I don't know if it's a different response. We are our own enemy when we absorb negative judgements (usually from men in power, because men ARE in power) and push them outwards on others; when we decide being a woman is a problem or a fault; when we point fingers at other women for decisions they've made in response to social ideas. This is true whether it's foot binding or the word "womanly." We are our own enemy when we hate ourselves, because we've been TAUGHT to hate ourselves, because of the social dynamic we're in.
In short, I doubt women invented purdah, but they may have embraced it for social or religious factors as a result of a hostile world created by men. And it IS and HAS BEEN a hostile world.
Now, I will also acknowledge that oppression can also be a source of power if it's co-opted. I know many women argue that the bourka is a source of power, when others argue the opposite. It all depends on your framework.
Also: I've actually done a bit of research on foot binding and it was done for men. Because it was associated with status, it became super sexy. Women like to appeal to men, so they did it - it was a way to marry off your daughter and make sure she ate every day. Who's to blame? Everyon, for buying into this weird fetish. But definitely let's not let men off the hook here or anywhere else, because let's face it, women often HAD to please men to live. They didn't have a hell of a lot of other options.