wow, minimalist, you and I think along the same lines:
"Sustainable fashion feels feminist to me; choices to sink resources into "staying current" looks like resignation to life as an object of male gaze. Sure, men don't care whether your footwear is right-now, so they're not directly dictating it. But the "staying fresh" game is generally played by women who are high beneficiaries of patriarchy and thus have little interest in taking a harder look at how their fashion choices impact, directly and indirectly, less-privileged women who suffer in the long run. For many of us somewhere in the middle, the costs of regularly "updating" a wardobe involves the kind of money that, over decades, can make a difference in a woman's lifestyle and quality of healthcare in retirement.
I certainly don't live in hemp granny dresses and moccasins made out of inner tubes, and that's not what I'm suggesting. There are times when it's prudent to signal privilege and status via wardrobe choices. Choosing footwear that can be repeatedly refurbished over decades is a privilege, and at the same time feels appropriately non-status-quo to me. Perhaps even a bit defiant."
I'm always wondering about the evolving relationship between feminism and consumerism, as over the course of my three decades, I've seen a real shift towards "femme" feminism, or "luxe" feminism, where splurging on cosmetics and shoes and accessories, etc. does not "bar" one from the feminist ranks. I think there's been a definite move away from, even a disavowal of, the hemp granny dress version of feminism (second wave, if you will). Which is fine, insofar as it's important to reassert that anyone can be a feminist, regardless of how they look, but I do wonder at what point self-care becomes "treat yo'self!" becomes thinly-guised consumerism -- and benefits the marketplace more than it benefits women.
Even the current minimalism trend of the past 5 years is a distinct form of status-signalling. It seems there's now a "right" way to have less, which involves having the time to Kondo your house, having the money to subscribe to Stitchfix, Rocksbox, etc.
Greenjeans, don't know if any of that advances the conversation about "nice" vs "good" -- sorry if I've derailed -- but I do think signalling, and deciding how closely to align oneself with cultural expectations, plays a large role in your question.