Help! Suggestions please. I am a young 49, hourglass shape and gravitate to a feminine, modern and classic aesthetic. I also love a pop of color and prints. We have an upcoming wedding that will take place at 5:00pm on a Friday in Pasadena, CA. It will be held outdoors in a public garden and dinner to follow. FYI our friend/groom is 52, his second wedding. They have given no guidance as to the dress code. Any rules, guidelines for the type of wedding and setting is greatly appreciated!