I finally found this thread! Wow Inge, that is some list. I think I'll have to go to an actual brick and mortar store and check these out as I find it a bit hard to judge a how-to book without being able to read it myself.
I took a chance with the Stitch n Bitch book because the projects were so cute I couldn't resist. I'm glad I got it. I don't know if I would have been able to follow without prior knowledge though. Right now I am making small swatches of each project so I can get an idea of which would be the best ones to start with.
I also just started doing Tunisian crochet which I find MUCH easier. It's a bit like knitting with a loooong crochet hook, so perhaps it will ease me into knitting. I'm just not used to having so many loops on my hook/needle. When the loop falls off in crochet, it's no big deal. I just slip the hook back in. Even if it unravels a bit, it's easy to fix. When I drop a stitch in knitting or Tunisian crochet though, I really panic and usually can't recover. I guess what I really need is a book on how to fix knitting mistakes...