Ana, here are some black moto jackets that I think are "softer":

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/29.....erralID=NA

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/29.....rchresults

http://www1.macys.com/catalog/.....sn_results

http://www1.macys.com/catalog/.....sn_results

http://www.smartbargains.com/g.....8;t=Search...prod.12

http://www.overstock.com/Cloth.....oduct.html

This one isn't black...but it's very pretty in chocolate brown:

http://www.neimanmarcus.com/st.....earchType=

I know many of these are not your style...but it just gives you an idea of how I perceive a soft black leather jacket.