Alecia, I think I missed your intro post. What is your body type? That would be helpful for me to know. From these photos alone, I'm guessing a pear... but if that is completely wrong then it's the suits.
I will start by saying that I find pants suits VERY hard to fit me right. It's a rare one that works on me, so I know what you mean, by seeing women in 10's and not knowing how they pull it off! I do have better luck with jackets and pants that aren't coordinated but work together. I think this is because when it's a coordinated suit, often the jacket may fit impeccably but the pants just don't, or vice versa. So that is one option to keep in mind: finding separates that complement and you can mix and match.
I LOVE the bee necklace - gorgeous! And I also love your haircut and color (what I can see). The aubergine shell in photo #1 is a truly fab color on you. Absolutely beautiful. And I am envious how well you wear collared shirts - agree the pearls would add something to this, but just saying that you wear such shirts very well. Envy!!
As for the suits, it may be the angle of the photo, but both seem to make your legs look proportionately short compared to your torso. Do you have a long torso and shorter legs? PPL could help here, but I also think a shorter jacket that hits higher on the hip might help too.
Jackets: I recommend you experiment with one-button jackets that have some waist definition and hit higher on the hip. I'm not sure this is the right idea, but it's worth a try on.
Pants: The pants seem a bit high waisted? Have you tried something a little lower? Like the Martin brand at Banana Republic? Also they seem loose on you. What does the rear view look like? You may want to try a slightly lower rise, in a size smaller.
If the hems can be taken down, or you can wear these with flats, I think it would totally be worth the $ to take both to a tailor and see what they can do. Long ago, when I used to have to wear suits all the time, I did that for a few suits someone gave me that were quality material but a touch out of style and too loose on me. It made a huge difference and was worth every penny, compared to buying new. A nip here and a tuck there, and I ended up with suits that were 10's!
Meanwhile, try both jackets on with your best fitting dark-wash jeans, and roll up the sleeves. I'm interested to see how they will work for a smart casual look. Menswear-inspired jackets are in now, I've been lusting for one myself. I think these jackets might work for that...