Ladies, where do you go with your big handbags? What do you use them for? Is this a rude question?

I almost got this bag today, undoing all my work to not buy things I don't use. I didn't because I tried it with the cross-body strap, and that didn't look good on me for some reason. I suppose it was for the best I decided to try the cross-body look, because I would have gotten it if not for that.

Still, I'm jonesing to put a satchel on my list. I feel like it would add a certain finishing touch. But the only place I can think to take one is on a train. Or a drive for a stay in the country. Neither of which happen to me anymore - or ever will again. Not shopping or dog walking - too heavy to schelp. Not to the office - a satchel is big, but not big enough for lunch and a laptop. Not out to dinner or lunch - nowhere to eat out like that anymore. I'm not sure I'd even want to take one to a museum.

I should just keep satchels off the list, shouldn't I? But where does everyone else go with them? There's got to be one place I go where everyone else goes that could be my excuse...???!!! Lol.

But no, I'm serious.