Thanks for the great suggestions, I'll look into them. I forgot about BR - I've gotten a few petite things there recently too, very nice. Those are all fairly big brands (Ann Taylor, BR, Macys) - any quirky boutique brands I should know about?
I think I am truly only petite, at least it seems so. I'm 5'3" so on the taller range of Petite, right? But pretty much every item of regular non-petite clothing: pants, blouses, t-shirts, dresses, you name it, looks wrongly proportioned on me. In high school my mom complained that I looked "dressed like an orphan" whatever that might mean. It sounds kind of offensive, frankly, but her words not mine.