Thanks for the input everyone - much appreciated! I think I'll def. get my Mum to take it out. She said the darts culd go out at least an inch each - there's no way I need that much extra. I might try it with a smaller belt to see how that looks - I don't own a skinny belt though.
Looks like opinion is 50/50 as to whether it works over jeans. That's enough for me to try and wear it that way to dress it down I think! Although Alecia I think your suggestion of the black skinny pants is spot on. Jean I agree those skinnies are too baggy - they're at least a size too big now, more so when they are due for a wash. They are on my "to replace" list - probably in April!!
Tanya, Angie and Juli I'm glad you like it a dress. Sounds like its passable as a tunic, so I'm happy about that!
Shiny I don't like wearing things that are tight and uncomfy either. This material is very stretchy, so I don't think that will be an issue here (hope not!!) Wearing it as a dress I'd def. pair it with boots and probably tights - wouldn't have that much leg on display don't worry! :)
Maya if you get desperate for a shipment of TimTams just let me know. There's lots of limited edition flavours in stores atm!! Maybe I could add it to a ylf swap item? :) I have a few things in mind actually, just need time to post them!
Nicole don't worry I kind of get what you mean about the pleat. It is actually very "floppy" fabric, so not at all umcomfy. I think what I really love is the drape of the skirt - covers my problem stomach area!