if they'll be good or skin--and-soul-sucking tight. (Never know what to expect.) Swimsuits for All Cover-up (photos 7-11). I'm experimenting with styling this as a duster, with black leggings and tank top underneath it, a la inspo photos. I found it online and was intrigued. Tried it on and found that no, I couldn't tack the hip-high slits shut; it would look weird and risk tearing the fabric. BUT... I could possibly wear it as duster. Will let you know how it goes.  The fabric is a delicious sheer Tencel charcoal-navy color. Petrol blue v-neck sweater (photos 12-14). Knitting this in a cotton-rayon yarn, in a petrol blue (photo 14). Photo 12 is inspo, photo 13 is the pattern I'm using sans all of the textured body stitches. Planning to throw this on over the swing tanks and any column/tank dresses I wear.  Off-shoulder top (photos 15-16). Possibly-hopefully-maybe sewing this for myself. Have to see ha! :)  Oatmeal/Cream V-neck sweater top (photo 17). Thrifted this online earlier this winter. Absolutely love it! I wore it on our trip 2-3 weeks ago,  with my Leigh jeans and sandals. It's a cotton-rayon-something blend. Very comfortable to wear, and I enjoy the shape a lot. I sized down one size, as XL was a blanket tent on me. I don't get as much exposed shoulder with L, but the shape feels more flattering.  Ruffle-shoulder dress (photo 18). Another maybe-possibly-hopefully sewing project. I have the pattern, but need to find fabric and try it. Tank dress (photo 19). Just trying this style out. I have a sewing pattern to make one. I'm trying an inexpensive version from Target first--to see what I think of it. If I love it, I'll sew one.  Metallic gold sandal (photo 20). These are a maybe but I am seriously considering them to kind of knock around in. I like the tortie buckle paired with the metallic gold leather.  Accessories (photo 21-22) will likely pull heavy duty for the boho element. I have lots of beautiful boho gold earrings of all kinds, and a gorgeous coin collar necklace my MIL gifted me for Christmas. plus a couple of long chain fringe pendants, and my usual stack of bangle bracelets. Trialing a new pair of sunglasses (26) in a very lovely early 1980s style. Items to maybe add: </div><div>kimono dress. kimono topper (?). another pair of pants.</div><div> Photos 22- 40 are part of my summer inspiration board. For inspiration and direction.</div><div> </div><div>Anyone else planning their summer wardrobe yet?</div> goldenpig on "Denim fit lab: blue jean silhouettes" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/denim-fit-lab-blue-jean-silhouettes#post-2407885 Mon, 09 Mar 2026 08:44:26 +0000 goldenpig 2407885@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ OK I may have gone a bit overboard with the jeans wardrobe refresh. I started out this whole process with only a couple pairs of Levi shaping skinny jeans from Amazon, but then started rebuilding and embracing wider and wider jeans, till I ended up going off the deep end and drinking the barrel jeans kool-aid! I thought it would be fun to do a fit lab, kind of like a taste test but with blue jeans. I'm focusing only on the blue jeans, not all the other colors/patterns.   Hubs is a very traditional dresser, so I get more compliments from him when I wear solids and button down shirts (like he really likes the 19-20 outfit). But those type of conservative "business" clothes don't really feel like me, I love whimsical/playful looks, bright colors and patterns and pattern mixing and matchy matchy. I realized that at least 90% of my dresses are patterns rather than solids. Recently he asked me why I was starting to wear such baggy pants and was wondering if I was feeling insecure and trying to hide my figure. He even mentioned he read about Billie Eilish wearing super baggy clothes even though she wasn't overweight. He said the baggy pants make me look bigger than I really am and that I should wear more "normal" jeans because they are more flattering to my figure and he likes it when he can see my ass(ets). I said I don't care about conventionally flattering or what other guys think of me and said Billie and I can dress however we want! He doesn't like the sweatpant jeans either and says they look kind of sloppy. Of these jeans, he only likes the first two pairs, the skinny and bootcut. But skinny is kind of "out", right? And it makes me more self conscious about my waist unless I wear baggy shirts on top. Mind you, he's not saying anything negative about my body and thinks I'm beautiful, so he gets a pass, but he's definitely not used to this whole oversized baggy barrel jeans trend and our fashion tastes kind of don't mesh at all (he thinks he has superior taste, but I think my fashion sense is less boring, LOL!). He definitely likes it better when I dress in conventionally flattering clothes. So what do you think of the different jean silhouettes on me? I kept the shirt the same and used a fitted shirt and side views so you can see the fit better. This is more of a discussion on what you think of the different styles, not a K/R. Which is your favorite and least favorite of these jeans? I already have/wear all of these jeans, but lately I've been going for comfort. I like the barrel jeans a lot, and am loving the sweatpant jeans the most, especially the track pants because I can match the stripe colors to the rest of my outfit, which tickles my matchy matchy gene. I literally have like 10 pairs of the various Rag and Bone jeans! So I'd have to say the Rag & Bone track pants (all the different colors) are my favorite and the skinny jeans my least favorite right now. A few other pics showing my four blue denim jackets. They're all different so I need them all, right? LOL. That's not even counting the black one I bought. Plus I don't have a white denim jacket yet. The old Levi cropped blue denim jacket I had before is too small now and tight in the shoulders and I like a longer length now. I tried a La Ligne cropped Val sherpa jacket, but it looked too masculine on me so I returned it. I love the Frame swing coat with the bell sleeves and flared back because it's roomy but more feminine, and the Miramar trucker jacket because it's so soft and matches all my track pants. The two tone Wash lab denim skirt is a fun piece too. I admit the Gap floral jacket and horseshoe jeans combo is ALGO (a lot going on)--I know DH will not be a fan of that outfit. But vive la difference! We still support and complement each other even though we are different in a lot of ways. That's what makes life interesting. Anyone else with partners who are amused at our fashion escapades? 1-2. Levi stretch skinny jeans 3-4. Lucky sweet baby bootcut jeans 5-6. Rag & Bone Miramar sweatpant joggers 7-8. Rag & Bone Miramar Shea bootcut sweats 9-10. Rag & Bone Miramar side stripe track pants 11-12. Daze barrel jeans 13-14. Next two tone barrel jeans 15-16. Gap floral horseshoe jeans 17-18. Baies heart print barrel jeans 19-20. Rag & Bone striped button down shirt 21-22. Frame denim jacket 23-24. Gap floral crop denim jacket 25-26. Rag & Bone Miramar trucker jacket 27-30. Wash Lab denim shirt jacket (unbuttoned and buttoned) & two toned denim skirt Brooklyn on "S/S refresh #3: white" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ss-refresh-3-white#post-2407704 Fri, 06 Mar 2026 11:30:40 +0000 Brooklyn 2407704@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I generally avoid white. It doesn’t suit me, it skews high contrast with most colours, and it is impractical. Tan is usually as light as I go. Last summer I felt attracted to white for the first time in years, and I started wearing some white tops. This summer marks a bigger change: white bottoms. Super impractical for my (doggie in tow) lifestyle, and with no Angie superpowers to assist. But, because my dog has had TPLO surgery, I’ve not been taking her to the dog park. I can stay clean! That has given me an opportunity to try out wearing more white in summer. Next summer I will have to either hit the bleach or hit the dye. Pic 1: Inspiration. I love this Alexander McQueen-ish look of a long, full skirt with a nipped in, tailored waist. Modern Victorian. (Source: WhoWhatWear) 2-3: White dress. I found the dress at budget retailer Target. I like the length, volume, fabric (cotton) and pin tuck detailing. It has a square neckline and spaghetti straps but I don’t plan to wear it with my chest and shoulders fully exposed (not a good look for me, plus I’m sun phobic). I will wear it with a layer over the top: a vest, open knit top, sheer top, jacket or cardigan. This was the first wear on a hot day. It felt a bit like I was going to an outdoor music festival. (Just add Hunter boots.) 4-8: Ecru skirt. I bought 2 of these linen blend ecru skirts with the intention of dyeing them. (I am trying to replace my everyday skirts.) I dyed one teal but it didn’t take the dye very well. I had to dye it twice. I decide not to dye the second one (for now). 4: Ecru with ivory. The ecru skirt with an ivory top on a VERY humid day. A graduation of whites. I do like ombré 5-6: Ecru with bronze. The same skirt with a linen knit top on a cooler day. The top is one of the oldest items in my (otherwise youngish) summer wardrobe. Over 10 years. I like the greenish-bronze colour, which is hard to find. Years ago, I used to wear the same knit top with white jeans. Looks like I’ve come full circle. The top is long with a curved hem, not a good match for the horizontal line of the basque waist skirt. I just softly semi tucked the top at the front and let the back hang loose. 7-8: Ecru with aubergine. This combination was inspired by my patterned scarf, which I thrifted. I rarely see white paired with aubergine. Perhaps because white is such a summery colour and aubergine is not a traditional summer colour. But aubergine is one of my best colours so the combination appeals to me. It was too hot to tuck in my tank top so I just semi tucked it at the front of my skirt and let the rest hang loose. That worked fine. 9-10: Black and white. About 10 years ago I used to wear a lot of high contrast black and white combinations, but then my preferences changed and I switched to lower contrast combinations. I saw this black and white skirt and loved it instantly, which surprised me because it’s SO high contrast. I think my attraction to it harks back to my ancient obsession with Audrey Hepburn’s (Givenchy) dress in Sabrina. Plus I love wearing “yards of skirt”, as Audrey would say. I grounded it with some brown, tan and bronze. Ket on "Hating Chiffon and Boho Blouses Now" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hating-chiffon-and-boho-blouses-now#post-2406037 Tue, 10 Feb 2026 19:57:28 +0000 Ket 2406037@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Angie got me thinking with her tall boots post, then Janet got me thinking with her skinny jean post.<div> </div><div>I find myself not loving or wanting to keep most of my chiffon or boho blouses. At all.  Some are newly purchased last autumn. The issues range from: <ul> <li>Too large fitting now, they almost look and feel sloppy on me </li> <li>Too hastily tried on and they fit a bit snug around the bottom hem</li> <li>Good colors for me but the look and fit feels "blah" on me when I style them</li> <li>Baby-doll empire waistline, tunic length which works when I'm a smaller busted, but right now feels weird no matter how I style them, even with a minimizer bra (empire in general is usually a tough line for me to wear)</li> </ul> I really find myself feeling frumpy or dated in many of these, to the point I don't like wearing them or making outfits with them. Not because they are or aren't actually dated, but they just feel dated. I have worn chiffon blouses and boho blouses for 15 years. I find myself desiring to move on, even though I am boho in my heart forever.</div><div> For now, I'm keeping both high-neck plum versions, the cream with eyelet yoke detail, sheer black, and leopard print. Everything else is going into a holding zone. It leaves me with very few tops to wear, but I hardly ever pull these out to wear anyway.</div><div> </div><div>I want to try adding back some deep scoop and deep v-neck tees (a la Bruce), along with a wrap blouse and this really lovely drapey blouse I found. I might add a pussy bow blouse if I find the right one. (The copper one I currently own just doesn't have enough va-voom to the bow and style to make me happy.) Also maybe looking to sew/knit/buy some slouchy-yet-tailored sweaters for the winter. </div><div> </div><div>Anyone else over chiffon blouses and boho blouses? </div>