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YouLookFab Forum » Forum: Inspiration - Recent Topics https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/forum/inspiration Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 04 Jun 2026 02:50:29 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php Carol on "Some random fun" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/some-random-fun#post-2414335 Tue, 02 Jun 2026 00:16:56 +0000 Carol 2414335@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ The first photo is my best ever "outfit generator combo" that popped up. Built of everyone's finds, we have some nice driving loafers, a kitty purse, a David Bowie shirt, some J. Crew blue/white boater stripe ankle chino pants, and all topped off with a tight yellow jacket.  I couldn't get over it. The second is a find that popped up, that I will highlight in my finds here. It is  a lovely argyle polo sweater in two different versions, for 75% off right now at Shopbop. Maybe I will get one, but I thought I would mention it, because so many sizes are available.  Carol on "Raiders of the Lost Closet" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/raiders-of-the-lost-closet#post-2413849 Tue, 26 May 2026 13:49:28 +0000 Carol 2413849@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I think balloon pants just might be the ticket for an item I truly need this summer--especially something in a gauzy, light-colored fabric. They remind me of something...bazaars, deserts, baskets, embroidery...kidnapping? All of a sudden, I remembered where in pop culture I had seen this item, and it is the Karen Allen kidnapping scene in Raiders of the Lost Ark (Indiana Jones), 1981. A memorable scene with lots of action, set in the  street of Cairo on a sunny, leisurely morning interrupted by men with knives and scimitars. Good thing she wore a low heel. This outfit is apparently more memorable than I realized, because it is an established Halloween costume, often a couples costume, alongside Indiana Jones. The whole outfit is cute, but I particularly like the low-heel wedge. That sounds like a great shoe to wear with these pants.  Bonnie on "Tie Oufit" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/tie-oufit#post-2414115 Fri, 29 May 2026 15:55:21 +0000 Bonnie 2414115@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I checked my Finds to see if I could create an outfit inspired by #2 in today's post and this is what I came up. I still have to find a tie, my utility pants are my gardening pants and need to be replaced, but I think the rest will work.  bj1111 on "Speaking of sneakers…" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/speaking-of-sneakers%e2%80%a6#post-2414060 Fri, 29 May 2026 01:26:46 +0000 bj1111 2414060@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ So much this <a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/rag-and-bone-retro-runner-slim-ultra-sneaker-women/8942531?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAll%20Results&color=900" rel="nofollow">https://www.nordstrom.com/s/ra.....;color=900</a> bj1111 on "Everlane and the next chapter" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/everlane-and-the-next-chapter#post-2414133 Fri, 29 May 2026 17:27:19 +0000 bj1111 2414133@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Everlane founder has new company <a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/sharonedelson/2026/05/26/everlane-founder-michael-preysman-to-launch-new-brand/" rel="nofollow">https://www.forbes.com/sites/s.....new-brand/</a> <a href="https://stillradical.com/" rel="nofollow">https://stillradical.com/</a> Carol on "Red, white and blue and its potential" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/red-white-and-blue-and-its-potential#post-2413627 Fri, 22 May 2026 16:43:22 +0000 Carol 2413627@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ There are two types of themed holiday clothing I like. The first would be Christmas/winter earrings and sweaters. The second would be most anything that has to do with the fourth of July. I like the fourth of July--with its base of red, white and blue, there are so many variations that can be made. Pretty much any display for that holiday I will stop by, and they are getting more and more tasteful and varied.  For a person like me who enjoys meaning, that is also available--there are country road/Sweet Home Alabama looks (pic 1 and 2), old-fashioned, Main street looks (pic 3, best I could find), polished Washington D.C. looks (pics 4 and 5), and straight graphic looks (pic 6). Oh, and how can I forget Tommy Hilfiger, the master of this color scheme (7)? I don't actually own anything 4th of July! But one thing that would make it more tempting would be something distinctly patriotic, but also just a fun item to wear the rest of the year.  In Angie's blog post today, she put up light, easy tops. One was this Boden (8), which I loved, and which would fit into that July 4-flexible category. It is a bit expensive, so I probably won't get it, but I do enjoy these things. I started this post without linking it to the blog post, so here it is: <a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/2026/05/22/fab-finds-easy-tops/">https://youlookfab.com/2026/05.....easy-tops/</a> Are you a fan of July 4 clothing? Or any other holiday? Do you have a lot, or are you like me...a great window shopper of these items?  Oh, and here is the Boden shirt: <a rel="nofollow" href="https://us.boden.com/products/women-pointelle-henley-t-shirt-blue-white-k1262ivo">https://us.boden.com/products/.....e-k1262ivo</a> Irina on "Updated - Summer accent color - red" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/summer-accent-color---red#post-2412966 Thu, 14 May 2026 22:54:14 +0000 Irina 2412966@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I’ve always liked and often owned a pair of red summer shoes. This year I feel like adding a bit more red through accessories. Cold red is not a bad color on me but I get bored with brights fast and in clothing, it doesn’t have a great longevity in my closet. But accessories work.  <div>Photos 1 to 5 is what I have - one bag is very old, probably bought more than 10 years ago. Red flats are 5 years old. The red pouch, sandals and a blue with red stripe shirt are new. </div><div>Photo 6 - red silk bandana on the way to me. I’m not into scarves that much, maybe to accessorize a straw bag. Undecided. I’m looking for a red beaded necklace and maybe a red hair clip. Seems like a lot! What colors are your accessories this summer? Are looking for anything different?  Update. Well, the Gap silk scarf is nice but I will return it. I tried it and found that it is just not for me. When I wear it, I feel overly styled. I added a striped light cotton sweater that is more like a t-shirt  I also bought a red t-shirt from Kotn (photos #7&8). I have it in black and enjoyed wearing it on vacations. It’s lovely and fits well but I’m not sure. Maybe it will be too much  I’m still waiting to receive my red necklace but I think it will be all   </div> Lisa on "Another JCrew Inspired WIW - White, Brown, and Black Accents" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/another-jcrew-inspired-wiw-white-brown-and-black-accents#post-2413468 Wed, 20 May 2026 17:50:56 +0000 Lisa 2413468@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello. Today I was inspired by another JCrew outfit today (photo #5), this time white, brown, and black accents. I have the same white chino shorts as the model so I began there, mine are from last season but they are still available. I added a brown cotton gauze Rails button-up shirt. The same accessories from yesterday's outfit (<a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/jcrew-inspired-wiw---french-blue-navy-and-black">here</a>) rounded out the outfit, black Hermes belt, black slip on Ecco sneakers, and Positano strawbag. Thanks for looking! Carol on "Organza Rabbit Hole" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/organza-rabbit-hole#post-2411617 Mon, 27 Apr 2026 15:35:06 +0000 Carol 2411617@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I looked up organza yesterday to remind me what it was (a stiff, gauzy fabric made from a variety of materials), and it was so beautiful that I ended up clicking on photo after photo and wondering if and how it would fit into my life.  The nicer versions are like art pieces, and the cheaper versions are compelling enough. The wraps are most appealing to me--I don't think they do much in terms of warmth, but have major visual impact. They look, at first glance, like they only belong at galas. But I think a creative person, an irreverent person, a bold person might be able to pull it off in a more casual way. Perhaps with a leotard and pleated skirt...or a gothy black tank dress and boots...I bet there are a million ways.  Lisa on "JCrew Inspired WIW - French Blue, Navy, and Black" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/jcrew-inspired-wiw---french-blue-navy-and-black#post-2413355 Tue, 19 May 2026 15:56:45 +0000 Lisa 2413355@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello. Today's outfit was inspired by a JCrew outfit of navy shorts, french blue shirt and black accessories (photo #6). I started with the same shorts as the models, JCrew chino in navy, mine are from last year but they are still available. I don't have black tank tops in my wardrobe anymore so I popped on a navy LL Bean scoopneck tee for a dark column of color. I have the same French Blue JCrew linen garcon button up shirt (the sun is making it look bluer in the photo's than it is in person). I don't have black sandals, so I reached for my black leather slip on Ecco sneakers instead. My Hermes reversible belt on the black side finished off the outfit along with my strawbag from my trip to Italy last year. Thanks for looking! Bonnie on "Sweatshirts & Skirts" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sweatshirts-skirts#post-2413030 Fri, 15 May 2026 15:44:45 +0000 Bonnie 2413030@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am inspired by Angie's blog to try my sweatshirts with my skirts. I have worn the red one with the white flower skirt and enjoyed the combo. I have new gray Mary Jane shoes that should work with the gray sweatshirt. My sweatshirts are fleece lined so I'll wait for a cold day to try them and add photos.  UmmLila (Lisa) on "In the wild — have you ever seen anyone wearing satin pants" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/in-the-wild-%e2%80%94-have-you-ever-seen-anyone-wearing-satin-pants#post-2412484 Thu, 07 May 2026 11:02:02 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 2412484@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I have been seeing wide-leg satin pants touted as trendy for about two years now, but I’ve never seen a person actually wearing them. Have you? Carol on "Xana-do" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/xana-do#post-2411295 Fri, 24 Apr 2026 19:51:45 +0000 Carol 2411295@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Incidentally, I woke up this morning with Electric Light Orchestra in my  head, so I put that on. Then I went to get a haircut.  "I like the wolf cut," I told my hairdresser, "but I'm not sure I would get it right now." "Maybe just a couple of layers," she said. "Not sure," I said. "I already put a couple in," she said. I like it, though it looked better before I walked home and got sweaty. "Farah Fawcett bangs," said my hairdresser, and I have always wanted them. I tried to give the cut more oomph with a teasing comb, dry shampoo, etc. when I got home, but I definitely need to restore the drama of those bangs. If anyone has advice on maintenance of a Debbie Harry/Farah Fawcett-type cut, I'm all ears. I will definitely go bigger, and prefer to look like a 70s rock star over a contemporary modification. Carol on "Met Gala snapshot" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/met-gala-snapshot#post-2412664 Sun, 10 May 2026 00:34:11 +0000 Carol 2412664@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Out doing family travel, but now back for a while. I am slowly catching up on the Met Gala from a few days ago--a fantastic event that is fun if you know nothing about it, but abundantly rewarding when you know more, because of themes, histories, design...and the minds and faces who participate.  Here is a still from the Vogue video I found striking--on the left is disability advocate and fashion expert Sinead Burke, and on the right is Ashley Graham, world-famous plus-size model. They are discussing advances in inclusivity for people with physical disabilities in high fashion, some advocated for by Burke. It's something I had not considered, focusing on the obvious, like architecture/building accessibility. Actually, what I like is their dresses--very classical and elegant against this sort of pastoral, Grecian background. (Is that wisteria painted on the wall?) Graham wears that gauzy nude drape like a goddess. And Burke is in Christian Siriano--one of my favorites. Evident in some shots is the shoulder plates--black, beak-like sequins arranged to look like armor. Reminding me of warriors, or the opera.  (I can't find a good shot of these shoulder plates. Sometimes photographers drop the ball.)  Carol on "Fabric question" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fabric-question-2#post-2411222 Thu, 23 Apr 2026 14:32:33 +0000 Carol 2411222@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ One thing I love is the fashions from music from the 50s and 60s--especially Motown, pop and R and B. There was a certain fabric on some of these dresses, and I am wondering if anyone knows what it is. Sort of brocade-like--annoyingly stiff. Very beautiful clothes, but a pain to get into. You find it in thrift stores sometimes.  Here is a scene from the movie Ray. The fabric I am thinking of is this...or close to this. What is it?  Lisa on "Outfit Inspo: Yellow, Black, Dressy Boots" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-inspo-yellow-black-dressy-boots#post-2409382 Tue, 31 Mar 2026 20:51:22 +0000 Lisa 2409382@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello. I really liked the colors for outfit #1 in this post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/2026/03/20/outfit-formula-slim-skirt/">Outfit Formula: Slim Skirt</a>, with the yellow top, black skirt, and dark brown dressy boots. I don't have any of these items, so here's my recreation with: yellow pullover, black trousers, and burgundy boots which are the closest to dark brown that I have. I forgot to include my matching burgundy bag in the photos but it's in the finds. I always enjoy the outfit formula posts for a little inspiration, thank you Angie! Thanks for looking! Carol on "Michael Kors is amazing" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/michael-kors-is-amazing#post-2409246 Mon, 30 Mar 2026 02:07:15 +0000 Carol 2409246@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am suddenly drawn to Michael Kors' design, which I always knew was elegant, yet seemed deemed for women unlike me--the Guess set, the Bebe set. Large sunglasses, sumptuous overcoats, and heeled boots, even in icy snow. I am drawn to him right now even more than Calvin Klein, or the perennially impressive Ralph Lauren.  I don't know if it's just me, but he seems somehow "overlooked" among American sportswear. His purses are reasonably priced, colorful and tasteful, and yet somehow don't command nearly as much attention as Coach. I watched the recent runway to see what drew me. The clothing is confident, not fussy, yet still special. Perhaps a little Italian flavor, like a sleek sports car.  I like that there is still a deep connection to classic style--burgundy shows up in silk dresses and wool overcoats, but not in something crazy, like macrame. Camel is almost presented as a bright rather than a neutral. I mean, if it's a power color, why not wear it head to toe? What are your thoughts on Michael Kors?  Runway show: <a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.michaelkors-collection.com/">https://www.michaelkors-collection.com/</a> Carol on "EBTG Inspo" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ebtg-inspo#post-2408788 Tue, 24 Mar 2026 00:16:54 +0000 Carol 2408788@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I love Everything But the Girl--80s/90s pop/jazz/electronic duo with smooth vocals and breezy mood. One of the first bands that introduced me to the idea that good music did not have to resemble Led Zeppelin. I don't know them well past a few songs, but this one popped up just now on YouTube music. I enjoyed the video as fashion inspiration as well--slip dresses, colorful dress shirts, very intentional choices in eyewear and blazers. Backed up by historic apartments with vintage pieces and lots of sunshine. The song is "Rollercoaster," 1994. <a rel="nofollow" href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=AIOAlaACuv4">https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=AIOAlaACuv4</a> Roberta on "A Long Cardigan" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/a-long-cardigan#post-2408023 Wed, 11 Mar 2026 17:53:46 +0000 Roberta 2408023@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I have hung on to this cardigan because it has such a pretty drape. It is lightweight, so it is good for those odd spring days where you're not really sure whether it's warm or cold. The catch with the long cardigan is that I require a longer jacket. Here's another WIW, which I wore to get my haircut. We are calling it a shaggy pixie. I love the lilac velvet barrel pants. So soft, so comfy. Also, some flowers and a turtle, because I went to the Garfield Park Conservatory last week when it was so gray and dreary. ETA Pictures! LJP on "The CBK effect ." https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-cbk-effect#post-2407498 Mon, 02 Mar 2026 23:48:53 +0000 LJP 2407498@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Are you watching Love Story on FX?  I haven't started it yet - quite honestly, I have a very rudimentary level of competence with our tv so I need to get my DH to get it set up for me. I can find Apple Fitness, NHL games (but now I'm sick of the NHL and our President- loving goalie in particular ) , and that's about it .  There's no way DH is  interested in this so it will be watched on my own time , lol.   Anyways, when the first test wardrobe shots were released, I cringed and there was no way I was going to watch what looked like a fashion hot mess.  But , I gather the show runner got the message, so to speak and has fixed that part up. The actors still don't do it for me - especially her- , but I'll need to watch to see how it all came together. I admit to being a fan of CBK's style and only dreamed of having a body and hair like hers that seemed necessary to dress the way she did.  I  bought Sunita Nair's book about her when it was first released and have pored over it a few times. I love the photography and the style analysis .    I will also admit all of the current buzz about CBK has renewed my interest in one of my favourite items: the cropped flared jean/pant.  As recently  as last summer, I felt over the whole look. I had worn it for years and years, but silhouettes had changed a lot in recent years and I bought into the wide and baggy, and barrel silhouettes.  I fortunately didn't get rid of my kick flare jeans and pants (thank god, as I'm usually a crazy declutter-er) and cannot wait to wear them again . I even ordered two more pair of flare jeans in a shorter length ;).  It looks so fresh and modern to my eye, which was accustomed to the long and loose and barrel silhouettes, which to be honest, don't look that great on me. I wish I could do the white shirt  or black turtleneck look with jeans, but I don't share that same lanky tall physique which makes those looks work.  I do feel influenced/excited by flat sandals, loafers , quality statement jewellery, and this sort of classic look . Kind of excited to see where it leads me.  Calvin Klein forever ! Even her makeup has me interested in changing things up  : no eye makeup and a blotted darker lip.   Thoughts about Bessette - Kennedy and the current buzz ?   Suz on "Claire McCardell" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/claire-mccardell#post-2407295 Fri, 27 Feb 2026 16:44:20 +0000 Suz 2407295@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Janet recently recommended a <a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2025/08/claire-mccardell-womens-fashion-designer/683260/">fabulous biography </a>of Claire McCardell, the brilliant mid-20th century American designer. <a rel="nofollow" href="https://articlesofinterest.substack.com/p/the-great-american-fashion-designer?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=1038545&post_id=182982640&utm_campaign=email-post-title&isFreemail=true&r=38y4d&triedRedirect=true&utm_medium=email">Here's an interesting article about her at Articles of Interest, with many photos of her work.</a> There's also a link to the podcast version at the site.  Her designs truly revolutionized women's fashion! And when you consider she was born in 1905! Just look at how modern soe of these designs are. Wow.    Bonnie on "My Polkadots" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/my-polkadots#post-2406715 Thu, 19 Feb 2026 20:09:53 +0000 Bonnie 2406715@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I like polkadots, they add a playful vibe to my outfits. I checked my finds and found polkadots on two dresses, one tunic, one pajama, three pair of socks, and two scarves.  Je Ne Sais Pas on "Auctions: Marimekko and rugby" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/auctions-marimekko-and-rugby#post-2405591 Wed, 04 Feb 2026 22:14:30 +0000 Je Ne Sais Pas 2405591@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ The personal fashion collection of the entrepreneur who bought Marimekko and gave it a second life is being auctioned. Lots of high end brands. <a href="https://auctionet.com/es/search?event_id=&theme_id=4272-kirsti-paakkanen-collection-i&is=&q=enamel+brooch" rel="nofollow">https://auctionet.com/es/searc.....mel+brooch</a> And I find this antique fob so charmingly naive… <a href="https://www.easyliveauction.com/catalogue/lot/44d5ef6c29754f2cf07a319b456ae7ce/0af8d24542e81eb9357e7ef448a6646f/collectables-models-jewellery-silver-militarian-lot-11/" rel="nofollow">https://www.easyliveauction.co.....an-lot-11/</a> Bonnie on "Tedious Holding Zone Sort" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/tedious-holding-zone-sort#post-2404049 Tue, 20 Jan 2026 22:41:46 +0000 Bonnie 2404049@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Well, thanks to Angie's inspiring post about doing the tedious things first, I've managed to sort through my Holding Zone and find things to donate. I added the finds so I can remember what I let go. Some things were never or hardly worn like the four short sleeve sweaters from BR which I could not make work for me and the tees which were too tight. The green sweatshirt was uncomfortable and two more sweatshirts, not pictured, were also uncomfortable. The mixed media dress and the white boots were hardly worn, too. Thanks for reading the tedious recap of my tedious sort.  Chris987 on "2025/2026" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/20252026-1#post-2401800 Thu, 01 Jan 2026 14:58:32 +0000 Chris987 2401800@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ 2025 It  was a pretty good year for my wardrobe. I felt it worked well for me across 4 seasons, which is a HUGE accomplishment. I didn’t always have as much fun with it as I would have liked but that was ok! I bought a LOT, from finding HEWIS and replacements to “just wanted it”.  I also made some mistakes, mostly of the “it’s so inexpensive I’ll give it a try” variety or duplication in a second color that didn't get worn. I also did a bunch of donations.   2026 I’m going to set goals month to month. For January overall I’m going to focus mostly on some health and other non-fashion goals. These are some ideas for fashion goals through the year:    - Thinking about change of hairstyle. - Color: “less black”. Black and dark/light grey are still core neutrals that I love, but I want to wear less of them, or add more light colors to black basics etc. - I’d like to have more fun, more joy with my wardrobe. But avoiding a mantra or word.  - I continue to be frustrated at the mismatch between what fits me vs. the styles I want to wear. I want more edgy, boho, glam, and less classic, masculine, “arty”. The only action I've come up with so far is to try some new retailers and be willing to spend more per item.  - I want to spend less time overall on wardrobe/fashion. During January I plan to figure out at least 3 things I will do toward this goal. ANY progress I make in January will be a win! - open to a few trends but mostly don't care for the ones that have been around the last few years. Favorite purchases of 2025 (not all workhorses ... and a clear pattern of Anthro items!) BR cashmere sweater (Thanks Suz for the reco) Rebecca Minkoff crossbody x2 (one everyday size, one smaller) DKNY basic black overcoat (HEWI/Replacement) Anthro/Maeve checked scarf Anthro Carys Sweater x2 Brioso Sandals (thanks Angie for the reco) Dolce Vita sneakers Karl Lagerfeld Bomber jacket TJMax/Republic Navy/White striped sweater TJmaxx Dk Brown faux seude pants TJMaxx Philosopy Brown leopard collared cardigan (this is very similar to an Anthro/Pilcro one) Thrifted trio of LLBean tees that fit perfectly once I hemmed them Coach boots –  I know Coach quality is good, but I don't care for any obvious logos, their classic styles can be a little dull, and the trendy ones don't interest me. HOWEVER.....these boots  are great looking, comfortable, grippy, and warm. They were an unexpected find in TJMAxx.  Also showing the matching Coach bag bought last year which was my first lesson in "Coach CAN work for me". Both items have a section of coated canvas with a dark brown/black pattern of the Coach "C" motif but it's so subtle that it's hardly noticeable.  :-)        Sal on "Goals 2026 as well as new moniker?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/goals-2026-as-well-as-new-moniker#post-2403309 Thu, 15 Jan 2026 04:04:11 +0000 Sal 2403309@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hello all lovely forum members, It is mid January now and tomorrow I have my youngest son turning 21! Wow. I wrapped up 2025 a couple of weeks back and have done some thinking since this time. I enjoy fashion, style and wardrobe management and find it fun and relaxing. Our business is fairly stressful even on the smoothest weeks (aviation, workflow, staffing, property matters etc) and I work with my husband. I like thinking about clothes, outfits for events, and trying to get 30 wears from most things I buy. My wardrobe hovers between 90-100 pieces (clothing and shoes) plus about 40 pieces of activewear and gear. I don't dress especially similarly to my peers here - I don't stand out as being different but I march to my own tune. Sometimes it works and sometimes it does not - that doesn't faze me. In 2026 my style words are Bold - I like my outfits to be strong in one way or another. It might be colour or silhouette or via an accessory. I don't achieve it always but that's an intention. Elegant - I need the reminder to keep up the polish and professional edge. I don't want to lean too casual. Unfussy - this replaces breezy. I simply won't wear things that are fussy on me. This might be too many layers, or with a small pattern, or a top that does not sit nicely. I like longer lines and simple shapes. I don't wear much jewelry either. Sporty - Angie's suggestion. I am no great sportsperson but I am active and ourdoorsy, I like watching sport and I like participating. Walking, the gym, yoga, cycling and pickleball are my main activities. I love swimming in lakes and in the ocean. I am a Kibbe Natural (probably Flamboyant) and whilst my hair is not natural I like it to look as though it could be. My moniker has been Grown Up Charlies Angel - I love 1970s style and the attitude of being ready for anything whether a cocktail party or a chase or going undercover. I don't think I look like any of the Angels (1970s tv show). But maybe does not resonate as strongly now. I don’t want to force something but am open to ideas. In 2026 I really want to keep on going as I have. I am mindful of the following: - I have big toe arthritis and so I have exited a few pairs of shoes, it's hard to predict what will work and what won't so shopping in person is often better. - I am trying to shop bricks and mortar where I can to support retailers here. I want exceptions to be rare. We do have local options and I like to shop when I travel as well so that’s another option. - I want to keep trying second hand - I had good success last year with second hand pieces and this is both fun and a way to be experimental. - avoiding muddy and muted pastel colours. I am in the mood for lighter and clearer colours. But neutrals remain important to me and I am open to a variety of these. Black, Navy, Caramel, white, denim, ecru and the odd chocolate piece. I also wear charcoal grey although mostly in lounge and hiking gear. My shopping list so far is - light weight puffer - black boots - straight dark denim jeans - replacement white sneakers (what is modern here?) My do not buy list is - heels - patterned blouses - summer dresses - any new active wear is on a one-in, one out basis. I will attach some photos of outfits of mine that I have enjoyed recently or from the archives of looks I enjoy. It is a bit eclectic but I like something about all these looks even if the later ones on the list comprise pieces I don’t own any more. Thanks for reading and look forward to your ideas. unfrumped on "WSJ on loafers" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wsj-on-loafers#post-2403478 Sat, 17 Jan 2026 15:51:54 +0000 unfrumped 2403478@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Teaser, sorry, there is a good article in the WSJ on the history of loafers. Especially for Canadian fabbers, since Bass Co now a Canadian company. But I cannot do link. Carol on "Word and Color of the Year" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/word-and-color-of-the-year#post-2402546 Wed, 07 Jan 2026 15:26:46 +0000 Carol 2402546@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ WORD I actually sat a couple hours meditating on this the other day, and kept gravitating towards science words like biota, calcification and grotto. They were all great, but a stretch to find meaning. I knew I needed a simple word, and so I chose particle...at least for now. To me that means being a tiny part of a whole, almost insignificant but with absolute ramifications on the whole. Though it makes me kind of uncomfortable, it is good for me to think of myself as a tiny part of the mess of humanity, with me being responsible to it, and it being responsible to me. I spent too much of my life as a rugged individualist--feeling overly special, but also different. COLOR I got an image of an Indonesian gold headdress, and I knew that was the color, though it is really not a color--more of a process. It is gold leaf or gilt, and appears throughout history and cultures. I suppose the nearest color would be yellow gold. Here I am showing Indonesian arts, Byzantine mosaic, and an unlabeled photo--perhaps European Renaissance or Baroque period. It is not so much decadent as transcendental--often associated with religion, it reminds us of the divinity that is just on the other side of the threshold. They used to gild picture frames hundreds of years ago in Europe, and that would make you look more closely at the scene inside, spend a few more minutes on it. If I gilded something in my house right now--the couch, the water filter pitcher, my purse--it would cease to look like an everyday object and instead remind me that the world is truly special. This kind of gold will remind me in 2026 it is not all about practicality and to-do lists. It is just as important to be in the moment, acknowledge rituals, allow for divinity, etc. And remind me to stick to goals that are wholly impractical, like reading long, bucket-list literature.  UmmLila (Lisa) on "Style words / moniker" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-words-moniker#post-2403346 Thu, 15 Jan 2026 18:37:22 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 2403346@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I’ve been giving some thought to style words, and I’ve come up with romantic, polished and directional.  I chose these words because: <ul> <li>I like fancy florals and faux fur. And pink.</li> <li>I always like to feel soignée, at home or outside</li> <li>I follow trends and select from a few of the most current every season</li> </ul> <div>As for an actual moniker, I often used the phrase “fierce intellectual gentlewoman”  as a means of deterring the unworthy on dating apps. I thought I could combine these two trains of thought into something like romantic intellectual gentlewoman. Any thoughts?</div> UmmLila (Lisa) on "Word and color: exuberant pink" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/word-and-color-exuberant-pink#post-2402933 Sun, 11 Jan 2026 01:01:10 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 2402933@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I had started off with “extra” as my word of the year, because I’ve been trying to amp up my brightness during the dark time of the year. Exuberant is an even better choice. I’m not a tremendously outgoing person so I find it fun to let my clothes do the extroversion for me. Also, I’d decided on raspberry as my color. Then, this afternoon my daughter and I were out at the Humble Mug tea shop in Brattleboro, Vermont. They have a different set of oracle or tarot cards at each table, It’s quite charming. I drew the peony card (it said something like grace, romance and abundance, all of which sound good to me), so I’ve decided I need to expand to two shades of pink.