Hi Anna! wow, what a closet! i like 5, 10, and 11.......10 is indeed incredibly awesome and perfect for a winemaker's dinner.......
except the point is to eat, drink, and be merry, yes? and there's no polite way to ask this - how do those pants fit? you want something with no belly constriction, and something that 'forgives' any poochiness. you don't want to be feeling like you can't partake as much as you want to of amazing food and wine!
my sister was big in the food business for decades, and my mom lives in Napa, CA - we've gone to LOTS of wine and food events over the years. if those pants are comfy for that type of situation i'd say go for it! but if you're like me (blushing, but....oh well) and you like to feel free to tuck in......maybe pop that sequined top over dress #11?
whatever you choose, these pix prove you're going to blow the room away !!! happy birthday and have a blast!!! steph