Autumn Mom on the Go: flop proof outfit #5

November 12th, 2009

Shiny Outfit 1Today we tackle the 5th of my 10 casual outfit formulas for moms on the go (refresh your memories with formulas #1, #2, #3 and #4). This one is all about the boyfriend blazer, so I turned to fabulous Boston forum member Jennifer (or “shiny” in the forum), who is a full-time telecommuting professional, wife, and mom to two beautiful teenage girls. As an early fashion adopter, stylish Jennifer got her head around how to wear a boyfriend blazer in no time at all. This is how she rocks formula #5.

As a 44 year old mom of two teens, my biggest challenge is achieving that ambiguous state of style that we call “age appropriate.” I do not know which is worse: being the mom in the pickup lane who doesn’t try hard enough (showing up in sweats and her husband’s baggy tees), the one who tries too hard (squeezing into her daughter’s clothes), or the one who got stuck in the 80s and never left.

So when Angie first proposed wearing embellished T’s, Converse or boyfriend blazers, I dismissed each out of hand, thinking: “This is not for me. I am old enough to have teenagers who live in graphic tees and Converse and I already did the boyfriend blazer thing in my younger years!!!” But with lots of trepidation and some coaxing, I decided to give it a try. I learned how to pull off wearing all three, even all at once, and without looking like a teenager! You can, too.

Here is Angie’s formula:

Jeans + graphic / embellished T + boyfriend blazer + Converse sneakers

And here are my tips:

  • Boyfriend Blazer: Because I’m only 5’0”, I was dubious about finding a boyfriend blazer that would not overwhelm me. But once you find one that’s scaled to your frame, structured on the shoulder, not too long, and with the stance in the right place, you’re good to go. Alternatively, this look will work with any structured blazer. The fact it is a blazer will automatically make the outfit “grown up.” Why? Very simple, because teens do not normally wear them! This is the item that pulls the outfit together and makes it look more sophisticated. Do experiment with your career clothing because I love the juxtaposition of a serious business suit jacket worn over a casual, whimsical tee. And what better way to make your wardrobe work double duty?
  • Graphic T: Just because it’s an inexpensive T does not give an excuse to skimp on fit. While you’ll want to leave the cute sayings to the teens, it’s okay to express your interests and have fun. Do choose a flattering neckline and length. Alternatively, any nicer knit top or tunic will work. For a casual date-night look, try a dressier silk blouse and juxtapose feminine with masculine.
  • Jeans: Try the look with dark wash or black boot cuts, straight legs, or skinny jeans. Ponte knit pants work too.
  • Footwear: For a more “grown-up” look, stick with bootcuts or straight-legs when you wear Converse or fashion sneakers. When I wear my skinnies with a boyfriend blazer, I opt for ballet flats, but slouchy flat boots, loafers, brogues and booties will also work. I love the look with my metallic oxford booties. Yes, they are heels, but since I spend a lot of time schlepping teens around in the Toyota instead of my arms, I can get away with it. Not to mention, they and all their friends tower over me now, so I could use the extra inch or two of height to give me “mom” authority!
  • Layering: Add a cami, cardigan, vest, scarf for extra warmth and interest. Think of your boyfriend blazer as you would any fall-weight jacket, but so much sharper than a Polar fleece or hoodie.
  • Accessories: I like the look of a long necklace with the lean line of the boyfriend blazer. Or I skip it entirely and go with the ease of a simple pair of hoops. Add a watch if you wear one, and a cross-body bag, slouchy hobo, or tote in a fun color.

While there are many ways to incorporate a boyfriend blazer into your wardrobe, this formula is ideal for the Moms and gals on the go because it is casual, comfortable, practical, and so easy. Above all, I love how the blazer gives me authority when dealing with teens that are taller than me. So over to you. Are you willing to give this formula a try? Let’s hear your opinions on formula #5.

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I like to roll up the sleeves for attitude. The purple T advertises my favorite theater group’s recent production. It works when the blazer is added to give structure. Since my lifestyle involves lots of taxi-driving these days, I can also wear this formula with heels too.


 

39 Replies

Posted on Thursday, November 12th, 2009 at 7:59 am

Nice job, Shiny.
I actually wore this formula yesterday!
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I paired it with my micro check pants, because my blazer is navy. but it seemed to work.

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 8:10 am
Meredith

I absolutely LOVE this look. I know that my next two purchases must be a boyfriend blazer and some converse sneakers!! Nice job, Shiny!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 8:31 am

You do this look so well, Jennifer! It looks perfect for running around or a casual night out. May I ask where you usually find your graphic tees (especially your top outfit and first in the bottom row)? Finding age appropriate tees that I like is my biggest challenge with this look and mine so far are not really tees but tee-shaped tops with designs.

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 8:32 am

Jennifer, you ROCK that boyfriend blazer like there is no tomorrow! (Sweet kitty too).Thanks for the fabulous write-up and for looking KILLER in formula #5. I especially adore your theatre T because the colour is magical against your skin tone. Love the pearls and the way you’ve added your booties! You look arty, fun and hip. This is one of the coolest formulas in my opinion and you are the perfect role model. I really enjoyed hearing how authoritative you feel in your blazer. Brilliant :-)

You’ve already inspired Meredith and I’m sure that there will be many more!

Joy, knitted tops are a perfect substitute for T’s. Khris, nice outfit !

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 8:48 am
LauraElizabeth

Jennifer-shiny (LOL, it’s a little odd for me to know your name after so long on the forum!!) you look SMASHING. My husband glanced at my screen and asked if you were a designer (I work at a school with a lot of creative-arts professionals, and he sees a lot of them).

I loved seeing how you put this look together! Bravo! I’ll be “cheating” this look with a regular blazer, thanks to you and Angie’s formulas/write-ups!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 8:59 am

Shiny, so cute!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 9:06 am

Khris, you look great!

Meredith – thank you!

Joy – I found the tee in the top photo at a local boutique. It was pricey for a tee, and I have learned not to spend that much – you don’t need to! The other tee you like is a recent addition from Forever21 – get on over there now and you will find a lot to choose from – including tunic length and banded tees. It was a lot cheaper (under $10) and the quality is better (it’s a thicker, less sheer tee). The purple tee was purchased to support my favorite theater troupe, and the blue tee is “borrowed” from my 17 year old daughter. Another good place to look is Delia’s, which is where my daughters find many of their fun tees.

Angie – as you know, the neighbor’s kitty, Juniata, made this photo shoot a challenge. She is too cute, so we’ll forgive her.

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 9:12 am

Great post Shiny! I love the outfits you have put together, and you made me REALLY want a boyfriend blazer (like, right now). :D

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 9:41 am

You look beautiful! Thankyou for showing us your great outfits.

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 10:01 am

Thank you for the wonderful writeup Shiny! you look so good in this formula. I like it a lot and have already been wearing it myself.

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 10:17 am
Stargirl

Pleeaaasse Let me know where you got that blazer! I’m the same height and it looks so awesome on you!!!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 10:22 am

Oh Shiny, you look so fab! Well done – both the pics and the article. You exude style.

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 10:23 am

You look gorgeous, very cool, and age appropriate all at the same time! :o ) You make me want to jump in the car right now and hunt down a boyfriend blazer!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 10:31 am
Patience

You look so fabulous, Shiny! Great write up too. Thank you. You are the rocking-est mom.

Ana, I agree– you need a bf blazer right now.

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 10:32 am
SeaCorps

Hi Shiny,

I’m petite and I’m considering adding the boyfriend blazer to my wardrobe. May I ask where you found your correctly-proportioned blazer?

Thanks!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 10:32 am
jannine

OK – that is SO FUN! What a great job… I’m VERY dubious of the boyfriend blazer, can’t tell if it’s too 80’s, too young, too “conservative” – I think just the word “blazer” makes me cringe. You’ve totally pulled it off in a fun fun way.
I’m officially looking for a great Boyfriend Blazer.
!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 10:38 am

Yay! BF blazer converts! Happy dance!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 10:49 am

What a great post, shiny! You look so hip! Thank you for providing fantastic tips on the boyfriend blazer.

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 10:50 am

jannine, your words are what I feel about blazers too. I always thought, too conservative for me. Shiny thanks for the write up. When you say use the blazer like a polar fleece or hoodie the penny dropped.
Your writing is very entertaining and funny. Thanks again.

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 10:52 am

SeaCorps and Stargirl – it’s a Theory blazer that came out last Fall. NOT a petite – I believe they’d marketed it as a “shrunken” boyfriend blazer, which I thought was funny, but it works just right for me. I had my eye on it all last year, waiting for it to go on sale. Then it sold out of my size. I was so sad! But in August I was shopping in Filene’s Basement, and found it for only $35!! Major score.

But boyfriend blazers are everywhere right now, at every price point, so look around. Don’t limit yourself to the petite department, but do be picky. You can afford to be picky right now, with so many options.

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 11:00 am

Those proportions are just right on you — you look gorgeous and fun and totally age-appropriate. What an inspiration. Well done!!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 11:07 am

Aw, thanks San! Fall and Spring are my favorite fashion seasons because they are ideal for wearing jackets and blazers. I love how the simple addition of a jacket can take a casual outfit and make it smart. So easy.

It’s also a great way to extend the use out of your work wardrobe. I have a few business suit jackets that work just as well as this one over jeans and a tee or casual top. Experiment!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 11:07 am

Wow, Shiny! You certainly did score! You look GREAT! I love how you paired it with the graphic tees. A fantastic, fun look for you that compliments your urban lifestyle. Thanks for the inspiration and the wonderful write-up!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 11:16 am

Jennifer, thanks so much for a wonderful boyfriend blazer posst. I love reading about other moms balancing the age appropriate-with-teens issue. It’s tricky, isn’t it? As you point out, the great thing about these blazers is most teens aren’t wearing them so there’s none of that “trying to look young” issue. Hope I can find one to fit my narrow shoulders!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 11:16 am

You look amazing Shiny, I love the looks with the oxfords! Between this post and Angie’s blog yesterday my search for the boyfriend blazer is now a top priority.

Strangely enough, my number one accessories are also a toddler or a cat around the ankle.

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 12:20 pm

Every outfit is killer! Love love love that yellow bag too. Thanks for the fabulous writeup Shiny!

Also, are you *really* “not a cat person”? Because photographic evidence suggests otherwise!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 12:29 pm

You look fantastic! You mesh stylish and age appropriate perfectly. I bet your teens love having such a stylish mom!

I too absolutely adore the tee on the left of the bottom row. I just went to Forever21 to look for it but I guess they don’t have it anymore. =o( If you ever want to get rid of it, let me know! =o)

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 12:51 pm

You look amazing! I love seeing real-life models modeling real fashions! Thanks for a great write-up and adorable pictures! :)

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 12:54 pm

Kimana, keep trying Forever21 – they get such a high turnover. Every time I’m in there, I see cool graphic tees.

Maya, I don’t know why we are such cat magnets lately. Juniata has managed to get into our house no less than three times this past week! Unfortunately, DH is not a cat person and, even if my own resolve is weakening, I am discovering that I am allergic. :-(

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 1:06 pm
Inge

This is absolutely fantastic Shiny! After seeing Marianna and a few other stylish lasses modelling the look on the forum I was already very tempted to start experimenting with my one and only longer blazer, but now I’m roaring to go!-)

You make it look so easy, each and every outfit is stylish and laid-back. Those booties are super fab and I think I need to borrow the tee and red flats you are wearing in the first picture on the left.

Thanks for inspiring us all Shiny!!
(and I’m sorry to hear about your cat allergy-((

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 2:10 pm
PalmFronds

Shiny, you must be one of the most fashionable Mom’s I have ever seen! You look really fantastic, in every outfit. The blazer suits you to a T. After checking out the post today I think I will give it a try.I have my own grey blazer that is more fitted so I’ll try that first before I wander out to purchase a true “boyfriend” blazer.Don’t know if I’ll do the converse, I think I am more likely to stick to ballet flats or oxfords.
Thanks for the write-up!

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 2:31 pm

My fave will have to be the last look. Everyone can wear it. :)

-meream

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 4:25 pm
Kyle

Love, love, love. I am going to wear this very look tomorrow with a borrowed tee and my new uber affordable Walmart blazer. Perfect for a Friday! Thanks for the inspiration.

Posted on November 12th, 2009 at 6:02 pm

Shiny you look incredible in each rendition of this outfit. If we weren’t heading into summer already here I think I could be won over by the idea of a 3/4 sleeve version of this jacket after seeing your pics!

Posted on November 13th, 2009 at 1:34 am

Shiny, great post and you look fantastic! Alright, alright, maybe I will give this bf blazer thing a try; I haven’t really liked the long ones because it’s just too close to the 80s look for me, but I do like that shorter look on you…

Posted on November 13th, 2009 at 4:30 am

Shiny- great write up. I so enjoyed reading it. AND you so rock the BF blazer look. I love the outfit with the red shoes!
I did buy a bf blazer and took it back because I was tired of black. Wish I could find one in hot pink- I’d be all over that!

Posted on November 13th, 2009 at 7:28 am

Shiny, I love all your looks!! Great jacket, and I love how you’re working it. I second the recommendation to look at Delia*s and Forever XXI for tees. I’ve found great stuff both places.

Chewy Spaghetti, I love how you used dressier pants with the blazer and converse. Great look!

Posted on November 13th, 2009 at 8:05 am

What a great write-up :) I enjoy your sense of humour, and you’re very good at explaining all the details – much appreciated. You look great in this formula!

I’m not so fearful of the boyfriend blazer now, and will be looking for one.

Posted on November 13th, 2009 at 4:20 pm

Shiny, I thought that I had commented on this yesterday but I guess I just composed a reply in my own head. You truly look fantastic and not “too young” in the least! I love it how you can dress the boyfriend blazer up or down a little, too. My favorite is the lower left-hand one with your cute red flats, banana bag, and black and white graphic tee.

I did try a few boyfriend blazers on at Nordstrom the other day, but I’m afraid I just haven’t found the right cut. I toyed with the idea of this one because the shape looked cute, but I couldn’t find it in store, and now it’s only available in Medium. Oh well. I’ll keep an eye out just in case!

Posted on November 13th, 2009 at 8:15 pm

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