Suz, Meredith, Brooklyn: high five outgoing introverts! That's what I am too. People wouldn't guess, except close friends and family, who know that I have an absolute maximum of visiting time before I need to escape into solitude to regroup. (Dogs do not interfere with this process -- I can be "alone" with a dog -- although if circumstances were different, I suspect a cat would work too!).
Rachy, you probably count as an outgoing introvert too. Interesting that there seem to be several of us extra/introverts who are also dog people.
Lucy, can a writer not be an extravert? I too used to like having my dog sit by my feet while I worked.
Staysfit, that's a funny story! My best friend's cat is a ghost cat too. I've only seen him a handful of times and he must be about fifteen by now. Mostly he hides under beds when people come.
Xtabay, LOL!
deb, kerlyn and Runswithscissors, there you go! You are shooting holes into the theory that dog people are extraverted, as I was hoping. (kerlyn, I grew up with a beagle! Does yours obsess over food too? Ours used to break into things -- we had to have locks on all our cupboards).
Gaylene, cats often want to come sit on me too. I think there's a simple explanation: cats prefer people who don't grab at them.
Ummlila, I suspect I would be fond of cats too, if I'd ever had a chance to get to know one. For some reason none of my relatives ever had a cat (although many have dogs), and few of my friends have one (except my best friend, but her cat spends all his time in the attic or under beds, so he doesn't count).
Aargh, Summer, I could do without dead rodent "gifts" as well! Although I cheer on the neighbourhood tortoiseshell kitty who prowls our backyard -- I know she's out there keeping the mouse population down! We had a bit of an issue with rodents last year, because of the drought.