YouLookFab Forum » Forum: Dressing

YouLookFab Forum » Forum: Dressing - Recent Topics https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/forum/what-to-wear Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sat, 30 May 2026 00:41:45 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php Ket on "Hiding a bad short haircut" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hiding-a-bad-short-haircut#post-2413954 Wed, 27 May 2026 17:07:33 +0000 Ket 2413954@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am dealing with a haircut gone bad. Despite really discussing length and all the particulars with my stylist and doing a dry cut... the hair cut didn't turn out as expected. All the shag layers caused my curls to "boing" and shrink significantly. The goal shag turned into a round, 50s kind of style. I'm one week away from a baby shower out of state. :S Thinking I'll find a scarf in a coordinating color as my kaftan, and tie my hair up into a turban shape at this point. Ordered a blow-dry brush to straighten my hair with. If it helps, great. If it doesn't, I'll return it.  <div> </div><div>Photo 1: before. It actually was quite good, needed a little layering refresh.  Photo 2: 1950s Ava Gardner meets Hobbit (I'm laughing at myself, no worries) Photo 3: goal photo  </div><div> This summer will be the Great Growout. I once had hair even shorter than this (and truly more Hobbit than you can imagine) and somehow, it did finally grow out. :} I will need to be patient, especially since the curls shrink length.  Hubs is being kind and gentle. Little Man said, as only an innocent child can: "Mom, your haircut looks terrible. I do not like it." Ha! </div><div>I don't hate myself. But whew... not what was anticipated. Even my stylist remarked how short and curly it turned out. She's been my stylist for 3-4 years now, and this is the first time I've walked away secretly crestfallen. Yes, I could have said something. But there isn't really anything to save a heavily layered shag at this length -- without possibly going even shorter. A valuable lesson is now learned: the shorter and more layered my hair, the curlier and shorter it's going to be.  </div><div> </div><div>Anyone else have a goal haircut turn out differently than expected?</div><div>Anyone grow out a short haircut --or any haircut-- they didn't love? </div> uneasyshopper on "This denim skirt…classic or DATED?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-denim-skirt%e2%80%a6classic-or-dated#post-2413921 Wed, 27 May 2026 12:50:32 +0000 uneasyshopper 2413921@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ In my closet, I rediscovered this Ann Taylor denim skirt with front slit. Slim fit. Hits mid knee. Well made. It’s several years old. Wear it or donate? TIA for your weigh-in! bj1111 on "Remaking my closet—LOOOONG" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/remaking-my-closet%e2%80%94loooong#post-2413890 Tue, 26 May 2026 23:13:14 +0000 bj1111 2413890@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Tl/dr I need to get dressed for work and maybe a garanimals system. I have literally gone thru 80% of my closet after a 20# weight loss and spent an afternoon rolling around in my closet. The bed pile (pic1) is AFTER I amassed two donation bags of saggy bottomed jeans and pull down pants—ie pants I can pull down without undoing the zip. Feels like starting from scratch. GOAL: 5 summer outfits that I can reach for and go to work. Work context. Boss always in a custom made suit. Not ostentatious, just well fitting and boss like. Boss’s boss is in jeans and a tee in the office when not presenting in front donors and the public. I would like to : —be appropriate to meet with both on the same day and match their vibe as a sign of respect for the office while still being authentic —minimize buying new clothes that won’t transition well to a retirement that while not imminent is not 10 years away. —remain appropriately dressed as I transition across the many areas of the city from Harlem to the UES to the LES. —sartorially KILLER TALL ORDER I know. You ladies have such great perspectives and a seemingly photographic memory. Finally ready to hear it. I have some candidate outfits. The first (pic 2) with the polka dot top is probably fine as is. Maybe a closed toe loafer that has come sort of element that reads like dots/spots for bookending the blouse. And no baseball cap Pic3 I like this although with shoes for work. Need a concept shoe to make more work appropriate. Like refined loafer in black or maybe the pointy toe suede espadrille. Or even the one of the one from pic8 Pic4 feels like something I should like but it doesn’t gel for me. Is it the pant? Is it the jacket? Pic5 I like the shape. The brooch is too much. Without it I’ve lost the interesting bit about the outfit and how do I make the sweater more summer hot? Don’t have a tee in this shape. Pic6 is solid work day —for summer I would carry the coat for the icebox office and swap the boot with tabi mary Jane’s? Pic7 you’ve seen. Work appropriate? I I get cold I can just repurpose the scarf? Thanks in advance. Will space out the rest of my posts to avoid fatiguing everyone Dee on "Breezy Black and White" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/breezy-black-and-white#post-2413854 Tue, 26 May 2026 16:08:26 +0000 Dee 2413854@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ The heat is back on and these gauzy wide-leg black crops are so comfy and easy to wear when it gets hot and humid. They were bought at The Bay just before Covid. Drawstring elastic waist and it even has pockets. Kept things pretty simple with an equally breezy white gauze button-up top, then went a bit bolder with a black & white stripe tie-waist tee. The heat isn't going to last but I'm enjoying it while I can. Anyone else feeling the heat? Sal on "Capsule for a long weekend" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/capsule-for-a-long-weekend#post-2413881 Tue, 26 May 2026 22:27:56 +0000 Sal 2413881@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am off to Melbourne for five days and am packing right now.  It is winter, and will have a mix of cool and slightly wet weather.  But not freezing (5-18 degrees C) - I will be taking a checked bag. Activities will include watching sport (in the day), a comedy show and a musical at the theatre (matinee), seeing friends and family, and city walking, coffee etc.. The dressiest occasion is probably the theatre and I will wear the black trousers, cream cardigan and either boots or black shoes. Shoes One pair trainers (not shown) Navy sneakers Either cream boots or Mary Janes (which ones) Coats/Jackets Navy blazer Cord blazer Either guava wool coat and raincoat or tan columbia (which one) Other warm pieces puffer vest (not shown) cream cardigan Tops Brown and cream stripe long sleeve or denim shirt or both? Ecru and navy stripe tee (do I need this?) Navy turtleneck blue long sleeve (for walking under vest) blue, black and white tees (not shown - more for layering or walking) Bottoms Cream jeans Blue wide leg jeans Black trousers Black side stripe trackpants leggings x1 or 2 Bags Either black or rust (which one) Backpack (not shown in case we do a long day of city walking) A scarf as well and a couple of hats (one cap and one beanie) and a belt or two. Interested in - - Cream boots or Mary Janes - will probably only get one or two wears but I want one non sneaker option - which coat or coats?  I want one waterproof choice. - which handbag - black or rust - denim shirt or striped tee or long sleeve top (or all of them?) Looking forward to it!! Carol on "Over this sneaker" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/over-this-sneaker#post-2413907 Wed, 27 May 2026 03:59:07 +0000 Carol 2413907@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ This sneaker shape, this Adidas shape, so on trend...is something in any other year that I would love. With its sleekness, its sock-like quality, but like from a pro footballer...it has an undeniable style.  But it is kind of ubiquitous now. I cease to associate it with sweaty, determined soccer players, or cool French kids. Now I associate it with everything, everyone, everywhere...it feels a bit sanitized. I do have something kind of in this shape, and I still wear them frequently. But I am more excited now about the Adidas shell toe, a throwback to my raver days.  It looks like they are making them, so I will have that on my radar. In this flat-ish shape of shoe, I am still interested in sneakerinas. I don't know if I will make that happen. I know that most stylish people will experiment with everything...I guess I just have a certain thing with shoes.  Maybe with a tracksuit, though...I would wear either of these with a track suit. Bring back the sporty flavor.  aloha emily on "In the Style Doldrums" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/in-the-style-doldrums#post-2412769 Tue, 12 May 2026 21:14:52 +0000 aloha emily 2412769@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Would love ideas for how to escape the style doldrums without going on a shopping spree. I’m bored of my clothes and bored of clothes in general. I know some steps to take, but some are hard (like making time to style my hair and apply makeup) and some require more sartorial skill than i currently have (like finding business looks that work in tropical heat). Mindlessly scrolling is so much easier! Sadly less effective, though. Any suggestions? Ways to follow through on what i know i need to do? Other ideas to spark interest again? kellygirl on "WIW and surprise Fabber meeting!" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-and-surprise-fabber-meeting#post-2413291 Tue, 19 May 2026 03:52:44 +0000 kellygirl 2413291@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ DDs were in town this weekend for a family wedding in Napa. It was at an estate outdoors—the venue and the bridal party was breathtaking. Everyone looked fantastic. Floor length dresses, midi dresses and even a few shorter cocktail dresses with fascinates. Quite the diversity! DD1 wore a dress she found at consignment in NY, DD2 found a gorgeous ruffle dress at Nordies and I found a dress at Marshall’s. (DD1 is the fashionista in the family so we had to get final approval from her before cutting the tags) We drove back to the bay area on Sunday and stopped at the local mall and who did I run into but Slimcat! It was quite a surprise and so much fun to meet her in person. She is as poised and elegant in person as she appears in the forum! It was quite the treat! 1 -travel clothes and stop for coffee in Napa 2- rehearsal 3- purse and jewelry 4- wedding attire Thanks for looking! uneasyshopper on "50th reunion" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/50th-reunion-1#post-2412874 Wed, 13 May 2026 19:22:40 +0000 uneasyshopper 2412874@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ What to wear to a 50th high school reunion in the midatlantic region in June? I can rule out tiered or flounced or pleated or drop-waist skirts, which make me look dumpy. Same with white pants, a mistake I've made over and over. (Whenever I see photos of me wearing them, I find I look especially bottom-heavy.) I’m 5’4”, a bit of a pear, basically a size six with narrow shoulders. I’m too short to wear anything maxi. Could probably handle midi. Bunions have made shoes a huge challenge, though shoes have been a life-long challenge for me. (Gosh, what a NEGATIVE post! Sorry!) The event will be held at a hotel (with A/C), but this is not a formal event. I don’t think I even need to wear “cocktail attire.” I tend to look best in something waist defining. I’m fussy about fabrics — prefer cotton or linen for summer. I’m not a fan of synthetics…too hot. Thinking about this dress from Dillards because of the color and the cotton fabric —not sure about the enormous bow from the sash though. Would truly appreciate your sage advice! Many TIA! <a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.dillards.com/p/vince-camuto-solid-v-neck-cap-sleeve-belted-midi-a-line-dress/521258329">https://www.dillards.com/p/vin...../521258329</a> Star (Lise) on "It was Spring and then I blinked" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/it-was-spring-and-then-i-blinked#post-2413193 Mon, 18 May 2026 12:25:56 +0000 Star (Lise) 2413193@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hi Fabbers I'm wondering if anyone else had this experience this year. Talking about seasonal dressing here. Early Spring, what I call Cold Spring, was more like Winter this year. Only on 4 May I changed to lighter knits, sleeveless puffer vest, etc. now on 18 May it is too warm for even a long sleeve Tee on it's own! I was just finding my groove, which combos I was enjoying. I haven't even worn many of my Spring clothes and, 'bam', it is Summer clothes required. I realise I have far too many clothes for this weather window, all of two weeks this year! Anyone else have this situation? Jamie on "So…if leggings are out…." https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/so%e2%80%a6if-leggings-are-out%e2%80%a6#post-2412594 Fri, 08 May 2026 20:19:23 +0000 Jamie 2412594@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ So, if leggings are out, and I agree, what does one wear with a tunic and look modern? I feel so good in a tunic. Thank you all. pirouette on "Trying on jeans in my wardrobe" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/trying-on-jeans-in-my-wardrobe#post-2412389 Wed, 06 May 2026 08:30:57 +0000 pirouette 2412389@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I have enjoyed all the conversations regarding styles of jeans. I am delighted there are so many shapes available at the moment. I wore relaxed skinnies and boyfriend jeans until very recently but as a late adapter I am now embracing some new styles. I am posting a few different pairs the pictures are just trying on different combinations of tops shoes and jackets to see what works. I haven’t done my hair or makeup so apologies in advance.  bj1111 on "Waist scarf" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/waist-scarf#post-2412502 Thu, 07 May 2026 14:31:00 +0000 bj1111 2412502@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Went with the side apron to break up the black. Also depoofs the skirt. Seems more popular a couple of seasons ago Off to the coal face Lisa on "A Swing And A Miss" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---a-swing-and-a-miss#post-2412588 Fri, 08 May 2026 19:05:09 +0000 Lisa 2412588@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello. #1 to #3 - Pink Popover with White Jeans Today's outfit felt like a miss to me. I enjoy the pink top paired with the white jeans, but a different sneaker/shoe would have been better to my eye. The outfit feels very bottom heavy with all the white for some reason. Or maybe it's because the top feels a little more western than sporty to me? #4 to #6 - Pink Popover with Blue Jeans So I restyled the pink top with light blue jeans, cowgirl boots and a hat. Felt much better about this combination. :)  Thanks for looking! Ket on "Linen...sheets." https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/linensheets#post-2411628 Mon, 27 Apr 2026 17:01:30 +0000 Ket 2411628@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Linen and I have rarely crossed paths. Too stiff. Too earthy. Too much body, not enough drape. I had one pair of chocolate linen cropped wide- leg "gauchos" in the early 2000s. (Remember when cropped everything was the rage, especially jersey gaucho pants?) They were from Old Navy and I really loved them. But otherwise, I haven't loved linen.  Until now.  Sheets have been a hard thing for me and Hubs. My husband runs hot and I need a lot of temperature regulation. My body temp can run from cold to warm to sweaty in one night. Not every night, but on occasion, I do experience a lot of variation.  Cotton is either too rough or too. Last year's set of organic cotton sheets were sateen weave. (Didn't realize it until it was too late.) The sateen weave left us both clammy. Then the sheets tore last month. Percale honestly hasn't been that much better.  Bamboo was a great disappointment. Not at all as "cool" or temp regulating as promised. The set we had frayed at the corner pocket seams after only 6 months.  <div> </div><div>Enter linen.  I had never considered linen sheets. I kept researching which sheet material to try next. Linen kept coming up everywhere. Found an organic set. I am in LOVE! I never wake up overly warm or cold. And we are both dry upon waking. The texture of this particular brand is soft in a toothy way. It's like heavyweight flannel fabric had all of the flannel flocking rubbed off. Too early to tell how they'll hold up to wear and use. But still, very, very happy.  </div><div> </div><div>I have no plans to wear linen, but I'm forever converted to sleeping on linen!</div> Ket on "Help with Skirt and Baby Shower Outfit" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/help-with-skirt-and-baby-shower-outfit#post-2412177 Mon, 04 May 2026 17:28:45 +0000 Ket 2412177@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ So I have two things going on: THE SKIRT and THE BABY SHOWER. My precious sister-in-law is pregnant with Baby 2. We are traveling out of state for the baby shower the first week of June.  <div>Shower dress code is dressy casual. As in, no jeans. It is women only and my SIL really wants everyone to wear a dress or skirt. I purchased the skirt in the photos below a couple weeks ago. In my head it looked so cool. In these photos so far, it just feels like "elderly church lady" somehow. Skirts are just tough for me compared to dresses/pants. Really not sure if it's great on me. It's past the return window, so not sure what to do with it. NOTES <ul> <li>I already own the tops and both dresses. </li> <li>I need to find a different shoe than the saddle tan pair I wore in all the photos --especially with navy dresses</li> </ul> </div><div> </div><div>With the oversized black sweater, I'm wondering if it would be really fun with a midi length pencil skirt?? Black Top + Skirt (photos 1-3). MEH to me. Too much volume with oversized top and the gathered skirt. Belt doesn't rescue it to my eye. </div><div>Cream Tunic + Skirt (photos 4-6). Also feeling kinda meh about this. I like it with the vest. But I don't LOVE it enough to keep the skirt. </div><div> </div><div>Navy Dress (photos 7-8). I wore the heck out of this dress last summer. I still enjoy it but not sure if I "feel it" for the baby shower. Ignore the olive cami. Need to purchase a navy camisole to wear under it. </div><div> </div><div>Navy Dress 2 (photos 10-13). My favorite dress. I wonder: is it *too* dressy/swingy/date-night for a baby shower? Not sure I love it with the vest but just trying things out. Needs a better pair of summer heeled sandals with it. </div><div> Open to suggestion. I have a little time to purchase something new, whether that is a dress, skirt, shoes, or belt. :) </div><div> Also have a couple other dresses and my black jumpsuit. I did not try them on for this post. Listed them below, from my finds. Losing energy after 2 weeks of illness in our household. :P</div> Lisa on "I Still Wear My Skinny Jeans" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-still-wear-my-skinny-jeans#post-2412299 Tue, 05 May 2026 13:57:43 +0000 Lisa 2412299@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello. I've really enjoyed the discussion about barrels vs skinnies vs wide legs from <a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/barrels-vs-skinnies-vs-wide-legs">this thread</a> and it was mentioned that skinny jeans aren't that popular anymore, which is definitely true in my area too. But I still wear mine because I'm a rebel. :) My favorite is tucking blue skinnies into knee high boots in the winter months (some <a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/skinny-jeans-worn-4-ways">WIWs here</a>). I also always enjoy blue skinny jeans tucked into higher shaft cowgirl boots, like this recent outfit (photos below). It's so much easier to tuck jeans into boots when they are tight in the calves, at least for me. :) I was looking at my WIWs for this spring and my peach cropped skinnies (recent outfit <a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---dressing-like-a-peach">WIW here</a>) are actually my most worn jeans so far this season. The peach color makes them perfect for that spring vibe, although I notice colored jeans like the peach are even more rare in my area than a blue skinny. The only colored options I sometimes see are white and ivory. And I never see a cropped skinny jean. Thanks for looking! Angie on "Barrels vs Skinnies vs Wide Legs" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/barrels-vs-skinnies-vs-wide-legs#post-2412134 Mon, 04 May 2026 13:55:36 +0000 Angie 2412134@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Janet's post made me laugh and think! kkards comment did too:  :) <a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-and-barrel-pant-backlash">https://youlookfab.com/welookf.....t-backlash</a> Janet said there is a "hatred" for barrels on social media, and kkards responded by saying she loves her barrels but feels similarly about skinnies. I see the connection!  My 2 cents:  Skinnies were MUCH bigger than barrels are now. And for much, much longer. They reigned supreme for 15 years (getting skinnier and stretchier as the years went by). Most people wore some sort of skinny. On the street and in every country (I visited). Across genders. Barrels might be all over SM and in stores, but it's rare seeing someone wearing barrels on the street. They are also far less popular with my clients than wide legs, wide crops, and relaxed straights.  I see wide legs and relaxed straights a LOT more on the street than any other jeans silhouette. I see Athleisure bottoms and shorts as much as jeans. Those are the silhouettes that reign supreme. This is also the preference of my clientele. Very few barrels, and just about zero skinnies (slim straights).  Do you agree, and see a similar thing in your neck of the woods?  Ket on "More photos! New Vest--how to style?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/new-vest--how-to-style#post-2411912 Thu, 30 Apr 2026 17:28:51 +0000 Ket 2411912@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I have been wanting to try a double-breasted style vest ever since I saw <a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/rag-bone-faye-longline-double-breasted-wool-blend-vest/4335230?fashionColor=SALUTE">Angie's Rag & Bone version</a>.  <div> </div><div>Well, I was shocked when I stumbled across a similar--yet different--vest on Eloquii's site! And on steep sale!</div><div> </div><div>The fit is perfection! I purchased a size 14. It was a gamble for me, but it worked out. (I was between the 14 and 16.) The 14 has ample room for a blouse, dress, or turtleneck under it. I could even see wearing a mesh shirt and cami under it and belting it. And I am excited to try this on with my boho items too!</div><div> </div><div>What are some ways I could style this? I am all for mixing styles and eclectism. My feeling is this could (will??) be a workhorse item. I could see wearing a mesh shirt and cami under it and belting it. And I am excited to try this on with my boho items too!</div><div> Watcha think? </div><div> P.S. Yes, I totally tried this on over my athletic wear. It was one of those days :} I haven't workshopped it yet. Need some uninterrupted time, and Hubs and Bubs have been sick for days. Finally on the mend thankfully. </div> Brooklyn on "Autumn, the hip scarf" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/autumn-the-hip-scarf#post-2411863 Thu, 30 Apr 2026 05:49:36 +0000 Brooklyn 2411863@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ During summer when I was wearing mostly skirts I tried out variations of the trend of wearing a scarf tied around the waist or hips, some of which I’ve posted previously. Now that the weather is cooler, I’ve been trying out the same idea with jeans and long pants. What I like about this look is the diagonal line that it creates at my hips and thighs. That’s flattering for my curvy shape. Like an asymmetric top. I miss asymmetric tops! I wore them a lot during the skinnies era. The vibe is a bit music festival. Insouciant. Bohemian. I like. For me, it doesn’t move around when walking. But, yes, it is a bit tricky going to the bathroom. You have to readjust or re-tie afterwards. More so with pants than a skirt. And it sometimes needs re-adjusting after sitting. I think the idea of this look is to throw it on when you go out, much like you would a scarf worn around the neck. It’s not a wear all day look. ******* Pictures I wear this look in 2 slightly different ways. Low and under my top (pics 2, 3, 4) which is a more minimal look. This creates one diagonal line over my hips. The second way is a little higher and over my top (pics 5, 6). This creates 2 diagonal lines (one over my torso and one over my hips). A crossbody bag creates another diagonal line. I think the zig zag effect is quite flattering. (I have fond memories of a Bailey 44 dress that made a feature of this zigzag effect.) The more low slung, “sarong” look shown by the model in pic 1 does not work for me. It feels a bit too skirt like for me, and it moves around a lot. Pics 2-3: This is a large rectangular scarf (in a very fine wool) that I’ve had for years. I just folded it down to a triangle for this outfit. I love finding new ways to wear dark floral. Pic 4: This is an Alexander McQueen-ish scarf that I thrifted. I think it’s viscose. Quite thin. Finer fabrics seem to work best for this look. Pic 5: This is a silk modal scarf that I bought last year from the National Gallery in London. It’s a print of a famous William Turner painting. I’m a big Turner fan. Pic 6: This is a very old cotton scarf from Zara. I like how the colours echo the side pieces of my jeans. The beads (which I thrifted) are blue, purple, teal and gold. I love that colour combination but I don’t get to wear it often. That was an added bonus for this outfit. Pic 7: One of the reasons why wearing a hip scarf feels natural and not contrived for me is that for some years now I have been in the habit of wearing a long sleeve top or sweater tied around my waist when I go out if I think I might need it. I deliberately wear it to the side, rather than at the back, to create that magical diagonal line and make it a more intentional part of my outfit. I think the hip scarf is just a more “styled”, less casual version of the same look. Kyle on "WIW: A 70th celebration" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-a-70th-celebration#post-2411528 Sun, 26 Apr 2026 14:54:17 +0000 Kyle 2411528@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Not my 70th quite yet, but this is what I wore for my husband’s birthday dinner last night. Jeans are a duplicate of the Ecru I posted here. I wanted to wear a white or silver belt, but was worried about dye transfer from the denim, so I played it safe with a black belt and a dark top. Also, this is way more jewelry than I normally wear at once. I just kept piling it on. I always appreciate your feedback and ideas.  <div> </div><div>Bonus shot of the Cacio e Pepe preparation.  Banana Republic dark wash palazzo jeans. <a rel="nofollow" href="https://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=872245032&vid=1&pcid=5030&cid=1137959&nav=hamnav%3AWOMEN%3AWOMEN%27S+CLOTHING%3AJeans#pdp-page-content">https://bananarepublic.gap.com.....;cid=11379</a> <div>A similar RL shirt. <a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.macys.com/shop/product/lauren-ralph-lauren-non-iron-straight-fit-shirt?ID=5333354&pla_country=US&CAGPSPN=pla&trackingid=424x1058625294&m_sc=sem&m_sb=Google&m_tp=PLA&m_ac=Google_Womens_PLA&m_ag=GS_Womens_PLA_BestSeller&m_cn=GS_Womens_PLA_Best_Seller&m_pi=go_cmp-21871652773_adg-170652027838_ad-719600766454_aud-2434551241129:pla-2374234682075_dev-c_ext-_prd-195934176430USA&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21871652773&gbraid=0AAAAAD-Tw4KzGspoZEdKynxCvUupxisw_&gclid=Cj0KCQjw77bPBhC_ARIsAGAjjV8_B8EN1tLe1o6XEfyBbCvUZfnGOdqabW_d7kMtuzR4hMwWJB6YkNgaArOTEALw_wcB">https://www.macys.com/shop/pro.....54&pl</a> Rockport Taryn in silver. Comfy! <a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.famousfootwear.com/product/rockport-womens-total-motion-taren-mary-jane-flat-5279216/silver-leather-81881?partnerid=paid_search_google_pla_pmax_56m&UTM_medium=paid&UTM_source=search&UTM_campaign=google&UTM_content=pla&cpc=Adwords&UTM_name=18390400262&UTM_term=5279216-81881-8.5M&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=18387500632&gbraid=0AAAAADkGpSz0YZoiyzuzqW1H79jYGuNB7&gclid=Cj0KCQjw77bPBhC_ARIsAGAjjV8NhxZVDIXv8i5BeA4OrmYKXrHTKo_K0va_T7caUfdilfcbFRT022IaAmaqEALw_wcB">https://www.famousfootwear.com.....279216/sil</a> Michael Kors Jet Set Metallic Bag. Converts to crossbody, too. <a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.michaelkors.com/jet-set-travel-large-metallic-convertible-crossbody-bag/35S6STVC9M.html?skuId=912514704&colorExplode=true&source=googleshopping&ecid=MKC_PLA_P_GG_X_US_EN_LOWPRIORITY_X_PMAX_22671199859&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&scid=scplp912514704&sc_intid=912514704&ogmap=SHOP%7CPMAX%7CGOOG%7C%7C%7C%7C%7CMKC_PLA_P_GG_X_US_EN_LOWPRIORITY_X_PMAX&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22664969484&gbraid=0AAAAADm3-A8n4W53yw2R9JKARP3dkqV-c&gclid=Cj0KCQjw77bPBhC_ARIsAGAjjV_NtIOyaecOwGw_Gx5awCp08Q8I-avVe4vzN94Nn43sC46-WXp_D_4aAsQHEALw_wcB&mm_rf=mm_f229964087531b1f24f2"><a href="https://www.michaelkors.com/jet-set-travel-large-metallic-convertible-crossbody-bag/35S6STVC9M.html" rel="nofollow">https://www.michaelkors.com/je.....TVC9M.html</a>?</a> </div></div> Dee on "Closet Orphans Revived!" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/closet-orphans-revived#post-2411651 Mon, 27 Apr 2026 21:26:10 +0000 Dee 2411651@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I've had these 2 clothing pieces languishing in my closet unworn for a couple of years but during a recent seasonal closet shuffle, I was finally able to figure out a different way to actually style them so they'd suit me better. Mixing them with some of my other newer pieces and having an open eye to different silhouettes has really helped to finally revive them for me. 1) MUTED BLUE CROPPED JACKET- The light muted colour and cropped length of this jacket always threw me off, but I think it works quite well when paired with these barrels and mary janes. 2) NAVY TOMMY HILFIGER MIDI POLO DRESS- This dress felt kind of dark and basic so I added my cream/navy striped knit jacket as a topper and my chunky beige skecher sneakers to brighten things up. My goal was to try and style these items to feel both relaxed and modern but comfort (especially for my aging feet) was also a top priority. Anyone else finding different ways to style some closet orphans? LJP on "I'm lost lately. Plus wiw 4/24-25" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-lost-lately-plus-wiw-424-25#post-2411419 Sat, 25 Apr 2026 19:17:12 +0000 LJP 2411419@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I'm feeling lost and not in tune with my style, - in fact I have no style. I thought I had a clear idea of how I wanted to dress, but it rarely comes together. The upcoming summer season is depressing me as I'm looking at a bunch of my recently un-packed clothing I can't figure out how to style, or if it even works . I think part of my problem is that I dress in minimal, modern,nice black pieces during the week, but then I crave something I don't associate with work to wear on the weekends. I then buy pieces with a lot more colour and pattern that I would normally be drawn to, but can't figure out how to wear them without looking like a southern retirement complex resident. Which is how I felt in outfit #2 posted below. The floral shirt in the second outfit : purchased over a year ago and still had tags on . Every time I put it on, I take it right back off. It's made of beautiful cotton, also beautifully constructed and fits and feels nice. But I can't figure out how to wear it. It's not me. Why did I buy it? Also cropped pants. They are not feeling right this spring - I"m getting retirement village vibes again . I first put the shirt on with long slouch straight leg jeans, but felt blah. I have no idea what I'm doing . Wore this grocery shopping today and felt conspicuous and overly styled. I could have worn Birkenstocks or Sambas, but that felt predictable and "trendy" . Do I pass on the shirt and cropped pants ? I love the look of long wide legs, but they will be far too hot for summer. I also went shopping yesterday with an open mind - looking for some more work tops (but also open to anything interesting for summer leisure wear) . Maybe you're not supposed to go shopping without a plan. I felt old and invisible in Aritizia, completely confused in Zara, and in general hated what I was wearing - LINEN- and how I looked . Lululemon was cute but I felt frumpy and old . I'm struggling with my hair and my skin these days too (rapidly thinning hair and skin that has so much hyper pigmentation now - photo 3 ugh) and it's affecting how I feel in my clothes. Also my perennial weight struggle. Please tell me I'm not the only one who struggles with these feelings? I'm house and cat sitting this weekend, so brought my copy Allison Bornstein's book (also unread ) with me to try to sort out a style direction . Thanks for reading my oh-woe-is-me story - I need some direction . Outfit #1 - over to DD's to supervise the cats. Sweatsuit - Old Navy, jacket - Zara, Birkenstocks, and floral socks from Simons. Outfit #2 - ill fated experiment today - shirt - Zara, jeans - Dear John, sneakers - Sam Edelman (also 5 years old and worn maybe twice) , jacket- Zara , Bag - indie boutique brand. Sal on "When do you decide something just isn’t right?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-do-you-decide-something-just-isn%e2%80%99t-right#post-2411311 Fri, 24 Apr 2026 23:31:50 +0000 Sal 2411311@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I wore this outfit yesterday to work. I really don’t like it. I have had these white pants in my holding zone for two to three years. I think they should be donated- I used to love the cropped ankle pant and still like it - but these are not the right pair for me. Especially with the ankle boots. Last year I bought this olive shirt as a wildcard and a way of pushing my style. But I don’t think it is good enough on me to warrant keeping. The colour is a bit muddy, the shoulders don’t give me a good shape - and it is not that flattering. That’s not my main goal any more but a cool shirt is not enough. The shirt can be wrapped and worn two ways so I have attached pics from last year showing that method. Do I call it quits on these two pieces after a bad day or persevere? Cookie on "April packing challenge" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/april-packing-challenge#post-2410305 Sun, 12 Apr 2026 17:54:13 +0000 Cookie 2410305@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ This week I’m going on a short family trip to the Dominican Republic! Long story but I was born there, my father and I just had simultaneous big birthdays, a university there wanted to give him an honorary degree. For some reason the clothing needs are throwing me into a tizzy. Factors: 1. It will be, from my perspective, unpleasantly hot and humid. 2. There is this degree ceremony, which my father says the university (a Catholic university? Not sure whether that is here or there) is taking with the utmost seriousness. Asked what is worn to this, he said “A summer dress.” 3. There may be “an afternoon reception” on a different day, hosted by a fairly elderly diplomat type. 4. City sightseeing, museums, birthday dinner at some nice restaurant. Perhaps perversely for a trip to the DR, we are unlikely to go to a beach at any point but I guess a bathing suit doesn’t take up much room in a suitcase. 5. Indeed, it’s such a short trip I probably don’t even need to worry about that. Soooo … 1-3 Thinking of wearing this skirt with different tops for both travel days. Comfy, has pockets, can wear leggings under if needed. 4-6 Sightseeing/dinner? I think my loved ones are not huge fans of this dress but whatever. 7 Thinking of this for ceremony?? Or could re-wear the following. 8-10 Thinking of this for reception?? The top in 8 is what I like best, mom thinks I should not be sleeveless for whatever reason, but I think it is dressier. 11-13 options for something extra to throw in as backup for daytime activities. Thank you if you read all that but I don’t blame you if you didn’t. Does this seem acceptable?? It’s been winter so long I don’t remember what I wear when it’s hot. Roberta on "Linen and a Few WIWs" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/linen-and-a-few-wiws#post-2411230 Thu, 23 Apr 2026 17:13:04 +0000 Roberta 2411230@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Today was warm enough to wear shorts, so I brought out a Boden linen top and the only shorts I wear, the Eddie Bauer Rainier. I have included a couple of other outfits from the past few weeks, when it was cooler. I bought the Boden top second hand several years ago, which really speaks to the brand's quality. And linen's ability to hold color. This hot spell is surprising in April. I haven't even worn all my winter things. Cross my fingers for a few more cool days, but even if the temp is lower, the sun makes it feel warm in a sweater. As always, thanks for your comments and company! Lisa on "Moss Green Pants 4 Ways" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/moss-green-pants-4-ways#post-2411037 Tue, 21 Apr 2026 23:56:49 +0000 Lisa 2411037@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello. This is a catch up post. I always enjoy restyling one item different ways. Here's 4 ways I've worn moss green pants for WFH days over the past few weeks. #1 - Chambray Shirt and White Tank #2 - White and Navy Striped Tank and Navy Knit Blazer #3 - Ivory and Navy Striped Tee and Navy Terry Shirt #4 - White Shirt My favorite is #3, ivory and navy striped tee with the navy shirt. Do you have a favorite combination? Indigoprint on "How well do mesh flats play with patterned bottoms?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/how-well-do-mesh-flats-play-eith-patterned-bottoms#post-2410719 Fri, 17 Apr 2026 21:53:34 +0000 Indigoprint 2410719@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ DS wedding is approaching. Thanks to Fabbers previous input I am sorted for the wedding. The reception is held on a later date. It is a picnic with a bounce house for the kids. I have chosen a pair of flowy lantern style pants in a print. I am still sorting out my topper. I was wondering about trying some mesh flats, but am not sure if that would be too much pattern on the bottom? Those who have had mesh flats for awhile what kind of bottom do you lean towards ? A pattern or do you stick with solids? Star (Lise) on "'The Skinny' on my skinnies" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-skinny-on-my-skinnies#post-2410668 Fri, 17 Apr 2026 11:14:35 +0000 Star (Lise) 2410668@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello Friends I have to 'fess up' to you guys. I may have a rep here for being a cheerleader for skinny jeans. This is not really accurate. I love straight jeans. I have never worn low-rise skinnies as they do not work on my body shape. I have a few skinnies with a higher rise but they have not fitted for five years. Well they fit now and I don't love them. There I said it. For all the same reasons some of you said; too restrictive, look dated, uncomfortable. High Five to all of you who feel this way, I'm now on your team. No barrels for me yet but Team Looser Jeans going forward. anchie on "Need Guidance Choosing a Formal Gown for My Daughter’s Debutante Ball" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/need-guidance-choosing-a-formal-gown-for-my-daughter%e2%80%99s-debutante-ball#post-2410038 Wed, 08 Apr 2026 14:57:08 +0000 anchie 2410038@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello Fabbers , it has been a while since I last posted. I’m looking for practical advice on what to wear to my daughter’s debutante ball in the second half of May. Special occasion dressing is very rare for me, and I don’t have anything appropriate for an event at this formality level, so I’m starting completely from scratch. To give a sense of the dressiness and overall aesthetic, here are two photos of my daughter in the dresses she tried. She will also be wearing above‑the‑elbow white gloves and white shoes so the look is very classic and traditional. I would really appreciate guidance on what styles, silhouettes, colours, and fabrics are suitable for a mother at this type of event. What I know so far: • A long gown is required • It’s a very formal evening event at the Vienna Rathaus • I’m open to both buying and renting I would love advice on: • Flattering silhouettes for formal gowns • Appropriate colours that work well for me • Fabrics or details that look elegant without being overly flashy • Shoe styles that are comfortable enough for a long evening • Simple, polished hair ideas (I prefer low‑maintenance styles) • What level of accessories is typical for this kind of event • Supportive underwear or any other details I am forgetting Since I’m starting from zero, any guidance on what to look for, and what to avoid , would be very helpful. Thank you in advance!