Do you have a lot of other "me" time? I know a lot of ladies here that are busy working ladies and busy mothers use YLF for some "me" time. If you feel you can't spend your time on YLF, please make sure to still take your "me" time . . . 15 minutes a day isn't much. . . you work hard and deserve some time to relax and indulge in something you enjoy, for yourself.
This incident aside (although I don't think you did anything wrong, I can get why he was hurt, but it sounds like what I would call a communication issue, not an actual conscious betrayal), if it was me i would really find it important to get to the bottom of why shopping and caring about fashion, style, and how you look bother's DH so much. Neglecting kids, agreed upon responsibilities, budget constraints based on need or long-term agreed upon goals (saving for X), or time spent together is one thing (that everyone can get caught up in, especially when we've been neglecting ourselves and then get excited), but using grooming time, "me" time (even setting aside MORE me time if you really didn't have any before), and time that wasn't previously being used for something highly productive or something done together or as a family is another. It doesn't sound like you really have a lot of current hobbies or me-time, and I can't imagine mommy forums count unless you spend all your time there getting support, rather than ideas. No man I know would count a support group or forum for daddies as their hobby or me time. Honestly, I think women tend to sacrifice alot, and men can get used to that-- even wonderful husbands. I'm a very accommodating person, but I've had to point out how hurtful it can be when someone tells you don't deserve time or money that you have or they spend or that what you enjoy or value isn't worth their respect because they don't agree or understand it or make it a priority in their own lives. I'd investigate WHAT is really making him disapproving . . . or what he is afraid of.
I love the orange and camel on you and in particular admire your Fossil bag . . . I really was drawn to it when I saw it in person, but it isn't practical for me so I admire it from afar.