I am very big busted and have such a difficult time with bras. I also ocassionally suffer from hives if anything around pressure points, i.e. bra band is too tight. Is there such a thing as a comfortable bra that also provide support? I feel like my only option for support is a tight band which is so uncomfortable. I have been fitted at Nordstroms and I leave thinking "ok this will work" and then I get home and cannot wait to take it off.