This is one of the reasons why I have little sympathy for retailers. So many of which are struggling.

Angie once asked me if I really hated shopping that much, and I answered yes. This is why. I would say I'm sorry I'm not a size 2 that conforms to fashion's ideals. Except I'm not. My body made 2 beautiful girls and does all kinds of amazing things for me everyday. Fashion designs can go to the municipal sewer treatment plant if they think I need to change or feel bad for the way I am.

It does mean I simply spend less on clothes and more on other things. I've found a few places that accommodate me, and I'm more than happy to give them my money.

Two points I would like to make here. Having a hard to fit size creates a situation where you either get frustrated and give up on fashion and style, or you get obsessed and become possessed by the hunt. I am one who is possessed. I'm clearly not plus sized because I wear a 4 or 6 in most items, but it's still hard for me to find things that fit. My big fit issue is my height. You may not think height is much of a fit issue but it really is if you want to appear professional and covered. Sleeve lengths are almost always too short for my unusually long arms; hem lengths on dresses and jeans too short for my long legs; darts on blouses fall at the wrong place; my torso is long, my rise is long. However, I'm not really tall enough for tall sizes and I'm too tall for regular sizes. Additionally, many big brand companies that make tall sizes do not make them small enough to fit me. Tall sizes are proportioned for larger sizes, not small so they are just too big for me. All this leads to my obsession with shopping and finding things that fit. It's work, it's hard, and the clothes that end up fitting tend to be higher end and much more expensive than those that I should be able to find in my local retail stores if I were an "average" retail size. My size is not typically available on the racks or shelves at the local mall. However, there are things I can hunt for. It must be very frustrating when there is even less available.

My second point is this. I have accepted that I need to shop online because I have fit issues, and am not like the majority of the retail population in my community. I'm not even sure that my size would be readily available if I were to shop in a big city. What is my size? It isn't really a size, it's more of a proportion issue right? I need clothes that are sized and proportioned a certain way.

I shouldn't have to shop online, but I do because I refuse to wear the very limited selection of petite clothing offered at the local stores. If they want my business, they need to give me more choices and quit offering matronly clothing designed for senior citizens. This is, and always has been, my beef with local stores. If they go under, so be it. There's nothing for me, so why waste my time and gas to go look?

On me, most "cropped" pants are actually correct ankle length so I say YAY to cropped pants which means I don't have to hem pants!

And don't even get me started about how hard it is to find plus size petite sizes.

To add to Staysfit's comment, there is a third option - you learn to sew. I did. Not much RTW fits because I have a short torso (petite might fit except for the too short sleeves) and long legs (talls might fit except for the too long rise), and a smaller waist:hip ratio than most manufacturers allow (when the garment fits my hips, it gaps at the waist; when it fits the waist, it won't go over my hips). And what RTW I have is size 2-4, so the fit issues aren't limited to plus sizes.

Alexandra, I have to agree. I often wish I knew how to sew. It would be a great skill for everyone with fit issues whatever they might be.