I loved both of Angie's outfit inspiration in the blog. I replied that I usually wear these pants with a fitted top (should post some pics) but I want to try a more fluid top, as in outfit #1. Then I saw her answer to Roxxanna, explaining why she suggested a looser top.
This got me thinking: I am much smaller on top than on bottom, and deliberately choose to pair a fitted top with harem pants - which sounds counter-intuitive, but I think it shows better the fluidity of these pants.
That got me thinking...
Up to a certain point in my life my small shoulders were a pain to look at, in spite of years of swimming! I used shoulders pads well into the 90s to downplay the top/bottom contrast. Then decided I don't care and started wearing smaller tops, and still do. And now I like my shoulders just fine... go figure!
Over to you, have you learned not only to accept, but even to love an "imperfect" part of you?